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Binkie The Clown

(7,911 posts)
Thu Dec 22, 2016, 01:20 AM Dec 2016

Check in if you are an atheist who DOES say "Merry Christmas" to people.

It's a cultural thing with me. I like making people happy and wishing them well in a way they can relate to.

Does that mean I'm a hypocrite? Or does it my I've learned to play well with others?

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Check in if you are an atheist who DOES say "Merry Christmas" to people. (Original Post) Binkie The Clown Dec 2016 OP
Yup. Behind the Aegis Dec 2016 #1
Yes, I wish "Merry Christmas" Happy new solar year! Freelancer Dec 2016 #2
Certainly FiveGoodMen Dec 2016 #3
Raises hand Ron Obvious Dec 2016 #4
I say Happy Holidays because I'm an RN, and many of my patients are non-Christian Heddi Dec 2016 #5
Lots-o-Jews around Cleveland and especially Beachwood Kolesar Mar 2017 #13
I do... awoke_in_2003 Dec 2016 #6
I went to a Wedding-Mass and reflexively whipped off a "sign of the cross" when everybody else did Kolesar Mar 2017 #14
Of course I do Brainstormy Dec 2016 #7
Yep sakabatou Dec 2016 #8
Yes! mountain grammy Dec 2016 #9
Sure do. Duppers Dec 2016 #10
I always have, and I frogmarch Dec 2016 #11
Yeah. Have for a long time. warmfeet Mar 2017 #12

Freelancer

(2,107 posts)
2. Yes, I wish "Merry Christmas" Happy new solar year!
Thu Dec 22, 2016, 02:14 AM
Dec 2016

Last edited Thu Dec 22, 2016, 11:55 AM - Edit history (1)

From the seething dross of Germanic paganism, Christianity and Madison Avenue''s Mammon worship arose one great thing -- CHRISTMAS!

 

Ron Obvious

(6,261 posts)
4. Raises hand
Thu Dec 22, 2016, 12:51 PM
Dec 2016

I've always considered Christmas secular anyway, despite the name. Decorating a tree and putting up wreaths and plastic snowmen are clearly pagan anyway, and celebrate the ending of the dark days of winter and the return of the sun.

Heddi

(18,312 posts)
5. I say Happy Holidays because I'm an RN, and many of my patients are non-Christian
Thu Dec 22, 2016, 10:33 PM
Dec 2016

I *generally* don't say anything because a large portion of my patients are Jehovah's Witness, and therefore they don't celebrate any holidays. If I'm told to have a good Christmas, I respond with "have a good Holidays yourself," as pre-end of November that will encompass T'giving, Christmas, and New Years. I still say "happy holidays" after t'giving because it covers Xmas and New Year.

I guess I am not the person who ever is the first one to tell someone (whom I don't know personally) to have a good ____ (holdiay, christmas, whatever). I wait for the person I'm with to open, and I respond with something generic (happy holidays), or even more generic (thanks! You too).

Kolesar

(31,182 posts)
13. Lots-o-Jews around Cleveland and especially Beachwood
Wed Mar 15, 2017, 08:12 AM
Mar 2017

I am glad that the convention here is to say Happy Holidays.
Even the obvious Catholics and Protestants don't get uptight about it.

Kolesar

(31,182 posts)
14. I went to a Wedding-Mass and reflexively whipped off a "sign of the cross" when everybody else did
Wed Mar 15, 2017, 08:15 AM
Mar 2017

I felt stupid. At least I don't reflexively seig heil salute the boss.
And it's wedding mass, not "mass wedding".

Duppers

(28,247 posts)
10. Sure do.
Wed Dec 28, 2016, 08:50 AM
Dec 2016

It's just a traditional thing. All my many fb atheists friends also wish others a Merry Christmas.

No big deal.

frogmarch

(12,226 posts)
11. I always have, and I
Fri Dec 30, 2016, 10:25 AM
Dec 2016

now make a point of saying it because it irks the people who know I'm an atheist. How dare I, a heathen, lay claim to their special holiday, the birthday of their Little Lord Jesus?

warmfeet

(3,321 posts)
12. Yeah. Have for a long time.
Wed Mar 8, 2017, 09:31 PM
Mar 2017

It's just something to say. Much like, "how ya doing buddy." I only do it if they say it first, however.

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