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applegrove

(123,610 posts)
Sun May 9, 2021, 02:56 PM May 2021

My brother's Obit

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Obituary

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Our brilliant, eccentric, affable and often hilarious Gordon was a real character who filled his life with eclectic people, knowledge, and adventure. A train nerd, a massive Expos fan and a voracious reader on literally every topic imaginable, Gordon left his insights annotated in the margins of books, on scraps of paper, and in the hearts and minds of the countless people he engaged with around the world.

Gordon was born and grew up in Ottawa where his passion for world affairs, politics and entrepreneurship was honed from a very young age. The focal point of family dinners was Gordon vigorously debating the merits of the latest government policies while questioning the underlying motivations of the politicians. In Grade Four he read a tour guide that listed the capacity and features of Ottawa hotels. Frustrated with the lack of detail, he proceeded to interview dozens of hotel managers demanding more insight into their businesses. His love of the outdoors developed while playing with friends and family at his Grand Lake cottage. An early sign of Gordon’s unconventional approach to the world, he would run outdoors when it rained and challenge his siblings to see who could stay out the longest. An unlikely athlete, Gordon surprised everyone by developing a love for cross-country skiing in high school and rowing at Harvard.

As a great intellect and natural life-long teacher, Gordon lived to share what he learned and then learn more. His encyclopedic knowledge meant that he dominated at Trivial Pursuit and was the favoured Quiz Night team member. In Kyoto and nearby Osaka, he lectured at several universities. His favorite formal teaching role, held for almost thirty years, was with preschoolers where he thrilled the children and was energized by their zest for life. As he travelled the world, he would attract people with his booming voice, animated presentation, and excitement to get his point across. A modern version of an ancient philosopher, he had a need to share his deep thoughts and invite others along through debate and thoughtful conversation.

A believer in equity, social justice and the health of the planet, Gordon was engaged with many organizations in both Canada and Japan. He believed the world needed to change and he was willing to roll up his sleeves for a good cause including sorting recycling, political speech writing, advocacy, and fundraising. He saw through power structures and fought for the rights of those who needed more, particularly in the labour movement where he helped to form workers unions. Disregard for convention meant he was open to seeing and acting in the world with a freedom that others envied.

Mostly Gordon will be remembered as a remarkable and kind friend to so many. He could be found at a local pub, most often with a favorite craft beer in hand, welcoming new friends and regaling old. His friends in Kyoto became his family and he was much loved by a wide circle around the world. Eight years ago, he found a deep love with Sagiri whom he adored and admired without end. Together they travelled Japan and the world, with a favorite being a trip back to Canada with Sagiri and her children to visit family and friends from home.

A cremation service has taken place in Kyoto, Japan beneath the mountains and forests where Gordon loved to hike. Due to Covid limitations a memorial service in Ottawa will be planned at a future date and a memorial service in Kyoto will also be planned for a future date in hopes that Gordon’s family can attend in person. All are welcome to view photos of Gordon’s life and share condolences and memories with Sagiri, the family and friends on this site. Suggestions for memorial donations will be shared at a later date.

