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Related: About this forumPope demonstrates colossal ignorance and hypocrisy
OK yeah so it's my headline. Sue me.
http://talkingpointsmemo.com/livewire/pope-francis-religious-fundamentalism
"the simplistic reductionism which sees only good or evil"?
So popey, when you said that marriage equality was "a move of the Father of Lies who wishes to confuse and deceive the children of God" - was that simplistic reductionism?
Or how about when you said that gender theory was "ideological colonization" much like that which "was done by the dictators of the last century. They came with their own doctrine -- think of the Balilla, think of the Hitler Youth." - what was that?
A hateful bigot AND a flaming hypocrite. Great guy.
Surya Gayatri
(15,445 posts)Blinkered by tradition, burdened by centuries of convention, yes. Hateful? No.
I do NOT perceive of him as an inherently spiteful or malevolent man.
Would unrec, if DU3 still had that feature.
Goblinmonger
(22,340 posts)"a move of the Father of Lies who wishes to confuse and deceive the children of God"
Does that sound loving to you?
Surya Gayatri
(15,445 posts)...is what that statement makes him, IMHO. I do NOT believe that he "hates" LGBT people or marriage equality.
In the context of his training and background, he erroneously considers these social realities as foreign to the tenants of Christ's teachings.
Wrong, very wrong, yes. Hateful? No.
Goblinmonger
(22,340 posts)and when someone is just "blinkered by tradition"? And what's the damn difference?
Surya Gayatri
(15,445 posts)The very "hatefulness" and malevolence which the OP ascribes to Pope Francis in an seemingly unwarranted way.
IMHO, one may be hidebound and blinkered without malevolent intent. Misguided ignorance does NOT automatically equate to malice.
PeaceNikki
(27,985 posts)Just wondering.
Surya Gayatri
(15,445 posts)mr blur
(7,753 posts)PeaceNikki
(27,985 posts)Surya Gayatri
(15,445 posts)Secondly, if by using the epithet "hateful", your anger is assauged and you are in some way mollified, have at it.
As I have said in all of my posts in this thread, my opinion is that misguided ignorance does not necessarily equate to malice.
PeaceNikki
(27,985 posts)He said it's child abuse. Child abuse. When two people who are in love raise a child with love. Calling that child abuse simply because they don't have different genitals is hate. I don't care how you spin it, it's hate. Hate driven by misguided ignorance is still hate.
Hate.
Surya Gayatri
(15,445 posts)PeaceNikki
(27,985 posts)Surya Gayatri
(15,445 posts)PeaceNikki
(27,985 posts)And it should fill everyone with rage. It's shameful and inexcusable.
Surya Gayatri
(15,445 posts)should "fill everyone with rage" is a dictate to which one may or may not be willing to acquiesce.
PeaceNikki
(27,985 posts)with rage.
Surya Gayatri
(15,445 posts)Disturbed and dissatisfied, yes. Fulminating with fury, no.
trotsky
(49,533 posts)They were (and still are) WONDERFUL parents.
The thought that anyone would say that loving home was abusive makes me very angry. Not "disturbed" or "dissatisfied" but legitimately angry that someone is promoting that kind of hatred against decent human beings who love each other and their kids.
Surya Gayatri
(15,445 posts)Anger is a powerful emotion. Uncontrolled anger may cause increased anxiety, high blood pressure and headaches, and trigger fights or abuse.
Health problems with anger
The constant flood of stress chemicals and associated metabolic changes that go with recurrent unmanaged anger can eventually cause harm to many different systems of the body.
Some of the short and long-term health problems that have been linked to unmanaged anger include:
headache
digestion problems, such as abdominal pain
insomnia
increased anxiety
depression
high blood pressure
skin problems, such as eczema
heart attack
stroke.
trotsky
(49,533 posts)and have moved to attacking me personally for "uncontrolled anger."
Great. Way to set the example.
