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Related: About this forumI have such sad news to share. Tudor just passed away.
He was OK this morning. As the day went on he got quieter and sleepier. Unfortunately there are NO emergency vet clinics open on the weekend in this whole county!!!
I have been sitting with him, all afternoon, giving him liquids and holding him. About 10 minutes ago I knew he was gone.
I did everything I could and have no idea what caused his death. Maybe his mother sensed something I didn't. and that's why she neglected him.
The one thing I can say I'm grateful for is that I gave him one week of life he wouldn't otherwise have had.
And I am crushed beyond repair.
Thank all of you who were such a part of his short existence on this earth.
Laffy Kat
(16,524 posts)What a shock. I don't know what to say, except he knew he was cared for and loved his entire life. You are an angel.
Dear_Prudence
(833 posts)Walleye
(35,681 posts)3catwoman3
(25,453 posts)Perhaps it was the fading kitten syndrome.
You gave him a great week.
pazzyanne
(6,601 posts)I've lost an occasional kitten to "fading kitten" syndrome, a couple from my house cats and 4 more feral rescue kittens. My dear, Siwsan, as sad as these deaths are, nothing can be done about them. The term given to kittens dying between birth and when theyre weaned is fading kittens. Hypothermia Hypoglycemia (low blood sugar) and Dehydration are common causes, especially with feral kitties. You were doing the right things, but they don't always work. My heart goes out to you, but the final care you gave Tudor was all you could do in this case.
Safe crossing of the Rainbow Bridge, Baby Tudor. You were loved while you were here.
soldierant
(7,903 posts)blm
(113,822 posts)TexasTowelie
(116,812 posts)At least he had the one week where he could play with the other kitties and also know that he was loved.
MoonlightHillFarm
(58 posts)This is heartbreaking. I am so very sorry. He was lucky to have you love and care for him.
virgdem
(2,206 posts)You did all you could for sweet little Tudor. Kittens are so fragile and sometimes they don't make it for a variety of reasons.
I know you are heart sick, but at least you made a mighty effort to save him. And that matters.
Please take care of yourself.
we can do it
(12,776 posts)sinkingfeeling
(53,000 posts)Arkansas Granny
(31,828 posts)LoisB
(8,675 posts)spooky3
(36,209 posts)MLAA
(18,602 posts)I am thinking of you and sending hugs during this heartbreak.
58Sunliner
(4,982 posts)Nt
Ocelot II
(120,883 posts)You did everything you could - but even if a vet had been available it wouldn't have made a difference for a fading kitten. Sadly, it just happens. You gave him love and comfort while you had him and that's everything.
revmclaren
(2,613 posts)You did everything you could and you were there at the end for him to give comfort.
Diamond_Dog
(34,711 posts)wendyb-NC
(3,810 posts)I know you are beside yourself with heart break. Poor little fellow. You are right, you gave him every comfort, nutrition and fluids and love for the week. You are so kind and generous, a true advocate for the kittens that are born without homes.
Poor little guy, probably had a physical impairment that caused him to not thrive like his siblings. Take care of you, and your own cats.
You are a blessing to all of them. May little Tudor R.I.P.
MacKasey
(1,183 posts)Beartracks
(13,576 posts)AllyCat
(17,105 posts)Thank you for caring for him.
wnylib
(24,407 posts)would not have had otherwise. We do what we can but some things are beyond our control.
Take care of yourself as you grieve, and cherish the other rescued ones that you have with you.
ALBliberal
(2,845 posts)godsentme
(106 posts)He was warm, fed and knew love. I'm certain he is thankful to you for that. As am I.
ALBliberal
(2,845 posts)fierywoman
(8,105 posts)with him when he passed.
Mr.Bill
(24,795 posts)You made us all feel as if he was our own. Thank you for bringing him into our lives. We all share the sadness along with many nice memories.
2naSalit
(92,732 posts)When you said he was lethargic this morning I had a bad feeling. I didn't want to say anything, I could have had that feeling for no reason.
I'm so sad, you had so much hope for him after all that you both had gone through.
