Atheists & Agnostics
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my meet-up group (Atheists, Skeptics, Humanists) had a Deep Dive: Serious Thinking on Serious Subjects discussion on spirituality this Tuesday. As moderator, I did a lot of prep, but there were so many surprises. The first was that there was not ONE person in this group of 16 who, ultimately, believed in any type of soul, or after-life or "other life" or genuine connection to a over-arching intelligence, or ANY of the common understandings of "spirit." A few conceded that spirituality, in the Sam Harris sense, could be defined as extraordinary mental states induced by meditation, chanting, mind-altering drugs, self-hypnosis, what have you. But nobody claimed this to be a supernatural experience. A few said that they had identified as "spiritual but not religious" but only as a COVER, in social situations or on Match.com. So funny! And we got into some New Age woo stuff a bit. But basically there was almost unanimous agreement that "spirituality" is a bullshit, vacuous concept.
I expected a lot more push back, and a lot more equivocation. What say ye, had you been there? And I wish you had!
BigmanPigman
(52,262 posts)since you have experienced it first hand, can you still be an Atheist?
Brainstormy
(2,428 posts)I would assume that someone who does believe in ghosts would have some philosophical tap-dancing to do in order to still identify as an atheist. I wish, now, I'd asked about this. I'm betting though that I would have gotten no takers.
You do remind me that this is really an immense subject. I thought I'd prepared for everything. Clearly not.
Dark n Stormy Knight
(10,029 posts)Isn't atheism the rejection of deities? I don't believe in either ghosts or deities, but it seems to me ghosts are a totally different category from gods.
Brainstormy
(2,428 posts)I have yet to meet an atheist who believes in anything supernatural. Most atheists are naturalists/materialists. Technically, I suppose you're correct. And this is another idea I wish we'd discussed! Someone did ask, however, if anyone believed in the "soul." No hands went up.
Dark n Stormy Knight
(10,029 posts)For instance, television or radio seem pretty supernatural to me because, though I get that they are scientific realities I don't really understand the technical details of how they work. And, I'm sure they'd seem magical to the people you showed them to if you could take them back in time 50 years or so before they were invented.
Also, there are some examples of what might be called telepathy that happened either to me or to people close to me, that I have trouble dismissing.
Irish_Dem
(57,591 posts)Dark n Stormy Knight
(10,029 posts)I don't think they exist. If anything at all outside of people's imagination, I guess they'd be some remnants of energy. But I've never really had much of a reason to give it a whole lot of thought.
You?
Irish_Dem
(57,591 posts)Brainstormy
(2,428 posts)believe in ghosts?
Susan Calvin
(2,099 posts)Susan Calvin
(2,099 posts)My mom described an after-death experience. My dad came to me in a dream the night before his funeral.
Do I believe in ghosts, or life after the physical body's death?
Nope.
Doreen
(11,686 posts)Are they all equal bullshit? I am Buddhist and always thought those who worship a deity are bullshit. I am not upset ( no reason to be ) just curious.
Susan Calvin
(2,099 posts)Doreen
(11,686 posts)Brainstormy
(2,428 posts)that we think all religions are nonsense. And, apparently, no one in my group would give any credence to the notion of a "spiritual philosophy" except n that Sam Harris sense of attempting to expand your consciousness through various techniques. We have a few Zen practitioners but I don't believe they think anything supernatural results from the practice.
wasupaloopa
(4,516 posts)We can't really know that god exists we can only believe in god.
I don't think that if god exists or not really matters.
I have been practicing Buddhism after being raised Catholic. I like the way Buddhism explains how to live a life being good for others and yourself without the need for a Deity.
Susan Calvin
(2,099 posts)And agree that it doesn't matter if what people call/believe in god exists.
But what some people talk and do about it sure does.
Irish_Dem
(57,591 posts)The rest is just window dressing.
Binkie The Clown
(7,911 posts)Brainstormy
(2,428 posts)LakeArenal
(29,808 posts)Then definitely Christianity is made up.
He didnt expect people to worship him.
I believe Jesus existed. I simply dont believe in divinity.
