Bereavement
Related: About this forumDear DUers, I have Heartbreaking and shocking
Last edited Sun Aug 27, 2023, 08:25 PM - Edit history (1)
news to share..
My Friend and Fellow DU member "Me" has passed away.
I can't believe I have to write these words.. I'm still in shock. She was an Outstanding, Compassionate Democrat.. And a Kind and Supportive Friend for Many Years on DU.
I never met her in person.. she lived in Manhattan but we sent Birthday and Christmas cards to each other and she'd be there with Compassion and Empathy whenever I needed her. And, I was there for her.
I will miss Her more than I can say. Hug your Friends and Loved ones.
https://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=profile&uid=146947
ETA~ So Sorry I had left the "r" out of FRIENDS! AS in Hug Them!
Lovie777
(14,806 posts)Cha
(304,921 posts)spooky3
(36,038 posts)Cha
(304,921 posts)You all have me crying again.. with your kindness for "Me".
blm
(113,791 posts)And a great member here. Through thick and thin.
I hope she had a peaceful passing. 🕯️
Cha
(304,921 posts)I know she was surrounded by People who loved her and she loved when she passed.
onecaliberal
(35,674 posts)Cha
(304,921 posts)means a lot to be be able to share our loss of wonderful sweet member on DU
onecaliberal
(35,674 posts)🫶🏻
wendyb-NC
(3,762 posts)May she R.I.P.. Hugs to you and her loved ones.
Cha
(304,921 posts)I really appreciate your kind words & and know "Me" would too.. and her Family & Friends in New York.
Walleye
(35,136 posts)Cha
(304,921 posts)Mahalo
greatauntoftriplets
(176,769 posts)My deepest condolences to you, Me's family and friends. Had she been sick a long time? I saw that her last post was more than a month ago.
Cha
(304,921 posts)I PM her on June 25the because I hadn't seen her around for awhile and she replied that she was in the hospital for about 10 days. They didn't know what was caused it.. here I'll post Me's words..
I sent her a Get Well card and she responded to that.. a few more PMs and then I never heard from her again on DU or anywhere.
So I sent another card to her home and told her I was really worried but never heard back. I was still hoping for the best.
And then I got a beautiful cared from her husband on August 23 that said our "Me" had passed.
greatauntoftriplets
(176,769 posts)I wonder if they ever figured out what was going on with her. Such sad news.
Cha
(304,921 posts)I'm going to ask her husband when I send this link to him later today.. and I will let you know.
I always wonder why people had to go.. and Now Me had this mysterious illness that Docs didn't know why.. the last I heard.
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greatauntoftriplets
(176,769 posts)Such sad news.
Cha
(304,921 posts)the link to this OP.. but I didn't ask because there was so much to say.
Maybe we'll find out someday what happened to our dear kind Me.
There are Heart of hers she posted and I'm sending them on..
💙 💛💙 💛💙 💛💙 💛💙 💛💙 💛💙 💛💙
greatauntoftriplets
(176,769 posts)It's sad that you and Me were never able to meet, though you don't live anywhere near New York.
Cha
(304,921 posts)can feel this way about someone who I don't even know what they look like.
But that's the age of the internet.. Words are Powerful and over the years Kindness & Compassion make a Lasting Impact.
These are Me's hearts she's posted...
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greatauntoftriplets
(176,769 posts)yardwork
(64,003 posts)I'm in shock.
Cha
(304,921 posts)It's so hard. Me liked to post Angels & 💛💜💚💙💖
yardwork
(64,003 posts)Cha
(304,921 posts)💛💜💚💙💖
calimary
(84,133 posts)People youd otherwise never meet, talk to, or get close to. Its a thing about this place.
And we come together not just to gab, gossip, scheme, or commiserate, but also to mourn - many of us having never met the lost one, or each other.
Magic it is. And sometimes its sad magic. Thanks for letting us know, Cha. Well all miss her, too. Right along with ya.
erronis
(16,770 posts)Frequently I'm very surprised to learn that someone I've interacted with is a different gender/age/etc. than I originally thought. And usually I'm amazed to learn what some of you have gone through in life, over time.
Thanks for posting this heartfelt remembrance, Cha.
blm
(113,791 posts)Last edited Sun Aug 27, 2023, 04:13 PM - Edit history (1)
with me for most every stepping stone in my daughters life
she just graduated university and is preparing for next step - masters in museum studies.