Snuggle close to your other babies tonight. Maybe they knew too.
Freddie
(9,695 posts)Got worried when you mentioned he was covered with fleas. I lost a kitten years ago to what the vet called flea anemia - a severe allergy to flea bites that an older cat can survive but not a young kitten. What a crushing loss! Give all your fur babies big hugs.
majdrfrtim
(340 posts)Please be gentle with yourself through this, Siwsan.
c-rational
(2,867 posts)MN2theMax
(1,720 posts)I am so sorry. You worked so hard trying to help that little guy thrive.
Know you must be heartbroken, and Im right there with you.
Thank you for watching out for him. 💔
Karadeniz
(23,424 posts)important role!! Tudor was SO fortunate to have you during his short time on earth. When you described his behavior this morning, I feared he was leaving us. I suspect he was born with failure of a vital organ. Years ago I had a little one who began screaming late at night. Since he was such a greedy guts, I made him a bottle. He emphatically refused it, which for him was an alarm. I whisked him up and raced to the emergency vet, a five minute drive, rubbing him in my lap. He was still alive when I handed him over, but they immediately told me he was gone. Based on what I don't know... they did draw some blood...
They thought his pancreas had failed. He was only a few weeks old, but I had his future mapped out, he was such a doll. Thank God I still had his brother to take care. I still had a purpose. Having your other little ones will be your biggest help. RIP Tudor... we all loved you!
debm55
(36,163 posts)Polly Hennessey
(7,458 posts)My stomach feels sick. You and Tudor always made my day better. All of your kittens bring much happiness to all of us. Tudor, you werent here long but you made a difference.
Siwsan please know that we are all grieving with you. Remember, you also bring us much joy. Dont stop the kitten stories we love 💕 them and you.
InstantGratification
(281 posts)I lurk on your threads because you are always positive and helping those who are ignored by most of our society. Let me say this LOUD AND PROUD to you. **YOU** gave him so much more in that short time than fate was going to give him. That extra week of love, of living, of just being a cat. The chance to sit in your lap or sleep on your shoulder. The chance to romp in your yard. The chance to play with siblings. The chance to be a CAT for awhile. But most of all, the chance to KNOW that he was so very **LOVED**. All those were things that he wouldn't have had without your love and doting attention. We all thank you and admire you for what you do and for sharing it so we can be a small part of it too. I don't think there is a soul on DU who would disagree that you are a SAINT.
THANK YOU from all of us!!!!!!!!
ShazzieB
(18,678 posts)I literally gasped when I saw the title of this o.p.! I am so, so, SO sorry to hear this heart-breaking news, and I can only imagine how terrible how you must feel. I hope you can somehow find a way to take some comfort in the knowledge of how much you did for him, how much love you gave him, and how how hard you worked to care for him and make his life the best it could be. He obviously formed a strong bond with you during the short time you had with him, and I am sure your presence gave him comfort at the end.
Tudor was a beautiful, delightful little boy, and I know it must be incredibly hard to lose him. I hope that the passage of time will bring you healing and that your memories of this dear little boy will always be close to your heart and eventually be a source of joy and not only one of sorrow to you. I also hope your kidcat family will be in a snuggly mood tonight and surround you with warmth and purrs to help cushion your grief.
Thank you for sharing him with us this past week.
😿💔😢
PrincessMorgan
(61 posts)Bless your heart. 😢💔
MontanaMama
(24,024 posts)Thank you for giving that beautiful boy a wonderful life as short as it was by our standards. You gave us joy via Tudor. You gave Tudor love, food, water and security. You gave him a gentle crossing. I wish I could hug you.
Ellipsis
(9,183 posts)I'm here ... We're here. Pardon me, fuck
Randomthought
(897 posts)He knew he was loved
stage left
(3,016 posts)I feel like I knew that little mite and his brothers and sisters. You gave him a week of joy and for that you are blessed.
onecaliberal
(35,835 posts)The tender loving care of a mother. 💔 damit.