Surya Gayatri
(15,445 posts)exposé on the effects of anger on the body.
trotsky
(49,533 posts)Anger is a powerful motivator and not necessarily a bad thing. If you don't get angry that a person is preaching hatred against other human beings, I think you have a problem. Not me.
Surya Gayatri
(15,445 posts)the blood pressure and stomach acid.
trotsky
(49,533 posts)so I guess that's that. Embrace the bigot. I won't be joining you.
Surya Gayatri
(15,445 posts)I have not insisted or even requested that you "join" me in not hating. Quite simply, I've steadfastly maintained my own personal refusal to hate.
trotsky
(49,533 posts)You've established you are the superior human being on this thread, and who knows, perhaps the planet! Maybe you could go teach the pope to quit bashing gay people? Thanks much!
PeaceNikki
(27,985 posts)The arrogance in which the poster waltzed into this thread is mind-numbing.
People are venting, ffs. Get off your high horse.
trotsky
(49,533 posts)Just like all the popes before him.
I don't think I should have to apologize for getting angry when my LGBTQ allies and friends are disparaged and attacked.
PeaceNikki
(27,985 posts)That really bothered me. I have AMAZING gay friends who are fanfuckingtastic parents and the idea that he calls that abuse does make me filled with rage. IT brings tears to my eyes.
This shit is still happening, right now, in the gold old USA and this fucker is propagating the hate towards gays:
http://gothamist.com/2015/09/19/mother_daughter_describe_anti-gay_a.php
Yeah, rage and fury is what I feel and I do not appreciate being talked down to like I am the asshole here.
Surya Gayatri
(15,445 posts)In the same vein, my emotions are my own, and I politely demur at hating.
Surya Gayatri
(15,445 posts)I simply do my best to do right as my conscience dictates--or in other terms, to lead a dharmic life.
That being said, I sincerely doubt that the Pope would find my views on morality or right living to be of interest.
Lordquinton
(7,886 posts)He endorces actual real "It's ok to hit them, just not the face" child abuse, with added instruction on how not to get caught doing it.
Plus you somehow got confused from saying the Pope is hateful (which is a light term in this circumstance) to a personal hate thing.
What actions would be required for someone to be considered "hateful?"
Warren Stupidity
(48,181 posts)an ignorant idiot and thus should be given a pass on his utterances of hateful bigotry.
Do I have that right?
Surya Gayatri
(15,445 posts)No "pass" has been or should be given. I do not subscribe to the RC's doctrine or dogma. I am not and never have been a Roman Catholic and I am not a practising Christian.
That said, I do not hate Pope Francis for his misguided utterances.
Warren Stupidity
(48,181 posts)I refuse to believe that he should get a pass out of ignorance. He's a fucking jesuit. They are never ignorant.
Surya Gayatri
(15,445 posts)One can know one's chosen subject matter with encyclopedic scope, and still be utterly ignorant of alternative realities.
Lordquinton
(7,886 posts)It's not welcome.
Surya Gayatri
(15,445 posts)choose to experience is strictly their affair. Collective consciousness notwithstanding, emotions are very subjective and personal things. It is difficult, if not impossible, to "make" someone feel something, with the exception of natural or trained manipulators.
My personal choice is not to hate and thus to avoid anger's very deleterious effects on my health--both physical and mental.
This has not always been an easy choice to honour. Nevertheless, the dividends have been definite over the long term.
PeaceNikki
(27,985 posts)because we're fucking fed up with Wonderpope being painted as some hero to the left.
You have repeatedly done so and you are perceived as thinking you have some moral superiority.
Surya Gayatri
(15,445 posts)is frequently in the eye of the beholder. I do not consider you 'hateful' anymore than I perceive the Pope as malicious, malevolent or spiteful.
I simply demur before the implied invitation to detest the man.
Lordquinton
(7,886 posts)I'm talking about coming into the A&A safe haven and accusing others of being angry, because that's a long running attack on minority groups to keep them in place. Go to the their AA group and tell them they're angry if you still don't understand.
