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Duncan Grant

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Sun Nov 10, 2024, 03:02 PM Nov 10

Mark Morford: Buy a Gun [View all]

AKA 27 things I’ve learned from social media in 72 hours

This is not my normal content. Actually, it sort of is, as what you're about to read is more or less exactly the kind of material I used to write about every week, for close to 20 years for the SF Chronicle, in my once semi-famous opinion column, which ran from the depths of 1998 through the latter half of 2017…

Please note that most of the following tips and perspectives do not come from me (though I've added commentary and emphasis to many of them). This is a batch of responses I’ve been gleaning from some of the more thoughtful, heartbroken, but also supremely fierce humans who have been streaming through my social media feeds in the past 72 hours – mainly young women…

1. Buy a gun. I do not recognize myself for saying this, but if you are a progressive young woman living in or around a red state, and/or anywhere near frat bros, tech bros or any kind of bro, buy a gun. Even if you’ve been passionately anti-gun, anti-violence, anti-NRA as I’ve been my entire life and career, it has become blindingly clear that a shocking majority of American men do not give a fuck for your rights, your health, or your bodily autonomy. And they are displaying this gleeful misogyny right now, in full and grotesque force, all across social media…


Remaining list here.

This is excellent food for thought, extremely relevant to women’s lives, and a great preparation exercise. Topics: stock up on birth control, update your passport, reveal nothing about your life or your friend’s lives, considering a divorce (do it now), download the Signal app, leaving the country — and more. (Bookmark this thread.)
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Mark Morford: Buy a Gun [View all] Duncan Grant Nov 10 OP
Me: No johnp3907 Nov 10 #1
How did you possibly have time to read it in 2 minutes?! Duncan Grant Nov 10 #2
Definitely not NRA propaganda. FuzzyRabbit Nov 10 #4
Now it's just a sad reality. MrsCheaplaugh Nov 10 #95
So you're a man who thinks women should not arm themselves ms liberty Nov 10 #13
My body,your choice if I shoot your ass or not..go ahead,make my day.. BattleRow Nov 10 #64
THAT'S THE ANSWER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Ladyhawke1 Nov 12 #107
Very few intruders are brave enough to try ms liberty Nov 12 #108
You definitely didn't read that too closely if that is the take away TheKentuckian Nov 10 #15
Men can have the guns they want, but when women talk about getting guns, no way. Irish_Dem Nov 10 #54
I'm not completely on board with people with no weapons training buying guns. TomSlick Nov 10 #60
Well of course people need training on how to use a gun. Irish_Dem Nov 10 #65
You know me better than to suggest I think woman are idiots. TomSlick Nov 10 #66
Yes that is why I was surprised by your post. Irish_Dem Nov 10 #76
I am terrified for my wife, DIL and granddaughters. TomSlick Nov 10 #83
Then post that. Post that you are scared for the women in your life. Don't mansplain what we Maru Kitteh Nov 11 #98
I apologize. TomSlick Nov 11 #106
Did you read the article? TomSlick Nov 10 #55
I agree with this gay texan Nov 10 #3
I'm teaching my 14 yr old daughter how to shoot my handgun this week NickB79 Nov 10 #5
Gave me much to consider, good advice Ferryboat Nov 10 #6
I sent this to a few like-minded female friends of mine. NickB79 Nov 10 #7
Ooooo! I love situational ethics! TheProle Nov 10 #8
This isnt situational ethics gay texan Nov 10 #33
Women being threatened with rape is not just a classroom discussion in ethics. Irish_Dem Nov 10 #58
Meaning what, exactly? niyad Nov 10 #79
Your Body, My Choice speak easy Nov 10 #9
The level of misogynistic arrogance in that statement is so astounding. OldBaldy1701E Nov 10 #38
Remind them that Hitler was defeated. GoreWon2000 Nov 10 #67
Here's a good come back..."your face my fist!" PortTack Nov 10 #39
"Your nuts, my knee!" Ocelot II Nov 10 #61
'your balls, my heels' speak easy Nov 10 #93
Here's the thing milestogo Nov 10 #10
There is plenty of info GenThePerservering Nov 10 #14
You find sympathetic and Democratic gun owners DemonGoddess Nov 10 #17
Go to a local gun shop or range AverageOldGuy Nov 10 #18
Try contacting your State DNR for firearms training. LNM Nov 10 #21
Thats where i come in gay texan Nov 10 #34
... because I'm guessing every gun shop and instructor in my area is MAGA Alice B. Nov 10 #42