PatrickforB
(15,109 posts)herding cats
(19,612 posts)I know how hard you tried, how you let the little man in your heart, and how much you hoped for a better outcome.
I'm crying for and with you. I'm deeply sorry he didn't make it.
WhiteTara
(30,168 posts)little Tudor cross the rainbow bridge. It is such a privilege. I'm sorry for your pain. You gave him such love.
Bayard
(24,145 posts)He knew you were holding him, and he loved you even more for being there to comfort him.
calimary
(84,340 posts)Thank you for sharing him with us even for such a short time. Such a sweet little thing. Sounds like his passing was quiet and peaceful, and you sure made him feel loved.
highplainsdem
(52,382 posts)and great care.
I believe he's playing happily at the Bridge now, healthy and watched over by your other loved ones, and you will see him again.
judesedit
(4,510 posts)I am devastated, so I know you are absolutely crushed. He must have had some degenerative illness. Organs not functioning correctly, or something. You made him sooo happy while he was here. Keep remembering that. He's now jumping and playing on the Rainbow Bridge with all the lovely ones that went before him. Bless you for giving so much of yourself.
Lemon Lyman
(1,477 posts)I'm sorry Siwsan. I love your posts. Losing one of your fur babies is just awful. We're all thinking of you and your kitties.
Fla Dem
(25,692 posts)You did all you could for him. He had love and caring in his short life thanks to your kind and caring heart.
cilla4progress
(25,918 posts)Grumpy Old Guy
(3,563 posts)You did everything you could.
SimplyHadEnough
(67 posts)You have my deepest heartfelt condolences on the loss of your sweet kitten Tudor. I truly enjoyed your updates on his adventures and felled in love with him too. You did all that you could to help him. Know that we share your loss and will miss him too. Your not alone in your grief. Take care of yourself and hugged your other Kitties tight.
Jack-o-Lantern
(1,010 posts)littlemissmartypants
(25,492 posts)appleannie1
(5,203 posts)them no matter what care I gave. Even feeding and keeping their bladders empty and bowels moving every two hours round the clock and laying them on warm water bottles with a cover over them does not always work. You did everything you could so don't blame yourself. Mother nature sometimes knows more than we do.
bluboid
(684 posts)I'm so glad you were there for him...
Take care of you, knowing that you did everything you could.
PortTack
(34,655 posts)LeftyLucie
(37 posts)Artcatt
(344 posts)catrose
(5,236 posts)JustinBulletin
(89 posts)You did everything you could do. Please take care of yourself. These losses always take such a toll even when we only know them such a short time. They are all so precious. And so are you for taking such good care of them.
niyad
(119,950 posts)and comfort to our grieving Siwsan.
My heat is breaking for you, dear friend. You gave him a wonderful, even though so very brief, life full of love and caring, joy and comfort and play. He is going to come back, in a strong, healthy body some day.
We are all here for you.
Rest well, Tiny Tudor.
Phoenix61
(17,649 posts)keopeli
(3,579 posts)Your soul and Tudors soul will always be together along with all your blessed kitty family.
And may it be true for all of us.
peacebuzzard
(5,267 posts)a sweet gentle life cut short...I am so grateful you shared his brief little story.
Shipwack
(2,311 posts)My condolences, and I am glad you were there to make his short life as good as possible.
mercuryblues
(15,114 posts)Donkees
(32,398 posts)Keep your heart open for the next fragile soul seeking refuge.
❤️
2naSalit
(92,732 posts)Even though we were only distant observers we were able to send love and concern. You gave him some joy and an easier passing than he would have had, he knew love and that is worth more than we can ever know. He was a happy kitty for what time he had and it was because of you and your compassion. Please try to find some comfort in that.
And there are all those others who also need you, give them some love for me today too. Remember, we're here with you.
hlthe2b
(106,365 posts)You have yet another little guardian angel hovering over you and your efforts toward his extended family of kitties.
brer cat
(26,281 posts)May the sweet little one RIP.
Goddessartist
(2,067 posts)You are a very special person. Fly high little Tudor, over that Rainbow Bridge...