As for ghosts, my partner had a ghostly experience. It was neither divine nor evil Just trapped energy. I dont see why ghosts necessarily prove the existence of god. Just another yet unexplained phenomenon.
For me spirituality is feeling a connection with the invisible forces in nature. Understanding those forces is the pursuit of man.
Susan Calvin
(2,099 posts)But way too many view it as a way to manipulate people and gain power.
Brainstormy
(2,428 posts)on Jesus as historical figure and Jesus as myth. More lean towards myth. We did talk about expressing that desire for connection to nature as spirituality. None of us believe in anything supernatural, so that rules out ghosts, but I agree, that if ghosts did exist they wouldn't necessarily prove god.
BigmanPigman
(52,262 posts)It was not evil, spooky, ethereal, or out of body/dead but came back to life, etc. My experiences were after my dog died at home for about 10 days. I heard, felt, and saw things that were her sounds and things she did in different places around my apt. during her life. An old boyfriend had several different experiences and some of his old friends backed him up. Several teachers who were docents at "America's most haunted house, the Whaley House in San Diego" told a few of us visiting teachers some of the experiences they had when they stayed at the house one night. I was just curious if your group ever brought this subject up.
Doreen
(11,686 posts)Everything is made up of energy and energy never dies it just goes somewhere else and it is the existing energy that produces what we may see, feel, and hear. That is how I explain it. It may not be the most accurate way but it hangs on quantum physics. I like that the Buddhists very much believe in quantum physics because it is science.
Brainstormy
(2,428 posts)I had recently encountered a very interesting explanation for it in Michael Shermer's The Believing Brain. You might like it. BTW, I had similar experiences after my grandmother died.
BigmanPigman
(52,262 posts)The scientists were able to recreate similar experiences of dying and coming back, etc from seeing tunnels, white light, looking down at your body,... It was interesting.
defacto7
(13,610 posts)that we underestimate too many times. It's an amazing bit of evolution with survival, memory, emotion, sensation, calculation and imagination all interwoven like a hologram. Our ability to recall sensations and reconstitute them as visual or audible experiences kind of covers the spiritual and ghostly feelings for me.
My most beloved dog still seemed with me and around me for months after he died but I always knew it was the sensations and memories and my expectations of him being there that I was remembering. For six months after my dad died he appeard in my dreams every night. We would talk, I'd ask questions which he answered, make jokes... after a few months, he was still there but never looked at me, then he'd be there but we didn't communicate and finally one night I saw him with glowing eyes, he walked through a door and never returned to my dreams. I know it was my minds way of dealing with deep grief and loss through memories of his personality, form and sound.
I don't belittle the fact that people see and hear things of loved ones, they are as real as if they really were there. I just think it's our vast mind doing its job of survival and healing.
It makes the saying that "they continue to live in our hearts" a very real thing.
Brainstormy
(2,428 posts)and I agree.
trotsky
(49,533 posts)It's closely associated with religion even though it shouldn't be.
There are many experiences in life that one might call "spiritual" because they are emotionally moving. The birth of one's child. A beautiful nature scene. Etc. But appreciating these things and being moved by them doesn't mean anything more than that. It's not leaving the door open a crack for the magical sky daddy, which is what the religionists want it to mean.
Brainstormy
(2,428 posts)It's a great metaphor and about the only thing we've got for describing the ineffable--the indescribable, but I hate that it's associated with religion, woo, and all the other baggage.
RussBLib
(9,666 posts)We have a long way to go towards fully understanding the brain, which could account for the sensation of "feeling" or hearing a loved one (human or pet) after that loved one has passed. The brain can probably also account for the "white light/peace" syndrome of near-death experiences. We know the brain can hallucinate. Ghosts could in fact be ethereal manifestations of our brains.
Sometimes I lean towards a "universal mind" idea, a free-floating invisible cloud of consciousness, perhaps another dimension of reality that we cannot perceive. It could be that when we are born, the universal spark is ignited and when we die, we merge again into the universal mind. It's a rich vein of horror and science fiction, and none of it need be caused by a supernatural "creator".
But no, I don't buy the whole "soul" idea either, other than we are the sum of our experiences, whether or not we can remember them.
Good post.