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Ohiogal

(34,640 posts)
Wed Jun 26, 2019, 11:35 AM Jun 2019

"You Don't Own Me", A Feminist Anthem with Civil Rights Roots

...is all about empathy.

There's a certain kind of song you just want to crank up after a bad breakup or a rough day at work. In 1963, a young singer renowned for a hit about getting ditched at a party unleashed just such an anthem.

Lesley Gore's coolly mutinous "You Don't Own Me" is richly scored, building from a minor-key dirge in the verses to a spirited chorus. The 1963 hit reframed the 17-year-old Gore as a confident chanteuse, rather than the pert pop princess then best-known for such bubblegum hits as "It's My Party" and "Judy's Turn To Cry." Her earlier songs had mostly concerned boys — getting dumped by boys, getting approval from boys, bragging about the boys who liked her.

In an interview on WHYY's Fresh Air in 1991, Gore recalled when "You Don't Own Me" first came to her attention. "At the time, I know I chose it because I know I liked the strength in the lyric," she told host Terry Gross. "But, for me, it was not a song about being a woman. It was about being a person, and what was involved with that. Of course, it got picked up as an anthem for women, which makes me very proud."

https://www.npr.org/2019/06/26/735819094/lesley-gore-you-dont-own-me-american-anthem

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"You Don't Own Me", A Feminist Anthem with Civil Rights Roots (Original Post) Ohiogal Jun 2019 OP
I used to cry when I heard this song. lark Jun 2019 #1
I was in my 30s in those years virgogal Jun 2019 #2
That story was amazing. I heard it at home, and had to stop what I was Malmsy Jul 2019 #3
I came upon this clip the other day canetoad Oct 2022 #4

lark

(24,162 posts)
1. I used to cry when I heard this song.
Wed Jun 26, 2019, 11:59 AM
Jun 2019

I cried with sadness for how young women were treated and with joy that she's saying "no more", that she will "live my life however I want" (not sure if that's the right word, but think it is).

Malmsy

(304 posts)
3. That story was amazing. I heard it at home, and had to stop what I was
Mon Jul 22, 2019, 10:47 AM
Jul 2019

doing to listen.

Hearing the song on A Handmaid's Tale was eerie.

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