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XanaDUer2

(14,738 posts)
Sun Jun 23, 2024, 11:53 AM Jun 2024

Is it possible to have a "friends" or meetup forum?

I've given up for the most part local. Had several bad interactions on reddit and meetup. Is it possible to have a forum for ppl looking for ppl on DU to talk to, share similar interests, PM? Maybe meet up or visit if they want? I have interacted with some homebound DUers, and it would be nice to have some communication, even online. Share phone numbers if they want. TIA

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Is it possible to have a "friends" or meetup forum? (Original Post) XanaDUer2 Jun 2024 OP
I think it's a good idea Walleye Jun 2024 #1
You'll love this XanaDUer2 Jun 2024 #2
That's pretty funny, I've never gotten into Reddit Walleye Jun 2024 #3
In the context of the entire post XanaDUer2 Jun 2024 #4
I have not been on Reddit for some time. John1956PA Jun 2024 #5
I'm done with looking for friends on Reddit XanaDUer2 Jun 2024 #6
I am sorry for your unpleasant experience. John1956PA Jun 2024 #7
Ty. I'm disabled XanaDUer2 Jun 2024 #8
I think that's a good idea. LoisB Jun 2024 #9
start in the forum for your state. It will help you find DU folks in your own town yellowdogintexas Jun 2024 #10
All excellent suggestions XanaDUer2 Jun 2024 #11
Setup a meetup IbogaProject Jun 2024 #12
Thank you nt XanaDUer2 Jun 2024 #13
Kick Anybody? Nt XanaDUer2 Jun 2024 #14

XanaDUer2

(14,738 posts)
2. You'll love this
Sun Jun 23, 2024, 12:00 PM
Jun 2024

Reddit MAN (I asked for female) asked me did I really want a lunch buddy, and that the word lunch is code word for swingers.. I'm done with Reddit.

XanaDUer2

(14,738 posts)
4. In the context of the entire post
Sun Jun 23, 2024, 12:13 PM
Jun 2024

It seemed to me the meaning of whom I was looking for was pretty clear, to me. Theres a sex group and I wasn't in there.

Then, a MAN reached out and he too was looking for a sex partner. His was so obscene I blocked him. Lots of Trumpers here, too.

John1956PA

(3,456 posts)
5. I have not been on Reddit for some time.
Sun Jun 23, 2024, 12:34 PM
Jun 2024

I once participated in a Reddit old-car thread. I followed posts in a Reddit thread when a sensational homicide case was in the news. I never thought to look for a friend on Reddit. I enjoy posting on DU more than I do on Fb. Once in a while, I will post a comment to a story on Yahoo News.

XanaDUer2

(14,738 posts)
6. I'm done with looking for friends on Reddit
Sun Jun 23, 2024, 12:41 PM
Jun 2024

I met a woman 8 mos ago, we went to the beach twice, I explained my driving situation (unreliable car) she said no problem, she loves driving, she drives all over. Then it became a problem. Id check in on her every few days. She never once checked in on me. One time. Shed call every now and then and rant her problems to me

Then Tue she called me an enabler

John1956PA

(3,456 posts)
7. I am sorry for your unpleasant experience.
Sun Jun 23, 2024, 12:58 PM
Jun 2024

I work part-time. Budgeting my available time and energy prevents my from seeking out an in-person friend at this time. I enjoy interacting with DU acquaintances via posts and, sometimes, through DU mail. You have my best wishes in your search for an activity partner.

XanaDUer2

(14,738 posts)
8. Ty. I'm disabled
Sun Jun 23, 2024, 01:02 PM
Jun 2024

Id hope we can add a friends' forum here. At least I won't get a MAGA nut here

yellowdogintexas

(22,841 posts)
10. start in the forum for your state. It will help you find DU folks in your own town
Sun Jun 23, 2024, 02:54 PM
Jun 2024

Long ago the DFW DUfolks had meetups for dinner occasionally. That sort of dwindled off - we lost 4 people to relocation that I know of

I had good luck with Meetup though. Found a Liberal Ladies Who Lunch group and we get together monthly at our favorite burger place. We have a book club, a movie group and a breakfast group. Occasionally we will attend a special event together.

Also, search around for local Democratic Grass Roots Clubs in your area. Here we have 7 large Democratic Clubs and a couple of other small ones. Your County Democratic office should have info on that. I met most of my Democratic friends at our Democratic Woman's Club and the Meetup group.

XanaDUer2

(14,738 posts)
11. All excellent suggestions
Sun Jun 23, 2024, 03:17 PM
Jun 2024

Thank you. The president of our local Democratic club yelled at me over a free room when I was working, so I avoid that group. Goes to show there are jerks in every group.

I've attemped meetups in my state forum, unsuccessfully sadly. I've also posted in local meet-up groups, and my posts are being reviwed b4 posting in one group forever. The other group okayed me but, when I post, my posts don't show up.

I'm asking this because Id like to interact with other DU ers maybe looking for someone to communicate with if theyre lonely , exchange phone numbers etc.

Thanks for responding

IbogaProject

(3,843 posts)
12. Setup a meetup
Sun Jun 23, 2024, 05:07 PM
Jun 2024

Make a plan to meet somewhere, with bad weather plans too. Post a thread here and see if you get any bites.

https://www.radius.to/

is a new alternative to meetup as they got bought by a less reputable firm.

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