Surya Gayatri
(15,445 posts)posts in this thread, people have said:
Anger and rage may indeed be appropriate responses for some people in some cases.
As I've steadfastly contended from my first post here, however, my personal choice is not to hate and thus to avoid anger's very deleterious effects on my health--both physical and mental.
http://www.democraticunderground.com/123046178#post69
PeaceNikki
(27,985 posts)Surya Gayatri
(15,445 posts)"Anger & rage": a semantic pairing often used for rhetorical effect.
"Patronizing & arrogant" would be another such pairing.
PeaceNikki
(27,985 posts)Today I find myself annoyed by you.
I'm done with you on this shit.
See ya.
Surya Gayatri
(15,445 posts)Lordquinton
(7,886 posts)Post 10
Secondly, if by using the epithet "hateful", your anger is assauged and you are in some way mollified, have at it.
You really don't seem to get this, Maybe you should do some more reflection on why people might have strong feelings about a respected giving instructions on how to beat children without being caught.
it seems like you're no where near as far along on your emotional journey as you think you are.
Surya Gayatri
(15,445 posts)it seems like you're no where near as far along on your emotional journey as you think you are."
I am awed and humbled and will endeavor henceforth to amend my manifestly misguided metaphysical beliefs.
mr blur
(7,753 posts)Surya Gayatri
(15,445 posts)Read the post to which my reply was directed.
Pompous self-importance is a wide, two-laned avenue.
Lordquinton
(7,886 posts)I can't help but think that you're not here in good faith.
Surya Gayatri
(15,445 posts)Good or not--my judgement is purely subjective.
Lordquinton
(7,886 posts)You can dish it out, but you certainly can't take it.
Surya Gayatri
(15,445 posts)Lordquinton
(7,886 posts)Whatever helps you sleep at night.
Surya Gayatri
(15,445 posts)mr blur
(7,753 posts)Surya Gayatri
(15,445 posts)trotsky
(49,533 posts)Now are smileys a sign of spiritual maturity or not?
Surya Gayatri
(15,445 posts)the least of social refinements to respond when addressed directly.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/J._L._Austin
John Langshaw "J. L." Austin (26 March 1911 8 February 1960) was a British philosopher of language and leading proponent of ordinary language philosophy, perhaps best-known for developing the theory of speech acts.
beam me up scottie
(57,349 posts)And fuck the pope.
Sideways.
He's a homophobic, misogynistic bigot.
Anyone who deprives others of their human rights is hateful.
Surya Gayatri
(15,445 posts)Now, if only you could "beam me up", too!
beam me up scottie
(57,349 posts)No room for pope apologists on my starship.
Surya Gayatri
(15,445 posts)PeaceNikki
(27,985 posts)beam me up scottie
(57,349 posts)I really don't like seeing them in here, though.
Nice of them to drop in and school us on what is and is not hateful.
trotsky
(49,533 posts)adjective
1. arousing hate or deserving to be hated: the hateful oppression of dictators.
2. unpleasant; dislikable; distasteful: She found her domestic chores hateful.
3. full of or expressing hate; malignant; malevolent: a hateful denunciatory speech.
Your loving pope said that homosexual couples adopting children is CHILD ABUSE.
Explain to me how that is not hateful? Child abuse is terrible, I certainly hate it. That's the imagery he chose to use. HE CHOSE.
I stand by hateful.
Surya Gayatri
(15,445 posts)intended one, and the one with which I took issue.
"malignant; malevolent"--two qualifiers that I personally would not assign to Pope Francis.
trotsky
(49,533 posts)He believes that souls in a state of grave sin will go to hell.
He believes that homosexuality is a grave sin.
Add it all up. He's fundamentally no different than Fred Phelps was on this issue, he just puts on a friendly smile and doesn't wave the offensive signs.
