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Duncan Grant

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Sun Nov 10, 2024, 04:02 PM Nov 2024

Mark Morford: Buy a Gun [View all]

AKA 27 things I’ve learned from social media in 72 hours

This is not my normal content. Actually, it sort of is, as what you're about to read is more or less exactly the kind of material I used to write about every week, for close to 20 years for the SF Chronicle, in my once semi-famous opinion column, which ran from the depths of 1998 through the latter half of 2017…

Please note that most of the following tips and perspectives do not come from me (though I've added commentary and emphasis to many of them). This is a batch of responses I’ve been gleaning from some of the more thoughtful, heartbroken, but also supremely fierce humans who have been streaming through my social media feeds in the past 72 hours – mainly young women…

1. Buy a gun. I do not recognize myself for saying this, but if you are a progressive young woman living in or around a red state, and/or anywhere near frat bros, tech bros or any kind of bro, buy a gun. Even if you’ve been passionately anti-gun, anti-violence, anti-NRA as I’ve been my entire life and career, it has become blindingly clear that a shocking majority of American men do not give a fuck for your rights, your health, or your bodily autonomy. And they are displaying this gleeful misogyny right now, in full and grotesque force, all across social media…


Remaining list here.

This is excellent food for thought, extremely relevant to women’s lives, and a great preparation exercise. Topics: stock up on birth control, update your passport, reveal nothing about your life or your friend’s lives, considering a divorce (do it now), download the Signal app, leaving the country — and more. (Bookmark this thread.)
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Mark Morford: Buy a Gun [View all] Duncan Grant Nov 2024 OP
Me: No johnp3907 Nov 2024 #1
How did you possibly have time to read it in 2 minutes?! Duncan Grant Nov 2024 #2
Definitely not NRA propaganda. FuzzyRabbit Nov 2024 #4
Now it's just a sad reality. MrsCheaplaugh Nov 2024 #95
So you're a man who thinks women should not arm themselves ms liberty Nov 2024 #13
My body,your choice if I shoot your ass or not..go ahead,make my day.. BattleRow Nov 2024 #64
THAT'S THE ANSWER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Ladyhawke1 Nov 2024 #107
Very few intruders are brave enough to try ms liberty Nov 2024 #108
You definitely didn't read that too closely if that is the take away TheKentuckian Nov 2024 #15
Men can have the guns they want, but when women talk about getting guns, no way. Irish_Dem Nov 2024 #54
I'm not completely on board with people with no weapons training buying guns. TomSlick Nov 2024 #60
Well of course people need training on how to use a gun. Irish_Dem Nov 2024 #65
You know me better than to suggest I think woman are idiots. TomSlick Nov 2024 #66
Yes that is why I was surprised by your post. Irish_Dem Nov 2024 #76
I am terrified for my wife, DIL and granddaughters. TomSlick Nov 2024 #83
Then post that. Post that you are scared for the women in your life. Don't mansplain what we Maru Kitteh Nov 2024 #98
I apologize. TomSlick Nov 2024 #106
Did you read the article? TomSlick Nov 2024 #55
I agree with this gay texan Nov 2024 #3
I'm teaching my 14 yr old daughter how to shoot my handgun this week NickB79 Nov 2024 #5
Gave me much to consider, good advice Ferryboat Nov 2024 #6
I sent this to a few like-minded female friends of mine. NickB79 Nov 2024 #7
Ooooo! I love situational ethics! TheProle Nov 2024 #8
This isnt situational ethics gay texan Nov 2024 #33
Women being threatened with rape is not just a classroom discussion in ethics. Irish_Dem Nov 2024 #58
Meaning what, exactly? niyad Nov 2024 #79
Your Body, My Choice speak easy Nov 2024 #9
The level of misogynistic arrogance in that statement is so astounding. OldBaldy1701E Nov 2024 #38
Remind them that Hitler was defeated. GoreWon2000 Nov 2024 #67
Here's a good come back..."your face my fist!" PortTack Nov 2024 #39
"Your nuts, my knee!" Ocelot II Nov 2024 #61
'your balls, my heels' speak easy Nov 2024 #93
Here's the thing milestogo Nov 2024 #10
There is plenty of info GenThePerservering Nov 2024 #14
You find sympathetic and Democratic gun owners DemonGoddess Nov 2024 #17
Go to a local gun shop or range AverageOldGuy Nov 2024 #18
Try contacting your State DNR for firearms training. LNM Nov 2024 #21
Thats where i come in gay texan Nov 2024 #34
... because I'm guessing every gun shop and instructor in my area is MAGA Alice B. Nov 2024 #42
