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slightlv

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42. I visited a girlfriend earlier this afternoon,

Tue Jan 14, 2025, 08:03 PM

Jan 14

and while we both are staying away from the mean politics as much as possible, and trying to figure out a way through the dystopia that awaits the country, we somehow found ourselves talking about various ex's, boyfriends, etc., who had not only mistreated us, but abused us. You get any two women in a room, and they will find instant recognition with this. We've always been abused, and now as I face 70 square in the face, I feel like I don't see it changing... ever.

I've said in the past the only way to live with maga is not to live with them... give them their own country and let them make of it what they will, as they will. I almost wonder sometimes if the entire human race hasn't become so corrupted by millennia of patriarchy that it would be better off to just live in our own little conclaves. Take "tribal" to it's ultimate breadth. But then, I'm really not feeling good today....

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I don't know how to say this, but I'm going to try. [View all] madaboutharry Jan 14 OP

Any woman of a certain age remembers biophile Jan 14 #1

Please Bio, DENVERPOPS Jan 14 #41

Ditto....at your sides and out in front clearing the way calikid Jan 14 #44

With gratitude- will accept all the help you give! biophile Jan 14 #50

Thank you for your support! biophile Jan 14 #48

"was 'just the way things are'... so it just didn't register" Beartracks Jan 14 #54

I got enlightened DENVERPOPS Jan 15 #66

I believe that enough dtates have actually passed it to put it into the Constitution, soldierant Jan 15 #71

I'm that "certain age" WinstonSmith4740 Jan 15 #88

I definitely get a visceral feeling watching this guy so many others in Trump's orbit as well Walleye Jan 14 #2

And yet many of them will insist that they just "love" women. 🙄 ShazzieB Jan 14 #30

Yeah - like a wolf loves little children biophile Jan 14 #51

I had to stop watching Hegseth and his smirk when being questioned by female senators Walleye Jan 15 #81

He reminds me of Matt Gaetz. And that's about the biggest insult I could throw at him. patphil Jan 14 #3

Brylcream spokesmen by day... rubbersole Jan 14 #6

Exactly! And he has the same smirk. Mike Johnson has it , too. KitFox Jan 14 #55

Slimy, creepy, dangerous men. Irish_Dem Jan 14 #4

I visited a girlfriend earlier this afternoon, slightlv Jan 14 #42

I think women in various parts of the world are having similar discussions. Irish_Dem Jan 14 #46

"I feel like I don't see it changing... ever." CrispyQ Jan 14 #64

Ernst could be described the same way.. BattleRow Jan 14 #45

That is really the core of their movement. Bleacher Creature Jan 14 #52

Exactly, this is the cohort group they are interested in. Irish_Dem Jan 14 #57

Agreed on all points. yardwork Jan 14 #5

Never forget BigMin28 Jan 14 #38

Wow, I did not know that. arthritisR_US Jan 15 #69

Ernst is an abuser mercuryblues Jan 14 #7

Did she specify if her rapist was male or female? BattleRow Jan 14 #62

A college boyfriend. mercuryblues Jan 14 #65

Republican Rep. Nancy Mace is another like Ernst. Mister Ed Jan 15 #75

Totally with you. ancianita Jan 14 #8

..and coping with that emotional reality is going to have a high cost and many or most of us may not have the skills... WizumbODaSage Jan 14 #10

Welcome to DU, just roll with the punches and get back up KS Toronado Jan 15 #90

While I agree that we are no longer in a functioning democracy Brenda Jan 14 #32

I'm a male who has worked around a lot of these types and it revolts me. erronis Jan 14 #9