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My brother's Obit (Original Post) applegrove May 2021 OP
((applegrove)) blm May 2021 #1
Thank you. applegrove May 2021 #2
Dear Apple grove, MLAA May 2021 #3
Yes. He was extraordinary. His friends and partner have said he had little if no ego. applegrove May 2021 #5
It sounds like he was a wonderful person. Laffy Kat May 2021 #4
He was very caring. Thank you. applegrove May 2021 #6
Quite the human he was. May his memory always be a blessing before all 🕯️ irisblue May 2021 #7
Thank you. applegrove May 2021 #8
Very nice. James48 May 2021 #9
Thanks. applegrove May 2021 #11
I know he loved that obituary. Thanks for sharing it! Karadeniz May 2021 #10
Thanks. applegrove May 2021 #12
Quite an amazing man. SalmonChantedEvening May 2021 #13
Thank you. applegrove May 2021 #15
Your brother sounds like he Unknown Beatle May 2021 #14
He was. Thank you. applegrove May 2021 #16
what an achiever NJCher May 2021 #17
Yes. He was a good egg. applegrove May 2021 #19
He sounds like an exciting brother to have had, a wonderful friend, very much invested in humanity. NNadir May 2021 #18
Yes. He was fun. That is what her partner says. Lots of fun, no or little ego. applegrove May 2021 #20
An extraordinary person with a wonderful family. A real loss. marble falls May 2021 #21
Yes. Thank you. applegrove May 2021 #24
May his memory be blessed. 💛 sprinkleeninow May 2021 #22
Yes. We were lucky.. He knew what was important in a society. Thank you. applegrove May 2021 #25
What a wonderful tribute for a good valuable life. bronxiteforever May 2021 #23
Thank you. applegrove May 2021 #26
I am so very sorry UpInArms May 2021 #27
Thanks. applegrove May 2021 #32
You would have to travel a long way, and meet a vast number of people to find his like. BobTheSubgenius May 2021 #28
I'm so sorry keithsw May 2021 #29
You would have loved him. Thank you. applegrove May 2021 #33
So sorry MuseRider May 2021 #30
Thanks. applegrove May 2021 #34
My condolences to your and your family. Rest in peace Gordon and may your memory iluvtennis May 2021 #31
Thank you. applegrove May 2021 #35
Deepest sympathy at your loss GeoWilliam750 May 2021 #36
Thanks. He had much to look forward to. applegrove May 2021 #37

MLAA

(18,675 posts)
3. Dear Apple grove,
Sun May 9, 2021, 03:31 PM
May 2021

It sure sounds like you had the gift of an extraordinary brother. Sending you and Gordon’s family and many friends love. 💕💕💖💖💖

applegrove

(123,610 posts)
5. Yes. He was extraordinary. His friends and partner have said he had little if no ego.
Sun May 9, 2021, 03:42 PM
May 2021

He was so kind to me. He had so many things to look forward to. Thank you.

James48

(4,614 posts)
9. Very nice.
Sun May 9, 2021, 04:16 PM
May 2021

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I would have loved to have met your brother. He sounds like a person I would really get along with and become a friend. Thank you for sharing, and I’m so sorry for your loss, and so happy that he was here.

Unknown Beatle

(2,688 posts)
14. Your brother sounds like he
Sun May 9, 2021, 04:26 PM
May 2021

was a humanitarian with empathy to spare. I'm so sorry for your loss.

NJCher

(38,228 posts)
17. what an achiever
Sun May 9, 2021, 04:44 PM
May 2021

it sounds like he lived life to the max.

How lucky you are to have had him as your brother.

NNadir

(34,841 posts)
18. He sounds like an exciting brother to have had, a wonderful friend, very much invested in humanity.
Sun May 9, 2021, 04:53 PM
May 2021

I am sure you feel your good fortune in having such a brother, even as you grieve his loss.

Deepest condolences.

UpInArms

(51,903 posts)
27. I am so very sorry
Sun May 9, 2021, 05:31 PM
May 2021

It sounds as though the world became a smaller place with his passing ...

(((((Hugs))))) to you and yours, dear applegrove

BobTheSubgenius

(11,811 posts)
28. You would have to travel a long way, and meet a vast number of people to find his like.
Sun May 9, 2021, 05:37 PM
May 2021

What a person to have been privileged to know. Thank you for sharing such an incredible obit!

I'm sure that, your protestations to the contrary, you are also a very interesting and good man. Walnuts don't fall far from the tree.

And a very hearty wish that Gordon is embarking on a new adventure.

keithsw

(436 posts)
29. I'm so sorry
Sun May 9, 2021, 05:39 PM
May 2021

You lost what sounded like a really great, humble, brother and friend. I wish I would have known him

MuseRider

(34,408 posts)
30. So sorry
Sun May 9, 2021, 05:51 PM
May 2021

losing a brother is hard.

Your brother sounds like a wonderful guy who you can eventually remember with fewer tears and many smiles. I wish that for you. For now just comfort. Go easy on yourself for a while. (((hugs)))

iluvtennis

(20,948 posts)
31. My condolences to your and your family. Rest in peace Gordon and may your memory
Sun May 9, 2021, 05:52 PM
May 2021

be a blessing.

GeoWilliam750

(2,547 posts)
36. Deepest sympathy at your loss
Sun May 9, 2021, 06:00 PM
May 2021

He sounds like he would have been fun to know, and the world is diminished by his absence.

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