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MadameButterfly

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16. I struggle too

Wed Dec 25, 2024, 12:50 PM

Dec 25

with feelings like that. I worry that he'll destroy all my plans and dominate the remaining active years of my life. But am looking for the bigger picture, a deeper more spiritual way of looking at things. Activities I can do, people I can be with that Trump can't control. Healing work to raise my vibration because I don't want to take antidepressants.

My experience is that reality seems worse when I'm depressed, more hopeful when I'm not. It's not just the plain facts. Our outlook colors what we see and how it feels. Also, being a sensitive and compassionate person can make this harder. What is happening is too big a contrast for your heart. The world needs hearts like yours. I hope you can take some comfort in that.

Fearing the worst is not the same as assuming the worst before it happens. Preparing for the worst doesn't make it easier when/if it comes. There may be some surprises. We may have some heros after all. And then why spend our time in a reality that doesn't even come to pass?

I hope you find some answers that work for you.

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America died for me on 11/5. [View all] Funtatlaguy Dec 25 OP

Don't hate all of us. I do understand what you're saying. LoisB Dec 25 #1

Don't hate all of us is Damn Skippy right. Don't hate America bottomofthehill Dec 25 #32

I think your second paragraph was intended for the original poster (not me) but you are LoisB Dec 25 #34

Sorry, fat thumbs and brain freeze bottomofthehill Dec 25 #38

No worries. I knew who you were talking to. I can't imagine living anywhere else either and LoisB Dec 25 #45

That's no way to live. Nothing is worth you being miserable like that. Talk to your doctor about depression. WhiskeyGrinder Dec 25 #2

I'm not depressed. Just realistic. Funtatlaguy Dec 25 #4

Thinking there's nothing attainable and that "merely existing" is the best you can do is definitely depression. WhiskeyGrinder Dec 25 #5

I do help others daily but with no joy. Funtatlaguy Dec 25 #7

Well, maybe you haven't chosen the best way for you to be with others... I don't diminish what you are feeling hlthe2b Dec 25 #9

Funny you say that. Funtatlaguy Dec 25 #13

I get it. hlthe2b Dec 25 #14

Me too LSparkle Dec 25 #35

That's really all any of us do is merely exist spapeggy Dec 25 #10

Welcome newbie! Must disagree on the travel thing, though. Not "more authentic", but Meaningful to me... electric_blue68 Dec 26 #58

We fought against slavery. We fought for the women's vote! RiverStone Dec 25 #44

Me too claudette Dec 25 #3

I'm not hateful... 2naSalit Dec 25 #6

America died when Reagan was elected. J_William_Ryan Dec 25 #8

Surviving trump2 is the best revenge. Turbineguy Dec 25 #11

Billions of people around the world have lived their entire lives without ever experiencing your hope and joy. Beastly Boy Dec 25 #12

There is plenty of joy and hope in this world Raine Dec 25 #15

I struggle too MadameButterfly Dec 25 #16

Thanks for the thoughtful reply. Funtatlaguy Dec 25 #20

America died in childbirth because its Founders were a bunch of simpletons. RedWhiteBlueIsRacist Dec 25 #17

They weren't simpletons at all; they were trying to construct a government Ocelot II Dec 25 #31

Prior to 2016/17, I might have agreed with some of what you're saying. RedWhiteBlueIsRacist Dec 25 #43

I felt the same way on election night that I did on 9/11. Initech Dec 25 #18

I was EXTREMELY surprised when I heard the HumanGarbageMan actually won. chouchou Dec 25 #19

We are who I feared we are. Funtatlaguy Dec 25 #21

Your words are true. Reminds me of a good book I once read: "I have no mouth and I must scream" chouchou Dec 25 #41

"No matter how cynical I am, I can't keep up." -Lily Tomlin CrispyQ Dec 25 #22

I'm with Tom Paine on that love/hate relationship. Ping Tung Dec 25 #23

I am not despondent, I am pissed and angry, and will never view America in JohnSJ Dec 25 #24

Sorry you feel that way. yardwork Dec 25 #25

Agreed. When I think of all the real misery in this world - like 10 year old children in Ethiopia who weigh 20 pounds Midwestern Democrat Dec 26 #56

We don't need you dying. We need you fighting. Sneederbunk Dec 25 #26

Would you say Germany died in the 1930s? EdmondDantes_ Dec 25 #27

I never felt this bad when any Republican got elected or StarryNite Dec 25 #28

This election exposed the hearts of many Americans. Funtatlaguy Dec 25 #36

John McCain, Mitt Romney ... I could have taken them LSparkle Dec 25 #37

I'm exactly where you are at Nictuku Dec 25 #29

America died well before that. The Grand Illuminist Dec 25 #30

If you let Trump do that to you you're letting him win. Patton French Dec 25 #33

It was dirty. Musk and Putin were into the vote data. Botany Dec 25 #39

I have become cynical in my old age, having realized over time Ocelot II Dec 25 #40

Seek professional help. DU is not therapy. erodriguez Dec 25 #42

You can discuss your issues with what you frame as 'doomer bs' with the OP. Celerity Dec 25 #46

The day after the election, my best friend said: yellow dahlia Dec 25 #47

You're not alone mvd Dec 25 #48

not dead yet Skittles Dec 26 #49

I admire those of you that will still fight. Funtatlaguy Dec 26 #50

I agree 100% kansasobama Dec 26 #51

I hear you. The conventional wisdom of late seems to be... Hugin Dec 26 #52

''O, let America be America again - The land that never has been yet ...'' Donkees Dec 26 #53

I am so sorry PennRalphie Dec 26 #54

There is one hope left Freddie Dec 26 #55

Could be a lot worse. Elessar Zappa Dec 26 #57

Heh... I posted mine w/o reading anything before hand...and it looks like we have some similarity in our pov. electric_blue68 Dec 26 #60

I Refuse to Give Up the Joy, and Beauty I can Have Right Now to That Scumbag & Co! electric_blue68 Dec 26 #59

Perspective helps Southern_gent Dec 26 #61

I was more shocked in 2016 iemanja Dec 27 #62