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157. I'm so sorry, Panther

Reply to I_UndergroundPanther (Original post)

Sat Jan 4, 2020, 12:07 PM

Jan 2020

Holidays are always the worse.

I've lost everyone now except my younger brother. One thing that might help you, is to start a journal/book with everything Mom....all your memories of her from your earliest age, conversations, quirks, arguments, jokes, trips together. Most of it will make you smile.

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My mom died last night. [View all] I_UndergroundPanther Jan 2020 OP

I am so sorry for your loss, I_UndergroundPanther... CaliforniaPeggy Jan 2020 #1

be happy that you saw her in December malaise Jan 2020 #2

You have some wonderful memories of your Mom mercuryblues Jan 2020 #3

I feel your pain, I lost my mother on December 27th at the age of 93. AJT Jan 2020 #4

I am so sorry, AJT. dewsgirl Jan 2020 #7

My condolences to you, AJT Metatron Jan 2020 #12

I am so sorry for your loss Hekate Jan 2020 #25

I am sorry for your loss. I still miss my Mom after 16 years. Grief does not end, but it Atticus Jan 2020 #75

I lost my husband last year.....it's been a difficult time. AJT Jan 2020 #103

Damn... I'm so sorry to hear that. You've had some rough times. calimary Jan 2020 #131

My sincerest thanks. AJT Jan 2020 #149

Oh, AJT, from the heart, condolences. It is never enough time we have had when we lose our emmaverybo Jan 2020 #102

Hugs malaise Jan 2020 #141

For your Mom BigMin28 Jan 2020 #5

I am so sorry Panther, it is one of the worst things in the world dewsgirl Jan 2020 #6

My condolences. CentralMass Jan 2020 #8

so sorry for this heavy loss of your mom, your best friend peacebuzzard Jan 2020 #9

My deepest sympathies Metatron Jan 2020 #10

I_UndergroundPanther, your love shines through babylonsister Jan 2020 #11

I'm so sorry. Jane Austin Jan 2020 #13

To you and yours. sheshe2 Jan 2020 #14

I'm so sorry. Ohiogal Jan 2020 #15

I am so sorry for your loss Freddie Jan 2020 #16

So sorry for your loss, I_UndergroundPanther. mia Jan 2020 #17

Your sorrow resonates. Holding you in my heart. n/t TygrBright Jan 2020 #18

I'm very sorry for your loss DesertRat Jan 2020 #19

She's in a place with no diseases and she's happy there. But she can visit you whenever you Karadeniz Jan 2020 #20

I am so sorry for your loss. May you feel blessed every tme you remember her name... Hekate Jan 2020 #21

There are no words that are acceptable substitutes for hugs, but I hope these will provide some Atticus Jan 2020 #22

My grandmother died in 1980 and I still tear up when I remember her. TruckFump Jan 2020 #30

My deepest sympathy bdamomma Jan 2020 #23

What a beautiful and loving tribute you wrote. So sorry appalachiablue Jan 2020 #24

Very sorry for your loss, I_UndergroundPanther! Different Drummer Jan 2020 #26

Your love and sorrow are deeply felt, and I'm sorry for your loss. Peace will find you. ancianita Jan 2020 #27

So sorry for your loss. TruckFump Jan 2020 #28

... spanone Jan 2020 #29

I have empathy for your loss. BigmanPigman Jan 2020 #31

I'm sorry, BigmanPigman. LuckyCharms Jan 2020 #85

Thank you! BigmanPigman Jan 2020 #90

Don't let the crying bother you... LuckyCharms Jan 2020 #93

I think it would be a smart move on my part BigmanPigman Jan 2020 #107

i'm sorry about your dad orleans Jan 2020 #89

Yes, that has happened to me too. BigmanPigman Jan 2020 #95

All my sympathy, BP - every New Year's Day I remember my dad. calimary Jan 2020 #170

Thank you... BigmanPigman Jan 2020 #171

I'm so sorry for your loss. badhair77 Jan 2020 #32

Rest in peace shenmue Jan 2020 #33

It doesn't matter how old a beloved mom is when she dies, or how ill at the end, pnwmom Jan 2020 #34

Remember and cherish the happy days, they will be with you eternally. magicarpet Jan 2020 #35

I'm so glad you had that time with her. My deepest condolences. nt chowder66 Jan 2020 #36

