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electric_blue68

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89. My parents esp my mom taught us to be non-racists...

Mon Oct 28, 2024, 07:52 PM

Oct 28

With her I think it was a mix of 2 experiences. One of her favorite cousins about 15 yrs younger had a very cruel mother. Mom hated cruelty.
Then she was a First Gen American both her parents were Greek Immigrants. Watching the Civil Rights Actions in The South of the '60's up here in NYC of people African-Americans who's roots went back hundreds of years; while she was a "newbie" being treated well, while they were treated so cruely rankled her sense of fairness, and justice.

She also told us that racism existed here -up here in NYC. She'd give examples.

Both of my parents welcomed my friends - White, Black, Chinese, Catholic, Christian, Jewish, (religious identification wasn't a point of discussion, or a gauge), probably an Aethiest or two in there.
I never heard any kind of slurs from them.

I've read that each generation of white kids are less racist, or more are non-rascist.

It's probably still true despite the rocks that drumphf turned over, and gave to virulent racists permission to spew their poisons! It's been hideous to catch some of their comments to be aware of what's happening.

Hopefully we'll send drumphf & Co packing! Their sewage back underground, and keep making Our USA the fairer place we aspire to. Our black citizens, friends, co-workers, acquaintences, can begin to truly relax more as first-class citizenship will become more of their reality!

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Being Black and hearing republicans laughing it up at watermelon jokes at my expense [View all] bigtree Oct 28 OP

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That's why I watched it malaise Oct 28 #81

Sick indeed... B.See Oct 28 #84

The media gave these scumbags a pass for far too long malaise Oct 28 #85

We the people B.See Oct 28 #86

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You see, Malaise, this is why, for just as many years, B.See Oct 29 #97

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The MAGA Fascist crowd,... magicarpet Oct 28 #77

The importance of recording history accurately cannot be ignored. twodogsbarking Oct 28 #4

History has often been "recordded accurately" BumRushDaShow Oct 28 #19

Sadly, I don't think we were anywhere near purging racists from this country. They were simply not exposed and now 33taw Oct 28 #5

I wish I could disagree, but I can't. soldierant Oct 28 #92

Probably better to know, but it is scary. 33taw Oct 28 #96

Such old hatred, and they think it's funny. Authoritarians start with lindysalsagal Oct 28 #6

Interesting last sentence slightlv Oct 28 #20

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That's kind of what I remembered... slightlv Oct 28 #53

We are not our great grandfather's Democratic Party. Marcuse Oct 28 #93

And women stayed in indentured servitude. slightlv Oct 28 #94

Thanks for your perspective, bigtree... Harker Oct 28 #7

Deeply distressing jmbar2 Oct 28 #8

My grandparents lived in a time where racist language was common and acceptable. Espoir Oct 28 #9

I understand your thinking slightlv Oct 28 #22

Robert Reich's Substack today soldierant Oct 29 #101

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I cannot even imagine. Moosepoop Oct 28 #10

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Any Christian who is a racist is gonna get the express ride down ArkansasDemocrat1 Oct 28 #13

Not only do I agree with you but you gave me my first laugh of this sad day. efhmc Oct 28 #24

I hope it helped 😃 ArkansasDemocrat1 Oct 28 #25

When I was growing up, we were told as followers of Christ that it was wrong to hate people. We could hate spinach, etc efhmc Oct 28 #80

I'm with you. MLAA Oct 28 #12

Rather than being born evil slightlv Oct 28 #23

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Best thing that happened in my school days. Lunabell Oct 29 #100

I spent four years in the south in the mid 1960's. I hope that by now nearly 60 years later that the civil war level.... usaf-vet Oct 28 #14

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Lots dead in them brains. Kid Berwyn Oct 28 #21

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My story llmart Oct 28 #35

Your mom sounds like me when my husband wanted to take a tech job in Saudi Arabia... Hekate Oct 28 #58

My father was a Design Engineer there. ProudMNDemocrat Oct 28 #62

A Martin Luther King quote that moved me 40 or more years ago. Zilli Oct 28 #26

good quote et tu Oct 28 #34

Again, this should be a campaign-ender for Dump, like mocking the disabled reporter Blue Owl Oct 28 #27

SHOULD be... B.See Oct 28 #82

I stand with you, bigtree. Kid Berwyn Oct 28 #28

That whole rally reminded me of "Birth of a Nation" a racist silent movie Sorry bigtree debm55 Oct 28 #29

I'm Southern,white,and offended as hell. BattleRow Oct 28 #30

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My Dad was a racist Marthe48 Oct 28 #37

So was mine, but I was lucky, he was also a gent Warpy Oct 28 #46

My Dad treated people nicely Marthe48 Oct 28 #50

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I grew up in a suburb of Cleveland also. llmart Oct 28 #73

I'm angry too IbogaProject Oct 28 #38

they're even inept, outdated rascists NJCher Oct 28 #39

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I grew up in the South in the segregation years. nolabear Oct 28 #45

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On my better days I believe you. nolabear Oct 28 #71

"Our actual joy". There it is. That's why we'll win this in the end. RussellCattle Oct 28 #47

Racist assholes. Martin68 Oct 28 #48

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They were yukking it up and I wanted to up-chuck. I'm sure you heard the misogyny as well. Hekate Oct 28 #66

Boldness equal to the challenge Desert Dog Oct 28 #70

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My parents esp my mom taught us to be non-racists... electric_blue68 Oct 28 #89

I am white and I don't believe that any black American loves watermelon Jack Valentino Oct 28 #90

Absolutely terrible Republicans and the people laughing along. AllyCat Oct 28 #91

I weep for the loss of all that is good UpInArms Oct 28 #95

These bigots love to use the first amendment as a shield... DSandra Oct 29 #98