LetMyPeopleVote
(154,549 posts)Glamrock
(11,994 posts)I too fell in love with him. I reached out to you to see if he needed a forever home. My deepest condolences.
Mad_Dem_X
(9,781 posts)TNNurse
(7,125 posts)Picaro
(1,799 posts)You did everything you could have. And you rained love down on him.
orangecrush
(21,817 posts)mountain grammy
(27,277 posts)Hugs to you
scarletlib
(3,487 posts)You did your best. You loved him and cared for him. I am so sorry and sad for you.
Aaeia
(92 posts)You are a most wonderful person loving and caring as you do. But, even then every now and then your heart gets broken. I know you'll just spread his love to all your other wee charges. Blessings on all your efforts.
Saoirse9
(3,799 posts)Thank you for loving him.
Raven123
(6,050 posts)gademocrat7
(11,167 posts)Rebl2
(14,709 posts)Know this. You did all you could for him and you gave him love and care. Thank you for sharing him with us. Take care of yourself. 🕊️
Jean Genie
(409 posts)So Sorry. We all fell a bit in love with tiny Tudor. Know that you made his brief life a happier, better one than he might otherwise have had, had you not so lovingly cared for him.
May he always be a happy memory for you, and may he now frolic forever with the other kitty cat angels at the Rainbow Bridge.
Be good to yourself. You are the best cat mom ever!
Siwsan our hearts are with little Tudor as he makes his transition. We are here to grieve with you my dear.
As a long time lurker who never posts and mother of two foundling kittehs may I add another word or two of comfort?
How many people came out of lurkdom to send their love and condolences to you? Multiply that by 1000s who dont post but wish they could. YOU are loved Siwsan. May that love, warmth and healing energy envelop you in the coming days.
CousinIT
(10,209 posts)You added comfort and joy to his short little life. Because of you, he knew love and warmth and comfort.
1WorldHope
(904 posts)You have so much love and support here on DU. What would you do without all these friends?. You also have a houseful of friends who have probably missed you and will be there to grieve and comfort you until the cows come home. Bless you sweet Siwsan. 🪷
kimbutgar
(23,283 posts)femmedem
(8,444 posts)I don't have words to tell you how sorry I am.
GoldenMezzoDiva
(105 posts)so very sorry to hear...such a little love!
lostnfound
(16,643 posts)Is worth 165 recommends..
We are sending you a collective hug. Hope it helps.
A DU special.
cactuslady
(14 posts)You gave him care , love and happiness . I am so sorry for your loss . I think all of your admirers got attached to him too. I like to think of the rainbow bridge for comfort.
GPV
(73,038 posts)avebury
(11,073 posts)BumRushDaShow
(142,398 posts)So sorry to have seen this. I have been getting to know your latest set of kittehs and have been fascinated how you come up with the names. That little one has gone over the rainbow now and is at peace, and the journey was a gentle one.
Jilly_in_VA
(10,890 posts)It sounds like Fading Kitten Syndrome, perhaps also flea anemia. You did what you knew to do for him and kept him fed, warm, and most importantly, LOVED, for the last week of his short life. I'm sure he'll tell the others all about you on the other side of Rainbow Bridge.
CaptainTruth
(7,222 posts)I hope you can find some comfort in knowing you did everything you could for him, & he knew he was loved.
Marthe48
(19,033 posts)You think his Mom knew something and I think you did too. Immediate bond and exceptional care of a poor little kitty.
MorbidButterflyTat
(2,633 posts)I read your post last night, and have been thinking of you all day today.
You have a real gift. Not everyone could do what you have done for these sweet babies, even people with love and compassion in their hearts.
You are a gift, to the kittens and cats you save, and to a person like me, who appreciates and admires all you do, and that you choose to share your loving journey with us.
My warmest thoughts and deepest sympathy are with you.
Goddess bless.
Chicagogrl1
(474 posts)You are a true cat heroine. Mother nature can be cruel. You did your best & that is all anyone can do. Sending you lots of hugs.