Been there... lost two moms. You have my heartfelt condolences. InAbLuEsTaTe Jan 2020 #37

I am so sorry for you, UndergroundPanther. Yes, she lived a good, long life, but that doesn't tblue37 Jan 2020 #38

I'm so sorry for your loss. mountain grammy Jan 2020 #39

Condolences may good memories help in the grief lunasun Jan 2020 #40

I am so sorry MaryMagdaline Jan 2020 #41

I am so sorry ismnotwasm Jan 2020 #42

My deepest condolence to you. jrthin Jan 2020 #43

I'm so very sorry for your loss. StarryNite Jan 2020 #44

I'm so sorry. cate94 Jan 2020 #45

I'm so sorry dflprincess Jan 2020 #46

Sounds like she saved your life. And then you saved hers, to be around a bit... FailureToCommunicate Jan 2020 #47

My Deepheartfelt condolences bubbazero Jan 2020 #48

So sad for your loss. littlemissmartypants Jan 2020 #49

Panther, I'm so sorry. Duppers Jan 2020 #50

Sorry for your loss. Stuart G Jan 2020 #51

I'm very sorry for your loss and the hurt you are feeling. sinkingfeeling Jan 2020 #52

Sorry for your loss ... lost my pops less than 3 months ago, I know how it hurts ... mr_lebowski Jan 2020 #53

Profound sadness... sprinkleeninow Jan 2020 #54

I am so sorry for you. bronxiteforever Jan 2020 #55

The combination of grief and love randr Jan 2020 #56

Stay strong, Panther PlanetBev Jan 2020 #57

So sorry to hear of your loss. Paz RestoreAmerica2020 Jan 2020 #58

Oh, I Am So Very Sorry DarthDem Jan 2020 #59

Mom's are Precious. pdxflyboy Jan 2020 #60

I posted a tribute to my late Mom on DU several years ago... ClusterFreak Jan 2020 #61

🕯️ irisblue Jan 2020 #62

You have written such a beautiful tribute soldierant Jan 2020 #63

I'm so sorry, I_UP... regnaD kciN Jan 2020 #64

such a tribute to your mother, so sorry for your loss Demonaut Jan 2020 #65

I am SO sorry for your loss. She was an angel and now has her wings. CousinIT Jan 2020 #66

... Anon-C Jan 2020 #67

That is an extraordinarily beautiful memorial. nolabear Jan 2020 #68

I am so sorry. Maraya1969 Jan 2020 #69

I_UndergroundPanther, I am so sorry. madaboutharry Jan 2020 #70

I'm so sorry. yardwork Jan 2020 #71

Hugs your way. No one knows or thinks about what Laura PourMeADrink Jan 2020 #72

God I am so sorry vercetti2021 Jan 2020 #73

I'm so glad you had her for such a long time. I know that doesn't help with the pain right UniteFightBack Jan 2020 #74

Now is when you need to reconnect with your extended fam brokephibroke Jan 2020 #76

So happy that you can say that here......love that your mother was your protector.... a kennedy Jan 2020 #77

I'm so sorry...a wonderful mom is an especially wonderful person lapucelle Jan 2020 #78

My condolences to you and your family. I am so sorry for your loss. onecaliberal Jan 2020 #79

.. proud patriot Jan 2020 #80

so sorry... handmade34 Jan 2020 #81

I am so sorry for your loss. brer cat Jan 2020 #82

I'm so sorry. LuckyCharms Jan 2020 #83

I'm so sorry Danmel Jan 2020 #84

My heart goes out to you - some Moms are just irreplaceable. Marie Marie Jan 2020 #86

Can't wait gaiadiversity Jan 2020 #87

I'm so sorry for your loss. Nt helpisontheway Jan 2020 #88

I'm sorry for your loss Beringia Jan 2020 #91

I am so sorry for you ! Tumbulu Jan 2020 #92

Sorry for your loss(es) Nimrod900 Jan 2020 #94

I'm so sorry you have lost your wonderful mother. AllyCat Jan 2020 #96

I'm so sorry for your loss. FuzzyRabbit Jan 2020 #97

Condolences. Liberal In Texas Jan 2020 #98

Very sorry for your loss dlk Jan 2020 #99

I am so very sorry. This tribute is beautiful for how it honors your mother, but I feel the pain in emmaverybo Jan 2020 #100

my heart goes out to you orleans Jan 2020 #101

Condolences on the loss of your beloved mother. gademocrat7 Jan 2020 #104

Love and peace to you... Freedomofspeech Jan 2020 #105

Mine died too on January 2nd 7 years ago..... ProudMNDemocrat Jan 2020 #106

My deepest sympathies. I know exactly how you feel. TrollBuster9090 Jan 2020 #108