You can embrace the bigot all you want. I won't.
Surya Gayatri
(15,445 posts)OTOH, Fred Phelps' intent was manifestly to inflict as much anguish and pain as possible.
As all great philosophers will concur, "intention" is the motor of malice.
jeff47
(26,549 posts)So he's helpful on climate change and economics.
He's obviously not helpful on LGBT and "women's issues".
So use him when he is a useful tool, and oppose him when he is not.
PeaceNikki
(27,985 posts)You cannot be taken seriously on climate change or poverty without bringing population/birth control into the equation.
You just can't.
jeff47
(26,549 posts)The way he's useful on climate change is to get some people to actually care about climate change.
Once that door is open, it can be easier to work on steps to fix it. He won't help reduce population growth, so we'll have to.
trotsky
(49,533 posts)If we as liberals dismiss his authority on LGBTQ, women, reproductive issues, etc., then why can't conservatives simply dismiss his authority on climate change and economics just as easily?
jeff47
(26,549 posts)then that is helpful.
It's not zero-sum.
Different majorities will have to be brought to bear to solve these different problems. So use something like, "Even the Pope tells you to care about the poor" when you're fighting for the poor. It's not an endorsement of everything that comes from him, but still can be useful in getting some groups to change from prosperity gospel-lite to supporting efforts to reduce poverty.
Those people who were just convinced to help fight poverty will not be convinced to fight for LGBT rights or reproductive issues. So the pope becomes irrelevant - they already oppose, and the pope opposing doesn't change their mind. To advance those causes, we will have to assemble a different pool of people.
For example, actual libertarians might like "Get government out of our bedrooms" while never supporting economic reform efforts.
trotsky
(49,533 posts)My point is that to pretend he is any kind of authority on ANYTHING other than the dogma of the RCC is a mistake.
(And by ruling out reproductive rights, he betrays a total ignorance and glaring insincerity on TRULY understanding how we address poverty and the environment.)
jeff47
(26,549 posts)The people who follow him already oppose abortion rights. He's not going to switch a significant number from pro-choice to anti-choice.
trotsky
(49,533 posts)You mean Catholics? Because no, not all of them do.
But if you disregard his ability to change minds on that issue, then why do you think he will help with climate change and poverty, especially when he rules out one of the major factors right from the start?
jeff47
(26,549 posts)Because the same dogma that causes him and his followers to oppose abortion should cause him and his followers to help with climate change and poverty.
trotsky
(49,533 posts)"Because the same dogma that causes him and his followers to oppose abortion should cause him and his followers to help with climate change and poverty."
Say what?!? I just pointed how his followers DON'T all agree with him on abortion. If they are free to ignore him on that, then right-wingers are equally free to ignore him on climate and poverty.
jeff47
(26,549 posts)So they aren't the target.
There are christians who are suddenly noticing the stuff in the Bible about helping the poor and not worshiping wealth, because papering over those has been used to manipulate them. That is helpful in fighting poverty.
These same christians were already well aware that abortion is evil, EEEEEEEEEEVIILLLLLLLL, because that has been used to manipulate them for years.
The change in the first paragraph helps. The second paragraph has no change. The fact that most catholics ignore his demands on birth control doesn't make the first paragraph go away.
trotsky
(49,533 posts)Right-wingers are the ones fighting action against climate change! Everyone else is already on the right page! So again what the hell do we need the wonderpope for?
There are christians who are suddenly noticing the stuff in the Bible about helping the poor and not worshiping wealth, because papering over those has been used to manipulate them.
Are there? Really? How many? Do you have any facts to back up these statements? Studies? Surveys?
You are saying multiple contradictory things. Accept the pope's authority and help, but don't accept his authority or help. He can change minds, but not the minds that matter. And so forth.
jeff47
(26,549 posts)We're evil satanic atheists. The Pope, on the other hand, isn't.