Don't count on it. Demobrat Nov 2024 #48
Objectively I know that Alice B. Nov 2024 #72
Good for you ... you just never know, and are always better safe by saying NO, and preparing yourself to run, SWBTATTReg Nov 2024 #84
Thank you. And I am still bereft we have only gone backwards in terms of women feeling like prey. Alice B. Nov 2024 #86
We are prey. Time to accept it and act like it. Demobrat Nov 2024 #88
Yes, that's deeply unfortunately and very pathetic. My sister is a strong person and has the personality to suit SWBTATTReg Nov 2024 #90
You were alone. That's all it takes. And now they are emboldened. Demobrat Nov 2024 #85
Exactly! Alice B. Nov 2024 #89
I didn't know what Yankee Candle was. Had to google it. Demobrat Nov 2024 #92
Just don't advertise to the gun shops and instructors you're liberal NickB79 Nov 2024 #70
I'm in a longtime red county in a now-red state Alice B. Nov 2024 #80
Go to Cabela's or Bass Pro. colorado_ufo Nov 2024 #68
No guns for me. mzmolly Nov 2024 #11
Those who are comfortable carrying should. IrishAfricanAmerican Nov 2024 #12
Also there are other deterrents GenThePerservering Nov 2024 #16
Thats the other aspect of it, martial arts gay texan Nov 2024 #36
It's a good idea, unless Deep State Witch Nov 2024 #19
Another solution is needed GenThePerservering Nov 2024 #20
Check into Katcat Nov 2024 #32
Hat pins BattleRow Nov 2024 #74
Good Read but be warned, and intrigued. (Intrigued can have positive or negative spin right?) Prairie_Seagull Nov 2024 #22
No. Absolutely not. PoindexterOglethorpe Nov 2024 #23
I am considering this AKwannabe Nov 2024 #24
Unfortunately, if you pull a weapon, it needs to be used. love_katz Nov 2024 #73
Guy doesn't know much about having a gun for self defense Kaleva Nov 2024 #25
Yeah, this soandso Nov 2024 #37
Yes! Kaleva Nov 2024 #82
Do NOT buy a handgun WalkerinSC Nov 2024 #26
I needed to hear this. Alice B. Nov 2024 #57
Guns are dangerous, even in the hands cops, home owners and at gun ranges. multigraincracker Nov 2024 #27
Agree Kaleva Nov 2024 #30
from the piece proud patriot Nov 2024 #28
Years ago I stopped at a yard sale and was talking the guy running it, an older guy, multigraincracker Nov 2024 #29
I've met plenty of morons with guns... Happy Hoosier Nov 2024 #44
Nope. nt Tommy Carcetti Nov 2024 #31
Start carrying pepper spray or mace (if legal), ladies. roamer65 Nov 2024 #35
Shotgun is very handy for home defense. 58Sunliner Nov 2024 #52
we have one cksmithy Nov 2024 #77
I'll be honest.... Happy Hoosier Nov 2024 #40
Thank you so much for this. I used to post Mark's columns regularly when niyad Nov 2024 #41
I ask everyone to read the rest of the very lengthy article at the link. niyad Nov 2024 #43
I will never buy a gun. Demobrat Nov 2024 #45
I'll ever get a gun because I'll never be prepared to use it. nt Gore1FL Nov 2024 #46
Know yourself before you buy a gun. WhiskeyGrinder Nov 2024 #47
As a woman who is a gun owner I recommend this. As a rape survivor I heartily endorse this. 58Sunliner Nov 2024 #49
There are TWENTY-SEVEN suggestions in his article. Apparently only niyad Nov 2024 #50
This message was self-deleted by its author chia Nov 2024 #51
If somebody doesn't want to own a gun then that is their choice hadEnuf Nov 2024 #53
2b or not 2b 4b? et tu Nov 2024 #56
He forgot a very important rule. Demobrat Nov 2024 #59
This message was self-deleted by its author Mosby Nov 2024 #62
Hubby and I are going to buy a gun Blaukraut Nov 2024 #63
Same here. LPBBEAR Nov 2024 #94
Remember, you are buying a gun because you intend on using it to kill another person Kaleva Nov 2024 #96
Already planning on it nini Nov 2024 #69
Thanks! Just bought two rec'd books: "Surviving Autocracy" (Gessen) & "On Tyranny" (Snyder) n/t KatK Nov 2024 #71
Good advice for some people. cab67 Nov 2024 #75
Are we conflating denial of abortion care with sexual assault? HereForTheParty Nov 2024 #78
I take it to mean Demobrat Nov 2024 #87
Way ahead of ya. Fla_Democrat Nov 2024 #81
If you haven't actually read the linked article, you should. Layzeebeaver Nov 2024 #91
You can learn what you need to know about your gun in three hours. Straw Man Nov 2024 #97
The ship of state turns slowly and now moves Prairie_Seagull Nov 2024 #99
After reading this thread, Disaffected Nov 2024 #100
Please read the entire article for a deeper understanding. Duncan Grant Nov 2024 #101
I did read the article. Disaffected Nov 2024 #102
Excellent, I understand. Duncan Grant Nov 2024 #103
Two or more most alarming? Disaffected Nov 2024 #105
If suddenly a few hundred thousand women bought guns Historic NY Nov 2024 #104
No, thanks (nt) Hippasus Nov 2024 #109
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