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MineralMan

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Fri Nov 15, 2024, 03:11 PM Nov 15

Some of Us Remember When Contraception Was Mostly Illegal [View all]

I do. In high school (Class of 1963), in California, condoms were illegal to sell to unmarried people under the age of 21. The Pill did not exist yet, and doctors could not prescribe diaphragms to any women who was under 21 or unmarried.

That's hard for most people to imagine now. You'd think high school kids in those days would have been very leery of having sex, just because of that. I can tell you that was not the case. In my small town high school class of about 100 kids, there were 10 girls I know of who got pregnant. Most went to "visit their aunt" somewhere. A few married the boy. I know of one girl, the daughter of the town mayor, who had an abortion, courtesy of one of the doctors in town who sometimes did that in certain cases. Ten percent of high school girls in my class.

Now, they weren't the only ones having sex with their boyfriends. Condoms were available if you had a friend over 21, or if you traveled to Arizona or Nevada, where they were sold in vending machine at every gas station. The so-called "rhythm method" was known to all of us, but that did require some attention being paid to "safe" times. Still only 10% of the girls in my class got pregnant, as far as I know. It could have been more.

Anyhow, the teen pregnancy rate was higher then than it is now. So, no access to contraception was not a very effective tool for protecting the "morals' of young folks.

Anyhow, by sometime in 1964 or 65, the pill became generally available. Condoms became legal to buy, even in California. The student health center at the state university I attended had a huge fishbowl full of condoms and female students were routinely prescribed the pill on request. Everyone relaxed a little after that.

Now, we may be heading for a time when contraception isn't so easily available. If the haters get their way, we'll be right back in the early 60s again. It's going to make a huge impact, since we're no longer used to that situation. Everyone will have to learn about the alternative methods all over again.

I'm concerned about this. If you're younger, you should be concerned about it, too.

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My Mother used to tell stories when she was younger her girl friends would drink turpentine,... to induce an abortion,.. magicarpet Nov 15 #1
And threw themselves down stairs nolabear Nov 15 #7
Back alley bloodbath,.. magicarpet Nov 15 #10
Lysol douches japple Nov 15 #18
Yep. Jesus. nolabear Nov 15 #24
I remember SARose Nov 15 #2
IIRC they used to call the rhythm method "rhythm and blues"...nt Wounded Bear Nov 15 #8
Yeah. Absurdly ineffective Easterncedar Nov 15 #12
Yeah, remember this? Trailrider1951 Nov 15 #15
Vatican Roulette JoseBalow Nov 15 #25
Yeah, I remember the coat hanger stories... MiHale Nov 15 #3
And one of my aunts was rendered infertile after the coat hanger episode. She was never abe to have children. n/t iluvtennis Nov 15 #20
We absolutely should require sex education in schools too. Diamond_Dog Nov 15 #4
That will go to the trash heap, along with most other real scientific education. erronis Nov 15 #26
Ha the good old days snowybirdie Nov 15 #5
Maybe we made it... Wounded Bear Nov 15 #9
Of course snowybirdie Nov 15 #11
Not yet Easterncedar Nov 15 #13
I remember those days too. n/t rzemanfl Nov 15 #6
Hey fellow oldsters...remember this: PCIntern Nov 15 #14
Yep. I remember. MineralMan Nov 15 #16
Birth control for married couples was legalized in 1965 Danmel Nov 15 #17
IIRC it was thought that the crime rate went down once birth control and abortion were more readily available, due to LymphocyteLover Nov 15 #19
In addition to remembering it moniss Nov 15 #21
It's a good time for men to get a vasectomy if they're sure they don't want kids IronLionZion Nov 15 #22
I had mine done in 1972 after my second child was born. erronis Nov 15 #27
One of the women in the office I worked -- she used a douche of diluted Lysol "to kill the little germs." 3Hotdogs Nov 15 #23
One..... Lovie777 Nov 15 #28
My mom nearly had to die with my younger brother before she could get a hysterectomy. haele Nov 15 #29
Scary that those times may be returning. Elessar Zappa Nov 15 #30
Indeed it is! MineralMan Nov 16 #31
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