Don't count on it. Demobrat Nov 10 #48
Objectively I know that Alice B. Nov 10 #72
Good for you ... you just never know, and are always better safe by saying NO, and preparing yourself to run, SWBTATTReg Nov 10 #84
Thank you. And I am still bereft we have only gone backwards in terms of women feeling like prey. Alice B. Nov 10 #86
We are prey. Time to accept it and act like it. Demobrat Nov 10 #88
Yes, that's deeply unfortunately and very pathetic. My sister is a strong person and has the personality to suit SWBTATTReg Nov 10 #90
You were alone. That's all it takes. And now they are emboldened. Demobrat Nov 10 #85
Exactly! Alice B. Nov 10 #89
I didn't know what Yankee Candle was. Had to google it. Demobrat Nov 10 #92
Just don't advertise to the gun shops and instructors you're liberal NickB79 Nov 10 #70
I'm in a longtime red county in a now-red state Alice B. Nov 10 #80
Go to Cabela's or Bass Pro. colorado_ufo Nov 10 #68
No guns for me. mzmolly Nov 10 #11
Those who are comfortable carrying should. IrishAfricanAmerican Nov 10 #12
Also there are other deterrents GenThePerservering Nov 10 #16
Thats the other aspect of it, martial arts gay texan Nov 10 #36
It's a good idea, unless Deep State Witch Nov 10 #19
Another solution is needed GenThePerservering Nov 10 #20
Check into Katcat Nov 10 #32
Hat pins BattleRow Nov 10 #74
Good Read but be warned, and intrigued. (Intrigued can have positive or negative spin right?) Prairie_Seagull Nov 10 #22
No. Absolutely not. PoindexterOglethorpe Nov 10 #23
I am considering this AKwannabe Nov 10 #24
Unfortunately, if you pull a weapon, it needs to be used. love_katz Nov 10 #73
Guy doesn't know much about having a gun for self defense Kaleva Nov 10 #25
Yeah, this soandso Nov 10 #37
Yes! Kaleva Nov 10 #82
Do NOT buy a handgun WalkerinSC Nov 10 #26
I needed to hear this. Alice B. Nov 10 #57
Guns are dangerous, even in the hands cops, home owners and at gun ranges. multigraincracker Nov 10 #27
Agree Kaleva Nov 10 #30
from the piece proud patriot Nov 10 #28
Years ago I stopped at a yard sale and was talking the guy running it, an older guy, multigraincracker Nov 10 #29
I've met plenty of morons with guns... Happy Hoosier Nov 10 #44
Nope. nt Tommy Carcetti Nov 10 #31
Start carrying pepper spray or mace (if legal), ladies. roamer65 Nov 10 #35
Shotgun is very handy for home defense. 58Sunliner Nov 10 #52
we have one cksmithy Nov 10 #77
I'll be honest.... Happy Hoosier Nov 10 #40
Thank you so much for this. I used to post Mark's columns regularly when niyad Nov 10 #41
I ask everyone to read the rest of the very lengthy article at the link. niyad Nov 10 #43
I will never buy a gun. Demobrat Nov 10 #45
I'll ever get a gun because I'll never be prepared to use it. nt Gore1FL Nov 10 #46
Know yourself before you buy a gun. WhiskeyGrinder Nov 10 #47
As a woman who is a gun owner I recommend this. As a rape survivor I heartily endorse this. 58Sunliner Nov 10 #49
There are TWENTY-SEVEN suggestions in his article. Apparently only niyad Nov 10 #50
This message was self-deleted by its author chia Nov 10 #51
If somebody doesn't want to own a gun then that is their choice hadEnuf Nov 10 #53
2b or not 2b 4b? et tu Nov 10 #56
He forgot a very important rule. Demobrat Nov 10 #59
This message was self-deleted by its author Mosby Nov 10 #62
Hubby and I are going to buy a gun Blaukraut Nov 10 #63
Same here. LPBBEAR Nov 10 #94
Remember, you are buying a gun because you intend on using it to kill another person Kaleva Nov 10 #96
Already planning on it nini Nov 10 #69
Thanks! Just bought two rec'd books: "Surviving Autocracy" (Gessen) & "On Tyranny" (Snyder) n/t KatK Nov 10 #71
Good advice for some people. cab67 Nov 10 #75
Are we conflating denial of abortion care with sexual assault? HereForTheParty Nov 10 #78
I take it to mean Demobrat Nov 10 #87
Way ahead of ya. Fla_Democrat Nov 10 #81
If you haven't actually read the linked article, you should. Layzeebeaver Nov 10 #91
You can learn what you need to know about your gun in three hours. Straw Man Nov 11 #97
The ship of state turns slowly and now moves Prairie_Seagull Nov 11 #99
After reading this thread, Disaffected Nov 11 #100
Please read the entire article for a deeper understanding. Duncan Grant Nov 11 #101
I did read the article. Disaffected Nov 11 #102
Excellent, I understand. Duncan Grant Nov 11 #103
Two or more most alarming? Disaffected Nov 11 #105
If suddenly a few hundred thousand women bought guns Historic NY Nov 11 #104
No, thanks (nt) Hippasus Nov 12 #109
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