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LatteLady

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15. Please read carefully for content
Thu Dec 12, 2024, 10:39 AM
Dec 12

You have responded to something I did not say.

I did not/don’t blame Harris for the last 75 years, or any one person for that matter. But I do see a chronic and utter failure of the Democratic Party leadership to to counter the “vast right wing conspiracy”.

I agree with you when you say Hillary was right. But you make my point for me when you say “look what happened”. The Dems had an opportunity at that time (if not earlier) to confront this head on. They didn’t. They were embarrassed by her and shooshed her up for truth-telling.

My issue with current Democratic leadership, including but not limited to Harris, is their not dealing with us where we are, with our our entirely authentic and valid despondency. I do not need or want platitudes, no matter their benevolent intent.

Don’t tell me we won’t be defeated when we have in fact just been defeated and in the big picture have been losing for 75 years. That is not honest, even in service to efforts to cheer us up. It’s like telling someone grieving a preventable death to cheer up. Not helpful. In fact it makes me feel worse, because they seem to be in some alternate reality which renders them unable to change this one.

Here’s what would make me less depressed: tell us what you (Democratic leadership) are going to do differently going forward than you have been doing in the past, because what you have been doing has gotten us exactly here.

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Please stop gaslighting LatteLady Dec 12 #1
this isn't gaslighting. She trying to maintain our spirits and telling us to not be personally LymphocyteLover Dec 12 #4
" Read "Democracy in Chains" AverageOldGuy Dec 12 #5
Thanks for recommendation LatteLady Dec 12 #10
Lordy, you can't lay 75 years of history at MVP Harris' feet. PunkinPi Dec 12 #8
Please read carefully for content LatteLady Dec 12 #15
Sooo ismnotwasm Dec 12 #18
This what I'm hearing... PunkinPi Dec 12 #21
Feel free to start your own OP re your disappointment with Democratic leadership for the last 75 years... PunkinPi Dec 12 #20
I don't know if PunkinPi's response to you was off the mark or not. ShazzieB Dec 12 #24
Woooooow obamanut2012 Dec 12 #12
Duplicate post removed by author LatteLady Dec 12 #2
I hope Kamala continues to speak out and leads the opposition LymphocyteLover Dec 12 #3
I am hoping she is my next Governor obamanut2012 Dec 12 #13
California? That would be great! They haven't had a female govenror yet, have they? LymphocyteLover Dec 12 #17
I would like that very much Unwind Your Mind Dec 12 #19
Yes, that sounds like a great idea! ShazzieB Dec 12 #23
what about the current Dem. governor? Or do you think he will try to run for President? CTyankee Dec 12 #35
I don't know but he's term limited Unwind Your Mind Dec 12 #40
well, that settles it... CTyankee Dec 13 #41
Maybe she could make a few phone calls to members of our party that seem to be siding with fascism Hotler Dec 12 #6
Maybe their constituents should be making those calls. PunkinPi Dec 12 #7
I am making calls and emailing. Getting zero response. onecaliberal Dec 12 #28
I admire her for saying this Bettie Dec 12 #9
Really hoping she is my next Governor! obamanut2012 Dec 12 #11
I left it out of my furious Wednesday posts, but the distinction is enormous usonian Dec 12 #14
We have to start small and rebuild... PunkinPi Dec 12 #25
I just threw some ideas out there. General more than specific. usonian Dec 12 #29
I'll take a look at your link, thanks. PunkinPi Dec 12 #32
The gist is that groups need to be coordinated in order to be effective. It's just like sports and the military. usonian Dec 12 #34
Message auto-removed Name removed Dec 12 #16
Thanks for the kind pat on the shoulder VP berksdem Dec 12 #22
I think some Dems skipped the pity part awesomerwb1 Dec 12 #26
That's all well and good, and Thank You for the pep talk VP Harris, .... Think. Again. Dec 12 #27
Yes! Always great to hear Inspiring words from Cha Dec 12 #30
It is, Cha, and mahalo! PunkinPi Dec 12 #33
Yeah, doing okay "despite the obvious"... Cha Dec 12 #36
I'm hanging in there, the personal life is a bit overwhelming right now... PunkinPi Dec 12 #37
In my World Mercury has been Retrograde Cha Dec 12 #39
Inspiration YES, Organization? DOUBLE TRIPLE QUADRUPLE, A MILLION TIMES YES usonian Dec 12 #31
Damn right! ThePartyThatListens Dec 12 #38
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