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The next three holidays from the Oatmeal: (Original Post) beam me up scottie Dec 2015 OP
The oatmeal Mbrow Dec 2015 #1
I love his stuff! One of my all time favourite cartoons: beam me up scottie Dec 2015 #2
I think I Mbrow Dec 2015 #3
Isn't she awesome? beam me up scottie Dec 2015 #4
Cool beans indeed! Mbrow Dec 2015 #5
pssssssst! beam me up scottie Dec 2015 #6
sorry Mbrow Dec 2015 #7
As someone who is voluntarily childless, it is nice to see someone else who gets it. Act_of_Reparation Dec 2015 #8
I'm with you... Fix The Stupid Dec 2015 #9
Another one here who knows first-hand... onager Dec 2015 #10
"Y U NO HAVE TEH BABIES?" AlbertCat Dec 2015 #11
And there was always the wonderfully tasteless... onager Dec 2015 #12
I like XKCD's take on it. Act_of_Reparation Dec 2015 #15
I decided against having kids as well. beam me up scottie Dec 2015 #13
I know exactly what you mean. Act_of_Reparation Dec 2015 #14
Women are programmed from the time we're toddlers. beam me up scottie Dec 2015 #16

Mbrow

(1,090 posts)
3. I think I
Tue Dec 22, 2015, 05:51 AM
Dec 2015

Got the original link from this forum some time ago, they are one of the sites i visit when i get a chance. Love your chibi by the way.

beam me up scottie

(57,349 posts)
4. Isn't she awesome?
Tue Dec 22, 2015, 05:58 AM
Dec 2015

I borrowed Hello Cthulhu 10 years ago from an old friend who doesn't post here anymore and kept her as a tribute.



Act_of_Reparation

(9,116 posts)
8. As someone who is voluntarily childless, it is nice to see someone else who gets it.
Tue Dec 22, 2015, 09:42 AM
Dec 2015

Every family get-together brings with it the inevitable pestering from parents and relatives: "Y U NO HAVE TEH BABIES?"

Fix The Stupid

(960 posts)
9. I'm with you...
Tue Dec 22, 2015, 11:08 AM
Dec 2015

We have the onerous task of informing our families this xmas that there will be NO children coming from me and the missus...

This should go over well...

I just can't do it. I cannot in good faith bring another human into this messed up world when there are so many other humans in need - just.can't.do.it.

Plus, health issues for the Mrs...adds to the easy decision...

And... I like things as they are now. 2 kitties is all I need

onager

(9,356 posts)
10. Another one here who knows first-hand...
Tue Dec 22, 2015, 12:03 PM
Dec 2015

...that Planned Parenthood does more than abortions.

I'm pretty old, so my Mom is really elderly. Every once in a while we talk about her not having any grandkids. She usually mentions that she would have loved to have them. At least as babies.

But unfortunately you can't give them back when they grow up. And she also usually mentions the large number of her elderly friends who are raising their grandkids. Because the parents are too lazy, drug-addled or just plain useless. So I think she's made her peace with the whole thing.







 

AlbertCat

(17,505 posts)
11. "Y U NO HAVE TEH BABIES?"
Tue Dec 22, 2015, 03:57 PM
Dec 2015

I loved this thing years ago that I think was in the New Yorker...

This couple had named the 2 children, a boy and a girl, that they had NOT had. They kept adding up how much they had saved by "not having little Billy and Suzan". "We saved a bundle not buying a crib for Billy and not enrolling little Suzan for horseback riding lessons."

It was hysterical.

beam me up scottie

(57,349 posts)
13. I decided against having kids as well.
Wed Dec 23, 2015, 05:10 AM
Dec 2015

It's even worse when you're a woman, it's like we're less than female if you don't want teh bebbies.

I never wanted a kid, all my life people told me I would change my mind but nope!

I know women who had kids they didn't want, it doesn't work out well for the kids or the parents.

Act_of_Reparation

(9,116 posts)
14. I know exactly what you mean.
Wed Dec 23, 2015, 09:14 AM
Dec 2015

My wife often wonders if there's something "wrong" with her because she doesn't want kids.

It's not as bad for us guys, mostly because society tends to tolerate a degree of nonconformity in men (hooray rugged individualism). However, a lot of people tend to assume that because I don't want kids I hate kids, and that's not even remotely the case.

beam me up scottie

(57,349 posts)
16. Women are programmed from the time we're toddlers.
Wed Dec 23, 2015, 09:21 AM
Dec 2015

I never wanted anything to do with baby dolls, or Barbies for that matter. I guess I was lucky, my mom never taught me that the greatest day of my life would be my wedding day or that having a kid would make me complete.

People always assume there's something wrong with us but it's becoming more common all the time.

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