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ExtremelyWokeMatt

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Sat Dec 10, 2022, 04:56 PM Dec 2022

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This message was self-deleted by its author (Original Post) ExtremelyWokeMatt Dec 2022 OP
I don't know how to help, but I know how to send you hugs and positive support. MLAA Dec 2022 #1
Thank you, virtual hugs are never something I would turn down! ExtremelyWokeMatt Dec 2022 #2
it is sinister ShepKat Dec 2022 #3
It really is... ExtremelyWokeMatt Dec 2022 #4

MLAA

(18,602 posts)
1. I don't know how to help, but I know how to send you hugs and positive support.
Sat Dec 10, 2022, 04:59 PM
Dec 2022

ExtremelyWokeMatt

(161 posts)
2. Thank you, virtual hugs are never something I would turn down!
Sat Dec 10, 2022, 05:00 PM
Dec 2022

ShepKat

(419 posts)
3. it is sinister
Sat Dec 10, 2022, 05:18 PM
Dec 2022

how abusers lay the groundwork ahead of time to get away with their bullshit. I left my X before sunrise one morning. He sent me over 1000 emails the first year - and convinced family I was the abuser. It was bizarre. He died in 2021 from his self destruction. I will publish the emails some day.

ExtremelyWokeMatt

(161 posts)
4. It really is...
Sat Dec 10, 2022, 05:31 PM
Dec 2022

Despite my earlier goddess comment I’m actually primarily Buddhist (totally supportive of earth religions though, and Christians/any others who are accepting) so getting caught up with a man like that that I merely thought I was going to have a typical/normal enough relationship with turned my world upside down.

I have a hard time wanting to see anyone in real pain or suffering, even acting that way in drama roles is uncomfortable without some decent meditation.

I wish aggressive Conservatives would get over themselves but sadly there is a lot of (what I used to resist calling) evil in the world confounding attempts to heal the planet and provide for everyone.

Glad to hear you made it through your ordeal though. I know *why* they do it (from a behavioral/biological/architectural standpoint) but it doesn’t make abuse and corruption easier to live with.

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