Atheists & Agnostics
Related: About this forumCheck in if you are an atheist who DOES say "Merry Christmas" to people.
It's a cultural thing with me. I like making people happy and wishing them well in a way they can relate to.
Does that mean I'm a hypocrite? Or does it my I've learned to play well with others?
Behind the Aegis
(54,867 posts)If I know the person's religion, I adapt. Usually, I say "Happy Holidays."
Jewish atheist.
Freelancer
(2,107 posts)Last edited Thu Dec 22, 2016, 11:55 AM - Edit history (1)
From the seething dross of Germanic paganism, Christianity and Madison Avenue''s Mammon worship arose one great thing -- CHRISTMAS!
FiveGoodMen
(20,018 posts)(But I do think merry xmas in my head)
Ron Obvious
(6,261 posts)I've always considered Christmas secular anyway, despite the name. Decorating a tree and putting up wreaths and plastic snowmen are clearly pagan anyway, and celebrate the ending of the dark days of winter and the return of the sun.
Heddi
(18,312 posts)I *generally* don't say anything because a large portion of my patients are Jehovah's Witness, and therefore they don't celebrate any holidays. If I'm told to have a good Christmas, I respond with "have a good Holidays yourself," as pre-end of November that will encompass T'giving, Christmas, and New Years. I still say "happy holidays" after t'giving because it covers Xmas and New Year.
I guess I am not the person who ever is the first one to tell someone (whom I don't know personally) to have a good ____ (holdiay, christmas, whatever). I wait for the person I'm with to open, and I respond with something generic (happy holidays), or even more generic (thanks! You too).
Kolesar
(31,182 posts)I am glad that the convention here is to say Happy Holidays.
Even the obvious Catholics and Protestants don't get uptight about it.
awoke_in_2003
(34,582 posts)it is almost reflex, kind of like "bless you" after someone sneezes.
Kolesar
(31,182 posts)I felt stupid. At least I don't reflexively seig heil salute the boss.
And it's wedding mass, not "mass wedding".
Brainstormy
(2,429 posts)I say both.
sakabatou
(43,085 posts)mountain grammy
(27,292 posts)Duppers
(28,247 posts)It's just a traditional thing. All my many fb atheists friends also wish others a Merry Christmas.
No big deal.
frogmarch
(12,226 posts)now make a point of saying it because it irks the people who know I'm an atheist. How dare I, a heathen, lay claim to their special holiday, the birthday of their Little Lord Jesus?
warmfeet
(3,321 posts)It's just something to say. Much like, "how ya doing buddy." I only do it if they say it first, however.