Except they aren't all on the right page. There's lots who aren't particularly interested in doing anything to fix it right now. Hopefully we'll be able to use the Pope's prodding to push some of those people into a more active role.
Yeah, it's not like you only needed to be conscious the last 30 years to notice prosperity gospel growing among the religious.
Again, hopefully we'll be able to use the Pope's prodding to get more movement.
That's because you keep insisting I am speaking in absolutes. I am not.
On some issues, the Pope's authority can help us. On other issues, it can not.
On some issues, he can change minds because he's saying something different than what has been said the last few decades. On other issues, he's repeating the tired rhetoric that isn't helpful.
This isn't an all-or-nothing situation.
trotsky
(49,533 posts)I give up. Have the last word.
jeff47
(26,549 posts)You will not get a fundamentalist baptist to listen to the pope.
Fortunately, we don't have to convince only fundamentalist baptists.
Lordquinton
(7,886 posts)He does not vary from Benedict on any issue, he just doesn't look like Emperor Palpatine, and wasn't the actual grand Inquisitor.
Shall I bold it? He's not saying anything different from the last Pope, he just has better PR.
jeff47
(26,549 posts)Instead they spouted the occasional platitude.
The guy's no saint. Half to three quarters of his positions are awful. The other half to one quarter can be useful.
PeaceNikki
(27,985 posts)He didn't get the attention Pope McDreamy gets, but their views are identical.
Lordquinton
(7,886 posts)Half to three quarters is awful, and the other half to quarter is base level human decency (Unless you're a woman, a child, or gay)
The point is that he's not changing anything, he's just trying to focus people away from the bad stuff, until he moves to make actual changes, he's really not an ally you'd want, cause even in his white house address he brought along his hate speech.
Maybe if he performed a gay marriage we could revisit this, but until then he's a poison pill.
Cartoonist
(7,532 posts)Jesus never taught homophobia.
yodermon
(6,147 posts)If the RCC is ever to cease being a hate-group, it will be via changes like these.
Is he in actual fact a hypocrite? almost certainly, but who the fuck cares. If his clout can move church members/policy in a more progressive direction, then good. Don't make it about "him"; cult of personality cuts both ways. Hating on him is about as useful as swooning over him (and yes there is tons of swooning this week, granted).
Surya Gayatri
(15,445 posts)trotsky
(49,533 posts)And I will continue to do so.
Lordquinton
(7,886 posts)He has made approximately zero changes, and has done less than past popes have to fight the abuse issues within the church.
That people care more about protecting his image than exposing his hate is sad.
Also, remember where you are, this is a place to vent about this very issue. If you perceive any anger, then realize it is more than justified.
LostOne4Ever
(9,597 posts)[font style="font-family:'Georgia','Baskerville Old Face','Helvetica',fantasy;" size=4 color=teal]And as he fools more and more people back into the church it makes getting actual change through HARDER and LESS likely. Not the other way around.
Only by starving the beast of members till it hurts so bad will they EVER change.
Applauding this man is self defeating![/font]
LostOne4Ever
(9,597 posts)[font style="font-family:'Georgia','Baskerville Old Face','Helvetica',fantasy;" size=4 color=teal]For instance, this thread in which someone is suggesting that we throw women and all minorities under the bus:
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=7204545
[font style="font-family:'Georgia','Baskerville Old Face','Helvetica',fantasy;" size=4 color=teal]Nope. I refuse to accept that shit! And that is part of the reason why I am gonna keep on calling the pope out again and again and again![/font]
mountain grammy
(27,277 posts)"I don't care that America is welcoming the pope. I'll be glad when America welcomes Jesus." Jeeeeeeesus!
of course she got many "amens" for that.
It's scary as fuck to me when the pope sounds like the "sane" one in the room. Religions are desperate to grow their flocks, whether with fear and hatred or love and acceptance depends on the which way the wind is blowing, but the ultimate goal is the same; fill the pews and the coffers and kill us with kindness or just outright kill us.