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hunter

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16. I ended up homeless the second time I was "asked" to take time off from school...
Thu Dec 12, 2024, 08:41 PM
Dec 2024

... for mental health issues.

I tried going back to my parents but I wouldn't tell them anything of my life and ended up fighting with my dad and punching him in the face. My parents already had crazy people living with them, most especially my grandparents, so it really wasn't a healthy environment for me. And there was no way in hell I was going to burden them with my own troubles, or tell them of the violent situations I'd found myself in.

My car broke down near the university and I was sleeping in it when the police threatened to tow it away. That was a huge threat to me because it had all my tools and everything else I owned in it.

I hadn't quite burned all my bridges and arranged to park my car in a church parking lot.

People offered to help me but I was too psychotic and paranoid to accept it. I was completely feral and didn't have much trouble finding food or anything else I needed in dumpsters, etc..

A Vietnam War vet broke through to me and offered me space in his garden shed. That's where I pulled my mind back together and I started helping out on geology field trips and so on. I also started getting paid work again, enough to buy parts and get my car running. Eventually I was allowed to return to school, a dear professor helped me do that, and this third time I managed to stick it out and actually graduate without too many problems.

All in all it took me nine years to graduate from college.

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8 members have recommended this reply (displayed in chronological order):

Recommended. H2O Man Dec 2024 #1
Me ibegurpard Dec 2024 #2
When I was a kid. For brief periods we were homeless and hungry and spent the occasional night in the car. Ping Tung Dec 2024 #3
We never forget,do we? True Blue American Dec 2024 #8
We ended up in an evangelical run homeless shelter. The car, if we'd had one, might have been better. SomewhereInTheMiddle Dec 2024 #27
What did Elon say about the homeless? New Breed Leader Dec 2024 #4
Not completely but close. True Blue American Dec 2024 #5
19 years old for two weeks. Midnight Writer Dec 2024 #6
I'm so sorry about your roommate. Good friends like that are few and far between Iris Dec 2024 #22
I'll check back with you in a few months lame54 Dec 2024 #7
When it counted Codifer Dec 2024 #9
Twice when I was in college. redstatebluegirl Dec 2024 #10
Me and my family were homeless from my ages of 8-14. Coventina Dec 2024 #11
Yep n/t Cirsium Dec 2024 #12
what's the difference between divorce and a tornado? rampartd Dec 2024 #13
I couch surfed and lived in motels for a year and a half but was never completely out on the streets or in shelters. meadowlander Dec 2024 #14
KnR Hekate Dec 2024 #15
I ended up homeless the second time I was "asked" to take time off from school... hunter Dec 2024 #16
I admire your perseverance. Iris Dec 2024 #23
A very, very short period of time drmeow Dec 2024 #17
I stayed on a friend's couch for 3 months. Chellee Dec 2024 #18
Close DET Dec 2024 #19
I Only Avoided Homelessness Because I Had Family Who Bailed Me Out ChoppinBroccoli Dec 2024 #20
This message was self-deleted by its author Iggo Dec 2024 #21
Twice. I was lucky though, I anticipated and was able to prepare. haele Dec 2024 #24
Thanks for sharing your experience. Since reading the book Mike 03 Dec 2024 #25
After my marriage Ontheboundry Dec 2024 #26
Me. TexasTowelie Dec 2024 #28
Message auto-removed Name removed Dec 2024 #29
Not sure I agree Johnny2X2X Dec 2024 #30
Yes. happybird Dec 2024 #31
lost live-in job markie Dec 2024 #32
I've never been homeless, but that being said, MarineCombatEngineer Dec 2024 #33
Nearly a month when young Sympthsical Dec 2024 #34
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