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The_jackalope

(1,660 posts)
Thu Aug 17, 2017, 09:35 AM Aug 2017

Mrs. Jackalope



If, as I believe, the goal of a portrait is to reveal the subject's character and inner landscape, I have to count this as the most successful portrait I have ever made. The photo was taken just a few days ago, and shows Mrs. Jackalope as she enters the final stage of ovarian cancer. She is completely at peace; her serenity, dignity, grace, awareness, wisdom and humour are clear. Her eyes hold no fear.

We are standing together, hand in hand on the bank of the river Styx. In the distance I can see the ferryman's light approaching. The scent of love fills the air.
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Mrs. Jackalope (Original Post) The_jackalope Aug 2017 OP
What a lovely tribute to your wife. I'm sorry you have to go through this. shraby Aug 2017 #1
Beautiful lady, beautiful portrait, beautiful tribute... ADX Aug 2017 #2
The portrait is stunning, as is the woman. Peace and love to you both. SaveOurDemocracy Aug 2017 #3
She is very lucky MuseRider Aug 2017 #4
I am indeed blessed to be able to take this journey with her. The_jackalope Aug 2017 #7
The light of love is in her eyes radical noodle Aug 2017 #5
What a beautiful tribute to your lovely wife, my dear jackalope... CaliforniaPeggy Aug 2017 #6
A loving photographic portrait nocoincidences Aug 2017 #8
Beautiful Duppers Aug 2017 #9
A testament to true beauty by raven mad Aug 2017 #10
RIP uppityperson Sep 2017 #11
 

ADX

(1,622 posts)
2. Beautiful lady, beautiful portrait, beautiful tribute...
Thu Aug 17, 2017, 09:44 AM
Aug 2017

...my thoughts and prayers are with you both.

MuseRider

(34,352 posts)
4. She is very lucky
Thu Aug 17, 2017, 10:06 AM
Aug 2017

to have you there with her as she takes steps to her next journey. You are lucky to be sharing it, many don't or won't or can't. It hurts but in the long run of life you will be blessed more than you can imagine for being there.

I wish you both ease in the transition. Open the window a crack for her, so many of my patients asked for that so I do it routinely although not often anymore since I have not worked in health care for a long time now, just family now.

I felt compelled to respond to you. You have great love, courage and heart as does your wife. I hope it goes easily for her. For you, well you know. Be well and easy with yourself. I wish you peace.

The_jackalope

(1,660 posts)
7. I am indeed blessed to be able to take this journey with her.
Thu Aug 17, 2017, 11:17 AM
Aug 2017

We have been together for only seven years, after being lost to each other for the previous thirty. These seven years have slaked a lifetime's thirst for love, and the inner work we have both done has prepared us well for this.

She has been an artist since the age of five. In the last seven years she worked digitally, using fractal software as the basis for her remarkable visionary art. In our time together she created for 12 hours or more every day, while I provided the necessities of life. She generated a catalogue of over 3,000 finished works. In May she put aside her mouse and Wacom tablet without a whisper of protest, and said her work was complete. She has begun the process of saying goodbye to her friends, both real and virtual.

Thank you for the suggestion of opening the window, it feels right. She has already chosen her transition music, along with a few poems by Hafiz that she would like me to read to her when it's time.

I never expected it to feel like this.

CaliforniaPeggy

(151,907 posts)
6. What a beautiful tribute to your lovely wife, my dear jackalope...
Thu Aug 17, 2017, 10:13 AM
Aug 2017

May she have safe passage and may you endure the coming loss with grace and dignity.

Thank you for sharing this stunning portrait with us.

nocoincidences

(2,313 posts)
8. A loving photographic portrait
Thu Aug 17, 2017, 11:43 AM
Aug 2017

of someone who is obviously very loved.

The photo reminds me of the painting of Mona Lisa.

What a lovely representation.

raven mad

(4,940 posts)
10. A testament to true beauty by
Fri Aug 18, 2017, 04:06 AM
Aug 2017

both of you. Light and peace. For the beautiful Mrs. Jackalope, and the wonderful man she married.

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