What an extraordinary woman. MLAA Jan 2020 #109

Peace to you and your family. lonely bird Jan 2020 #110

Sorry for your loss. 47of74 Jan 2020 #111

I am so sorry. murielm99 Jan 2020 #112

I am so sorry ashling Jan 2020 #113

So sorry MFM008 Jan 2020 #114

You did your Mom proud with those words. Shaddox Jan 2020 #115

I'm so sorry for the loss of your dear, sweet mother. May the love she had for you and all of your sueh Jan 2020 #116

I am so sorry for your loss. It hurts my heart to read your post...my Dad died of Supra Nuclear Demsrule86 Jan 2020 #117

I am so sorry. mvd Jan 2020 #118

Losing mother is the hardest. kimbutgar Jan 2020 #119

As Camus said "the benign indifference of the universe' triron Jan 2020 #120

I'm so sorry Raine Jan 2020 #121

My condolences BlueSpot Jan 2020 #122

Sorry for your loss marlakay Jan 2020 #123

Tears... flying rabbit Jan 2020 #124

I'm so sorry wryter2000 Jan 2020 #125

When my mom died someone told me energy never dies.. nini Jan 2020 #126

Hugs Lithos Jan 2020 #127

My deepest condolences. Moostache Jan 2020 #128

I am so so sorry for your loss Withywindle Jan 2020 #129

I am so very sorry for your loss. Allow yourself to grieve, but feel comforted by Backseat Driver Jan 2020 #130

I'm glad you had a mother like that, my friend. calimary Jan 2020 #132

My sincere condolences. mfcorey1 Jan 2020 #133

I'm so sorry Underground Panther. smirkymonkey Jan 2020 #134

Deepest of condolences to you and your family polmaven Jan 2020 #135

(((hugs))) samnsara Jan 2020 #136

As you can see... tazkcmo Jan 2020 #137

I am so sorry, there is no pain quite like the loss of one's mom. FM123 Jan 2020 #138

I am so sorry for your loss, I_UndergroundPanther. PA Democrat Jan 2020 #139

So very sorry. tavernier Jan 2020 #140

I'm so very sorry. I know the pain you are going through. MoonRiver Jan 2020 #142

I'm glad you and your sisters have each other. Hortensis Jan 2020 #143

so sorry for your loss krakfiend Jan 2020 #144

So Sorry DownriverDem Jan 2020 #145

A terrible loss for you and your family lillypaddle Jan 2020 #146

I'm so sorry for your loss, I_UndergroundPanther. SalmonChantedEvening Jan 2020 #147

My condolences to you Dennis Donovan Jan 2020 #148

I'm so sorry to read this. My thoughts are with you. MineralMan Jan 2020 #150

My sincere condolences. femmocrat Jan 2020 #151

Condolences TEB Jan 2020 #152

She will always be there Marthe48 Jan 2020 #153

I'm so sorry... CaptainTruth Jan 2020 #154

I am so very sorry. CottonBear Jan 2020 #155

So very sorry for your loss, UndergroundPanther. Granny M Jan 2020 #156

I'm so sorry, Panther Bayard Jan 2020 #157

I'm so sorry for your loss. wendyb-NC Jan 2020 #158

So sorry for your loss. Old age is a battle for many and your mother certainly had her issues. Frustratedlady Jan 2020 #159

So sorry to hear this! bluestarone Jan 2020 #160

My heart goes out to you. Hulk Jan 2020 #161

A beautiful tribute to your loving mom KSNY Jan 2020 #162

Deepest sympathies to you and your family. Duncan Grant Jan 2020 #163

So sorry for your loss iamateacher Jan 2020 #164

So difficult to say anything of true value at times like this... MerryBlooms Jan 2020 #165

I am so sorry for your loss MissMillie Jan 2020 #166

She will forever be in your heart..... Heartstrings Jan 2020 #167

My heart is breaking for you. Callalily Jan 2020 #168

I am so sorry. Mickju Jan 2020 #169

I am sorry for your loss. EndlessWire Jan 2020 #172