Those types have always enigmania Jan 14 #22

I hear you Lulu KC Jan 14 #11

I agree, Lulu.. TY for saying that. Cha Jan 14 #16

Mahalo for talking about your Cha Jan 14 #12

Well said, Cha. nt spooky3 Jan 14 #23

Mahalo & Aloha, Spooky.. Cha Jan 14 #24

Aloha to you! spooky3 Jan 14 #26

Yes lots of Putin Puppets in Cha Jan 14 #34

"Putin puppets in charge" TommyT139 Jan 14 #36

I am hoping that a large group of his supporters will soon see that he will do spooky3 Jan 14 #37

Yes the inflation thing & Cha Jan 14 #40

Joni Ernst is a coward AverageOldGuy Jan 14 #13

While I agree with you MLWR Jan 14 #17

It doesn't matter to MAGA if he has functioning brain or not. travelingthrulife Jan 15 #84

I'm an old soldier AverageOldGuy Jan 14 #14

Welcome Home Brother n/t rasputin1952 Jan 14 #27

I was really hoping Duckworth would ask if he thought she wasn't lethal Arazi Jan 14 #31

The behavior is neither manly nor leadership. legallyblondeNYC Jan 14 #15

I didn't watch today, but a 'takeaway,' elleng Jan 14 #18

Hegseth is pure fucking evil. Initech Jan 14 #19

Well said. Ernst is a good old boy and they are all marching to Maga and the Chosen Orange manchild. Fascism is here Evolve Dammit Jan 14 #20

Trump's iron fisted control of our future with no one to stop him terrifies me. Peregrine Took Jan 14 #21

Some of you know me, some of you don't... rasputin1952 Jan 14 #25

Thanks rasputin1952 Brenda Jan 14 #29

Thank you, rasputin1952, for laying down the law with your platoon. That was REAL leadership Attilatheblond Jan 14 #33

He's probably been well-coached. calimary Jan 14 #39

Fealty to him is a major tennet of drumphf's pov. electric_blue68 Jan 15 #68

Happy Birthday Rasputin Capricorn Beringia Jan 14 #43

You are correct. yellow dahlia Jan 14 #53

Thank you for your service, Rasputin1952 LNM Jan 14 #59

Thank you for the Respect you gave to your fellow Women Soldiers... electric_blue68 Jan 15 #67

I did my first tour as Infantry... rasputin1952 Jan 15 #85

"He reminds me of Matt Gaetz." J_William_Ryan Jan 14 #28

People use the word, kozar Jan 14 #35

I used to work with guys like him when I was younger working on a stock trading desk kimbutgar Jan 14 #47

I see creepy - yellow dahlia Jan 14 #49

I am sure Pete Hegseth thinks he is pretty. madaboutharry Jan 14 #56

Meggyn Kelly two rows behind him. Defends him on her radio show. IA8IT Jan 15 #77

The worst... Mike Nelson Jan 14 #58

I can't rec your OP enough MontanaMama Jan 14 #60

When I'm triggered, I don't blame anybody. I reflect on my own issues and refrain from reading or listening Martin68 Jan 14 #61

I really worry about the younger generations. They grew up with an expectation of equanimity in the future. 58Sunliner Jan 14 #63

Recommended. H2O Man Jan 15 #70

Ernst isn't alone. iemanja Jan 15 #72

This is no surprise. Most of the cons The Third Doctor Jan 15 #73

Reminds me of Susan Fucking Collins BigDemVoter Jan 15 #74

I'm triggered too Laurelin Jan 15 #76

k and r BoRaGard Jan 15 #78

Joni Earnest True Blue American Jan 15 #79

I get you. Been there, experience that, suffered the trauma. mucholderthandirt Jan 15 #80

There will be a certain pleasure in watching it all implode. Hegseth, who looks like he'll be confirmed, Vinca Jan 15 #82

At their core, sexual abuse, racism, and wealth inequality are about injustice. Republicans are cool with injustice LaMouffette Jan 15 #83

You hit the nail on the head. After seeing clips of Hepseth akbacchus_BC Jan 15 #86

I gave it up after Grassleys True Blue American Jan 15 #87

A large group of criminals being pushed through. SupportSanity Jan 15 #89