Yes, its an extension of family.
The loss of Me. will be felt by her DU family.
Cha
(304,921 posts)words, calimary. It is Amazing what DU has done for all of us over the years.
I really appreciate it right now more than ever.
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Ocelot II
(120,448 posts)Cha
(304,921 posts)Thank You So Much
peacebuzzard
(5,261 posts)A DU friend is a great loss. Me posted for a very long time. A tragic, sad loss
Cha
(304,921 posts)a tragic loss for us and for her family and friends in New York.
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mahina
(18,902 posts)and all your aloha.
Cha
(304,921 posts)gademocrat7
(11,146 posts)Condolences to you and to Mes loved ones. May she rest in peace.
Cha
(304,921 posts)mzmolly
(51,527 posts)Cha.
Cha
(304,921 posts)Aloha 💛💜💚💙💖
Hekate
(94,414 posts)We grieve with you.
Cha
(304,921 posts)In the beautiful note her husband sent me to let me know.. he gave me his email address and I'm going to send this link to him so he will know how much "Me" meant to our Community.
💛💜💚💙💖
virgdem
(2,204 posts)Cha
(304,921 posts)Aloha 💛💜💚💙💖
sheshe2
(87,187 posts)A sad loss to our community, she was well respected here.
Love to her family and friends, I know how hard this is for them.
Thank you for letting us all know, Cha.
Cha
(304,921 posts)I just posted that I'm going to send this link to her husband so he will know how much Me meant to our DU Community.
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Those are Me's hearts she posted in a PM & I'm passing them on. 💕🤷?♀️
sheshe2
(87,187 posts)Cha
(304,921 posts)Cha
(304,921 posts)mercuryblues
(15,063 posts)And a DU member
Cha
(304,921 posts)Cha
(304,921 posts)LoisB
(8,517 posts)missed.
Cha
(304,921 posts)Mahalo for your Kind words of Sympathy. :groupohug: 💛💜💚💙💖
BoomaofBandM
(1,922 posts)Cha
(304,921 posts)Mahalo
Sogo
(5,756 posts)Cha
(304,921 posts)this Kindness for Me.. I'm sending this link to her family in New York so they can know how much she is Loved. 💛💜💚💙💖
Hermit-The-Prog
(36,562 posts)Cha
(304,921 posts)What a sweet thing to wish.
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H2O Man
(75,339 posts)Me and I became friends on the Plame Threads. It turned out we were distant relatives.
Cha
(304,921 posts)that, H20 Man.
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H2O Man
(75,339 posts)her children's book for my grandson.
It has been a strange ten days. I've had a number of old friends die. But this hits the hardest.
Cha
(304,921 posts)the Hippo Book to my Granddaughter last year and I bought one for me.
Sorry about your other friends passing on.
This has been really shocking.. more so because we had been PM starting on June 25th about her being in the hospital and home again but feeling "weak".. and then I didn't[ hear anything more after I PMed the last time on July 30th.
I got really worried and sent another card to her home and still nothing until I got a card from her husband telling me she had passed.
Me's hearts she's posted..
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pnwmom
(109,501 posts)Cha
(304,921 posts)Saoirse9
(3,794 posts)what happened? I loved her. I am so sad to learn this.
Rest in peace lovely Me.
Cha
(304,921 posts)Saoirse9
(3,794 posts)What happened to her? I wish I had known she was ill.
Cha
(304,921 posts)days and home again "weak".
These are Me's words in her first PM to me after I contacted her 'cause I hadn't seen her around..
To make a short response, I've been in the hospital for the last 10 days because of a chest xray that showed water on the lung hampering my ability to breathe. So i've been through 10 of tests whiled they stabilized my ability to breathe. They don't actually know what the problem is now even thought it might be liver. THey will have more results in 2 weeks and that might provide clues as to the origin of the illness. So, I'm home, weak but better than I was. I will say, it has been some king of experience but along the way, we've been treated with the most amazing expertise, kindness and generosity. I'm coming out of this part of the illness with an enitirly different head in some says. In an odd way, I'm not sorry. I'll be in touch but that's the story so far.
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The last I heard they still didn't know why she was so ill.. thee are Me's hearts she posted in a PM..
