Aaaargh.

[teenagebambam]

I'm in the unenviable position of weighing possibilities against practicality. With not only my own fate at stake. Do I blame Neptune or Chiron?

[Ricochet21]

1. Neither are to blame.

You need to explain a bit more.
Planets are energy, like gasoline - we drive the car. I wish you good endings.

P.S. I need your birth time

[teenagebambam]

2. 5:30 pm

The possibilities: My partner has a job offer on the table. Lateral move for him, but slightly better salary and better working environment.

The practicalities: I would be leaving my full-time job (which I have as a direct result of his current job) and leaping into the unknown. Last time we did that we lost a house and all our savings, and haven't recovered financially yet - though, in the grand scheme of things, everything wort of "worked out".

[BlueIris]

4. I would never base major life decisions on astrology alone, but

I say err on the side of caution during Mars Rx. In my experience, most "new" projects started under this influence crash and burn as soon as the planet goes direct. (Hey, I said most; your free will should determine which path to take.)

As for the non-astrological element...I don't think one partner should pursue a new opportunity if the other partner loses their economic independence and job security altogether. Especially if it could hurt the relationship's ability to function or the couple's ability to survive as a unit.

[Ricochet21]

5. The chart tells me very clearly

you need to trust the universe.

I KNOW this is easy to say.
You have a bucket pattern to SATURN RX IN PISCES.

Even though you risked before, and it failed. I don't think it had anything to do with the fact that you risked. If you were "dragging your spirit behind while you were risking; THAT is the issue. It has simply reappeared (the same lesson). I would not let Mars Rx have anything to do with my decision at this point even though it has effects. I believe it's a much deeper issue.

A distant father? taught you not to trust and let the universe in? Possibly? That's where the conquest needs to happen, then, it's all clear sailing from there. Neptune having become very LOUD right now has made the issue reoccur. It's there to tell you that you are READY to open up spiritually. Ultimately, this is cause for celebration.
Best of luck to you two.

[teenagebambam]

6. Thanks, Rick.

Already since posting this morning I have marshalled some fortitude and reached out to contacts in the possible-new area and am feeling better about moving on - or the still-distinct possibility that the move won't happen and we'll have to figure out how to make what we want happen here.

[magical thyme]

3. agggrrrgghhhh!

No suggestions, but

Does this involve a geographic move? Why must you leave your job too?