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haele

(14,087 posts)
24. Twice. I was lucky though, I anticipated and was able to prepare.
Fri Dec 13, 2024, 12:56 AM
Dec 2024

First time, I was moving from Port Hueneme to San Diego on orders around 1985, and a shipmate was selling his banged up, barely running1976 Chevy high top camper van cheap - $500. I spent another $500, got a transmission tune-up, replaced the carbonator and radiator, all the seals, replaced the brakes, front u-joints, the propane fittings, the interior marine batteries and the plumbing.
It was pretty decent, 22ft long x 7ft wide, that a 6'2 person could comfortably stand in, with a "loft space" in the back; 6 x7x3 ft that could double as another sleeping area, a swamp cooler in the middle of the van, lots of storage, a wet shower/ toilet, a comfortable kitchenette table/bed with a mini-fridge/freezer and I updated the mounted toaster oven. And it had...an 8-track player.
An ugly gas hog, but comfortable 6 months living for a young NCO who could park it in a new co-worker 's driveway for a "mailing address" while waiting to get BEQ approved (you had to get permission and then move off base before you could apply at that time) and enough for a deposit saved up.
And I was easily able to sell it as soon as I could get into a new apartment; there was a waiting list for single NCOs looking for a place to live while waiting for BEQ approval. Over the next five years, I saw it had at least that many different owners (or users) before someone actually bought it as a camper van for his (or her) family.

The other time was losing a roommate the same time I changed employment, so I moved out, put the stuff I wanted in storage, and couch surfed with a Reservist buddy who had to deal with a temporary furlough (fire damage to her employer's shop and they were rebuilding) and needed help paying her rent until work picked up again. Win, win - I could save money for my own place again, and she could stay in her little apartment she had spent the last ten years in.

It wasn't scary, but there were those other times working as a contractor where work was way too slow for several months in a year, rent (later mortgage) started getting paid late or it took two payments in a month to pay the rent in full plus late fee, and a lot of savings disappeared while waiting for that good paying work to pick up again.

Haele




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Recommended. H2O Man Dec 2024 #1
Me ibegurpard Dec 2024 #2
When I was a kid. For brief periods we were homeless and hungry and spent the occasional night in the car. Ping Tung Dec 2024 #3
We never forget,do we? True Blue American Dec 2024 #8
We ended up in an evangelical run homeless shelter. The car, if we'd had one, might have been better. SomewhereInTheMiddle Dec 2024 #27
What did Elon say about the homeless? New Breed Leader Dec 2024 #4
Not completely but close. True Blue American Dec 2024 #5
19 years old for two weeks. Midnight Writer Dec 2024 #6
I'm so sorry about your roommate. Good friends like that are few and far between Iris Dec 2024 #22
I'll check back with you in a few months lame54 Dec 2024 #7
When it counted Codifer Dec 2024 #9
Twice when I was in college. redstatebluegirl Dec 2024 #10
Me and my family were homeless from my ages of 8-14. Coventina Dec 2024 #11
Yep n/t Cirsium Dec 2024 #12
what's the difference between divorce and a tornado? rampartd Dec 2024 #13
I couch surfed and lived in motels for a year and a half but was never completely out on the streets or in shelters. meadowlander Dec 2024 #14
KnR Hekate Dec 2024 #15
I ended up homeless the second time I was "asked" to take time off from school... hunter Dec 2024 #16
I admire your perseverance. Iris Dec 2024 #23
A very, very short period of time drmeow Dec 2024 #17
I stayed on a friend's couch for 3 months. Chellee Dec 2024 #18
Close DET Dec 2024 #19
I Only Avoided Homelessness Because I Had Family Who Bailed Me Out ChoppinBroccoli Dec 2024 #20
This message was self-deleted by its author Iggo Dec 2024 #21
Twice. I was lucky though, I anticipated and was able to prepare. haele Dec 2024 #24
Thanks for sharing your experience. Since reading the book Mike 03 Dec 2024 #25
After my marriage Ontheboundry Dec 2024 #26
Me. TexasTowelie Dec 2024 #28
Message auto-removed Name removed Dec 2024 #29
Not sure I agree Johnny2X2X Dec 2024 #30
Yes. happybird Dec 2024 #31
lost live-in job markie Dec 2024 #32
I've never been homeless, but that being said, MarineCombatEngineer Dec 2024 #33
Nearly a month when young Sympthsical Dec 2024 #34
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