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Saoirse9
(3,794 posts)It helps to know what was happening. Maybe even gives me a little closure, which I needed.
I've known her so long, I guess I thought she would always be there and I took that for granted.
Cha
(304,921 posts)I knew more but it doesn't feel right asking her husband now.
It's really nice to meet someone who was also close to Me on DU. I thought of her as always being there too.
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sinkingfeeling
(52,962 posts)Cha
(304,921 posts)femmedem
(8,429 posts)She will be missed here by many, even though few of us knew her as well as you did.
Thank you for letting us know. Too often DUers disappear, and I fear they have passed but will never be sure.
Cha
(304,921 posts)I hadn't seen her around in awhile so I PM her June 25th. Turns out she had been in the hospital for 10 days.. but she was home then and "weak"..
Me's words..
I will be sending this link to her family in New York so they can know how much she is loved in our Community.
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femmedem
(8,429 posts)Cha
(304,921 posts)Nixie
(17,375 posts)favorites. I remember her posts especially from the Hillary campaign era where she came to my attention as a decent and common sense Democrat. She remained a favorite of mine. Im shocked. 😢
Thanks Cha for posting this. I saw it on the front page and am glad I did because I dont always check many forums.
And sorry for your loss, Cha. Sounds like you two had a very nice connection. She will be so missed.
Cha
(304,921 posts)I'm grateful you know Me.. she was the best Hillary Supporter.. you can understand what a Heartbreaking unbearable loss this is for her Family & Friends.
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PJMcK
(22,849 posts)I'm saddened to hear of Me's passing. May She find peace.
And to peace to you, too, Cha. I feel great empathy for you and Her family and friends.
Cha
(304,921 posts)so surreal.. and all this outpouring of Love for Me is so Heartwarming.
I'll be sending this link to her family in New York.
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brer cat
(26,127 posts)She was a sweet DUer who made life here much better. Please let her family know we share their grief.
Cha
(304,921 posts)link to her family in New York later today.
Me did make life better here in our DU community.. Mahalo for your kind words of love.
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emulatorloo
(45,542 posts)Cha
(304,921 posts)without Me in it is heartbreaking.. she would really be grateful for all this outpouring of Love, though.
Mahalo for your Kind words. 💛💜💚💙💖
JohnSJ
(96,405 posts)Cha
(304,921 posts)JohnSJ
(96,405 posts)Cha
(304,921 posts)FailureToCommunicate
(14,313 posts)We'll all have to sing just a bit stronger now.
Cha
(304,921 posts)Mahalo! 💛💜💚💙💖
FailureToCommunicate
(14,313 posts)heartfelt...
We'll all smile, a bit, when we think on some funny, kind post of Me's.
Cha
(304,921 posts)photo, FTC.. That's who we are.. Ohana!
Mahalo mui loa.. these are hearts Me left one of her PMs...
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FailureToCommunicate
(14,313 posts)ancianita
(38,265 posts)My heart goes out to you. I remember Me. Thank you for sharing your sweet relationship.
DU family love and hugs to you, dear Cha.
Cha
(304,921 posts)Thank You from the bottom of my heart for your kind Thoughtful words.
I'm sending this link to her family in New York today so they will know how much she is loved in our community.
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mgardener
(1,887 posts)Cha
(304,921 posts)Cha
(304,921 posts)William769
(55,814 posts)Loss is never easy.
for you cha & for the group
Cha
(304,921 posts)Mahalo for your Kind & Thoughtful words.
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Scrivener7
(52,508 posts)Cha
(304,921 posts)Scrivener7
(52,508 posts)pat_k
(10,808 posts)What a loss.
All that we love deeply becomes a part of us. All the world is full of suffering. It is also full of overcoming. When it seems that our sorrow is too great to be borne, let us think of the great family of the heavy-hearted into which our grief has given us entrance.
-Helen Keller
Cha
(304,921 posts)comforting words.
All that we love deeply becomes a part of us. All the world is full of suffering. It is also full of overcoming. When it seems that our sorrow is too great to be borne, let us think of the great family of the heavy-hearted into which our grief has given us entrance.
-Helen Keller
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Elessar Zappa
(15,708 posts)May she rest in peace. DU will be poorer without her.
Cha
(304,921 posts)livetohike
(22,893 posts)always make you smile. Sending hugs and love. Rest in Peace Me .
