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Jilly_in_VA

(10,890 posts)
Tue Oct 31, 2023, 01:26 PM Oct 2023

Update on Toby

I posted a couple of weeks ago about a senior cat, Toby, that was admitted to our shelter at the age of 16 because his human got too old to care for him properly. He'd lived outdoors his entire life and was skin and bones and filthy when he came to us, but was a sweet, friendly boy nonetheless. Everyone in the stray jail fell in love with him and petted and spoiled him, giving him delicacies and the best of wet food and a clean blanket and bed every day. I had decided to bring him home on hospice care, knowing he probably didn't have long, and had set my studio up so that he could live there, where my highly cat-allergic husband would not come in contact with him.

However, when I went in today, I found his kennel empty. When I inquired after him, Natalie informed me that he had crossed over to Rainbow Bridge sometime Saturday night, and when the crew came in Sunday morning, they found him peacefully curled in his bed. It's comforting to know that he was loved by many and that he lived his last days in a warm place where he was spoiled rotten. Many tears have been shed over him. May he frolic like a kitten in the grasses over the bridge!
This is, as far as I know, his last photo.

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Update on Toby (Original Post) Jilly_in_VA Oct 2023 OP
Bless his sweet soul Siwsan Oct 2023 #1
🕯 irisblue Oct 2023 #2
Lady Bast, please take Toby gently home in Your loving arms, niyad Oct 2023 #3
So sorry for your loss of sweet Toby virgdem Oct 2023 #4
Sorry for your loss. onecaliberal Oct 2023 #5
Several years ago a terribly beat up, scarred up, injured, skinny as a rail orange striped flashman13 Oct 2023 #6
I am prepared now Jilly_in_VA Oct 2023 #7
I've taken in more than a few older (or feral) cats slightlv Oct 2023 #8
Having just lost my 17 year old Baby Girl, I can understand your sorrow and also your Fla Dem Nov 2023 #9
May my white kitty and Toby meet. roamer65 Nov 2023 #10

niyad

(119,942 posts)
3. Lady Bast, please take Toby gently home in Your loving arms,
Tue Oct 31, 2023, 03:11 PM
Oct 2023

and send blessings to those who blessed his last earthly days.

flashman13

(854 posts)
6. Several years ago a terribly beat up, scarred up, injured, skinny as a rail orange striped
Tue Oct 31, 2023, 03:52 PM
Oct 2023

cat (my first orange cat) showed up at my house. I got him treated for his injuries, brushed him, cleaned him up, fattened him up, and gave him a nice warm bed (he wasn't feral but obviously hadn't had a home in a long time). He was very sweet and became very attached to me and me to him. He was with me a little over two years when his kidneys started to give out. Not long afterward, on my birthday, I found him in his bed nearly comatose and I was forced to put him to sleep. Clearly in those last years he was a very happy cat. I'm glad that I could give him a good home.

slightlv

(4,332 posts)
8. I've taken in more than a few older (or feral) cats
Tue Oct 31, 2023, 06:27 PM
Oct 2023

whose days were numbered. They live with you just long enough to leave their pawprints on your heart, and that heart breaks when they're gone. Thank you for giving Toby such loving care in his last days. As an elder now, myself, this type of situation is worrisome. I've already begun to make plans should something happen to me before I've got all my affairs in order. That they should continue on in their spoiled, adored lives is the most important thing to me.

Lady Bastet, welcome Toby home with your open, loving arms. Introduce him to the eternal fields of kitty Elysium that he may frolic and play in days of wonder until he's once again joined with those who loved him most. Bless all the 2-leggeds who care for your babies... keep their hearts eternally young and resilient despite the loss. May their way be blessed with the donations and support they need to continue doing their most important calling.

Fla Dem

(25,692 posts)
9. Having just lost my 17 year old Baby Girl, I can understand your sorrow and also your
Thu Nov 2, 2023, 01:08 PM
Nov 2023

happiness that Toby spent his last days in peace and with love.

That's all I wanted my girl to have in her last days.

Maybe they'll hook up on the other side of the bridge.

Hugs to you.

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