Cha
(304,921 posts)And Yes.. Rest in Peace Sweet Me..
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hlthe2b
(106,064 posts)I am so very sorry to lose her. My sadness is dwarfed by that of those who knew her best, but I send all who came to know her the hope that fond memories will sustain you.
Be at peace, 'Me' Thank you for your kindness to so many on DU.
Cha
(304,921 posts)Wishes, hlthe2b.
Me is a Precious Loving Memory in so many Hearts & Minds.
These are Hearts Me posted and I'm passing them on..
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UpInArms
(51,753 posts)We will all feel this loss
Cha
(304,921 posts)Solly Mack
(92,481 posts)I hate it when we lose a DU member.
RIP.
Cha
(304,921 posts)💙 💛💙 💛💙 💛💙 💛💙 💛💙 💛💙 💛💙
littlemissmartypants
(25,172 posts)Cha
(304,921 posts)💙 💛💙 💛💙 💛💙 💛💙 💛💙 💛💙 💛💙
The yellow and blue hearts are what Me posted in a PM and I'm passing them on.
littlemissmartypants
(25,172 posts)LetMyPeopleVote
(154,039 posts)May she rest in peace,
She will be missed
Cha
(304,921 posts)💙 💛💙 💛💙 💛💙 💛💙 💛💙 💛💙 💛💙
Me posted these hearts recently & I'm passing them on.
pandr32
(12,142 posts)I am so sorry you lost a friend and I am sorry we all lost a community member, too. We need each other.
Hugs all around.
Cha
(304,921 posts)These hearts are from a post of Me's.. passing them on.
BumRushDaShow
(141,427 posts)I hadn't seen her post in awhile (although she didn't post that much as it is).
So sorry to hear this. Hope she crossed gently.
Cha
(304,921 posts)gently.
In one of her PMs she said she was surrounded by loved ones and so grateful for it.
That was before I realized how serious it was but I know they were still surrounding her with Love and Support.
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for your loss. I hope, in time, your memories of them only bring smiles.
Cha
(304,921 posts)many years of Kindness & compassion to look back on.. I'm still in shock now and I know that will pass because it's happened before.
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Greybnk48
(10,364 posts)Cha
(304,921 posts)Ferrets are Cool
(21,950 posts)Cha
(304,921 posts)Ilsa
(62,217 posts)So many brave souls here on DU are aging and passing on. I'm so glad there are many younger DUers to take our place.
Peace to "Me."
Cha
(304,921 posts)when the years go by.
Me's been here since 2004 and has left a lot of kindness & love in her path.
And, here we are almost 20 years later.
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Ilsa
(62,217 posts)the start of the Iraq War. So, 2003.
WestMichRad
(1,751 posts)and fellow DUer. Hugs.
Cha
(304,921 posts)Alliepoo
(2,459 posts)Rest in Peace, Me. My condolences to you Cha, and to all who loved her. Wishing you all comfort and peace.
Cha
(304,921 posts)Aloha 💛💜💚💙💖
riversedge
(72,972 posts)the ABBA song
Fernado......
'Can you hear the drums Fernado?"....
....
"I could hear the distant drums"........
Peace CHA --this too will get easier. I lost my mom a few months ago-she had a long, busy life with kids, grandkids, greatgrandkids and even 2 great great grandkids. The drums were calling her.....
Cha
(304,921 posts)and the comforting words.
I've been through this before, too.. at first and for awhile there's a Major shock to our Systtem and then the shock eases up.. and just beautiful memories but the loss is still there for me anyway.
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The Polack MSgt
(13,417 posts)Rest peacefully Me
Cha
(304,921 posts)thread.. reading all the memories people have of her.
Mahalo,TP Msg & Aloha.. 💛💜💚💙💖
Blue Owl
(54,604 posts)She'll still be with us in DU's "In Memoriam" page....
Cha
(304,921 posts)I've been thinking about that..
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PortTack
(34,484 posts)Lucinda
(31,170 posts)Lucinda
(31,170 posts)Cha
(304,921 posts)Fla Dem
(25,628 posts)It is never easy to say goodbye to someone who has been there for you and you for them. It does leave a hole in your heart.
Cherish the fond memories you have, and they'll never go away.
Cha
(304,921 posts)Me was loved by so many... and all these beautiful posts are making it a lot easier to endure the shock of her sudden passing and I hope for everybody, too.
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spicysista
(1,729 posts)Cha
(304,921 posts)& Aloha 💛💜💚💙💖
BigmanPigman
(52,211 posts)Cha
(304,921 posts)niyad
(119,543 posts)our community, and will be greatly missed. May she cross gently.
Cha
(304,921 posts)Aloha 💛💜💚💙💖
highplainsdem
(52,121 posts)her loved ones. She will be missed here.
You know my beliefs, though. I'm sure she's young and healthy again on the other side, reunited with her loved ones who are already there.
I knew I'd seen her post in Music Appreciation, and I just skimmed her messages there and found she loved Al Green. When Glamrock started a thread about Green's best songs five years ago -
https://www.democraticunderground.com/103410967 - she posted the video below.
The first line seems perfect now.
What a beautiful time we had together...
Cha
(304,921 posts)that's a good thing. I believe it's good for the soul to let it out.
Mahalo so much for the Vid and the link with Me's exchage there with Glamrock on Al Green!
It's Classic Me.. and I shall treasure it, hpd! I will listen to all of them later.. right now I more more replies to tend to.
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sueh
(1,865 posts)Cha
(304,921 posts)Aloha 💛💜💚💙💖
DFW
(56,421 posts)Trying to sleep off my jet lag.
DU lost one of us, you lost more than just someone.
Its not easy, there is no consolation, only words and memories. May they last!
Cha
(304,921 posts)really a blessing to be able to talk to people on DU about Me's passing.. so many feel the same way about her.
So Comforting 💛💜💚💙💖
LisaM
(28,542 posts)Online friends are real friends, and losing them can leave big holes.
Cha
(304,921 posts)I will never forget when the people in the DU Hillary group were basically the only people I could turn to sometimes. Online friends mean a lot.
Cha
(304,921 posts)mean, LisaM.
I was a Host and felt the same..
Silver Gaia
(4,796 posts)I have lost online friends, too, and know that the loss is just as real and painful as people you can touch. We are all still REAL people. And it hurts to lose a friend, regardless of the circumstances of the friendship. My heart is with you.
Cha
(304,921 posts)words of Comfort, Silver Gaia🤷?♀️💕 It means a lot. 💛💜💚💙💖
herding cats
(19,612 posts)She will be deeply missed here and my heart is with you in your time of loss. hug: :
Cha
(304,921 posts)powerful impact on DU and will be missed by so many who she's engaged over the years.
It does my heart so good to see all these wonderful heartfelt replies.
Won't be able to believe that she's gone for awhile but that's the way my mind works.
Aloha, Sweetheart.. 💛💜💚💙💖
2live is 2fly
(336 posts)Cha
(304,921 posts)BlueMTexpat
(15,488 posts)We have lost too many good ones these days. Why do the not-so-good seem to thrive?
Cha
(304,921 posts)It's just so shocking when you're close to someone who suddenly passes on.
Just takes time but so good to see so many heartfelt replies for Kind Supportive Me. 💛💜💚💙💖
Grumpy Old Guy
(3,540 posts)Cha
(304,921 posts)Cary
(11,746 posts)So sorry to hear.
Cha
(304,921 posts)flamingdem
(39,869 posts)and hugs to you!!!
Glad to know that you're heading to see your family soon Cha
Cha
(304,921 posts)Thank You for the Light for Me
Good point about seeing my family Florida soon.
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babylonsister
(171,570 posts)Cha
(304,921 posts)MontanaMama
(23,988 posts)Isnt it amazing how much someone that youve never met in person can mean to you? That we can be good friends with a person weve never sat next to? I know exactly what youre talking about. Its proof that love transcends all.
Im so sorry to hear Me is gone. May her crossing be gentle. 😔
Cha
(304,921 posts)think about that all the time. It's DU..a lot of us have been on here for a long time with so many kindred spirits.. And, fortunate enough to form lasting friendships.
I think Me's crossing was gentle.. she told me early on about it that she wasn't afraid to die and she had told her family and friends that, too.
That was before I knew how serious it was and didn't think that it would happen for a long time.
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Cha
(304,921 posts)SunSeeker
(53,551 posts)Cha
(304,921 posts)you all are. 💕🤷?♀️
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peggysue2
(11,465 posts)I'm so sorry. I hadn't seen Me's posts in a while but thought nothing of it. Life gets busy for us all or gets in the way.
What terrible news for you. And for the group at large.
Cha
(304,921 posts)news for all.. I happened to be the one who PM & asked how she was because I hadn't seen her around.
I never expected such serious news that she had been in the hospital because there had been water on her lungs from an Xray.
That was June 25th.. & then we Pm a few times.. and I never heard from her again after my July 30th PM. So I sent another card to her home in Manhattan.. still nothing until her husband sent me a card that I got on August 23rd that she had Passed last Thursday.. It was so heart crushing and shocking.
How's your Granddaughter, Cassandra?
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peggysue2
(11,465 posts)And how unexpected. It must have been shocking for you. Thank goodness her husband managed to reach out.
As for Cassandra? She's finally on the donor's list after a lot of foot dragging from the insurance company. Their first response was a denial. Once again my daughter-in-law worked the phones demanding a peer-to-peer conference and had the denial turned around. It meant another two-week delay for a situation where time is of the essence. Honestly, I will never understand our screwed-up health system that allows insurance companies to play doctor in life or death situations.
As for Cassandra? She's her smiley-face self, has rebounded from the last round of chemo and is actually coming home while we await a call from the transplant surgeons.
Fingers crossed!
Take care of yourself, girlfriend.
Cha
(304,921 posts)In Me's husband's note he said Mary especially wanted me to get in touch with you to let you know.💕🤷?♀️ She knew.
That's encouraging news about your DIL getting things turned around with the insurance company.. A Miracle!
And, Cassandra being able to be at home while you all wait for the Call.
So gratefl for these important steps🤷?♀️! 💕🤞💕🤞
peggysue2
(11,465 posts)Guess we'll be the crying duet. Aghhhhh. I hate when these things happen. I'm just not good at final endings. But you know, I do hope when my own time comes I have the presence of mind and enough time to reach out to those I've known, cared about and/or respected; there's something about closing the circle as best we can.
As for my DIL, she is the Warrior Advocate for this child. In fact, when I was telling a good friend about the problems, mishaps and general chaos Laura had handled, she said,"You know what? If something happens to me this is who I want going to bat in my behalf. Can I get my name on a list?"
LOL
Pretty impressive though.
Take care, Cha. Thanks for the note, too.
Cha
(304,921 posts)https://www.northstartransitions.com/post/10-benefits-of-crying-for-mental-health#:~:text=Many%20people%20associate%20crying%20with,and%20strengthen%20your%20immune%20system.
Good on Laura.. how fortunate for your whole family for Cassandra to have a Mother who won't take No for an answer.. Gets It Done.. Makes It Happen!
💕🤷?♀️
peggysue2
(11,465 posts)I have a glide path to the Pearly Gates. LOL.
Saying that, I agree btw--crying, weeping, even shrieking is a mega release. Keeping all those emotions bottled up can kill you. It's also my daughter-in-law's secret power: strong during the day, a couple glasses of wine and tears in the evening.
Keeps the world in balance!
burrowowl
(17,984 posts)It looks like she knew she was loved.
Cha
(304,921 posts)Mahalo..
💛💜💚💙💖
Lady Freedom Returns
(14,120 posts)😭
Cha
(304,921 posts)Prairie_Seagull
(3,713 posts)Sorry for the deeply felt loss Cha. Sounds like you had each others backs in a way. How cool.
Cha
(304,921 posts)so much for that.
💛💜💚💙💖
lapucelle
(19,525 posts)Cha
(304,921 posts)and Mahalo to you. 🤷?♀️💕
💛💜💚💙💖
lapucelle
(19,525 posts)Cha
(304,921 posts)SYFROYH
(34,201 posts)Cha
(304,921 posts)Niagara
(9,434 posts)It's devastating to read about losses here on DU.
Cha
(304,921 posts)kairos12
(13,239 posts)Cha
(304,921 posts)IronLionZion
(46,904 posts)Cha
(304,921 posts)senseandsensibility
(20,353 posts)She sounds like a wonderful friend. I think it's cool that you were able to exchange Christmas cards and Birthday cards. May her memory be a blessing, Cha.
Cha
(304,921 posts)Dark n Stormy Knight
(10,018 posts)I'm so sorry for your loss and for the world having one less good person.
Cha
(304,921 posts)Well put.. the World has lost a beautiful person.