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susanr516

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11. No, you reacted to pain and frustration

Mon Oct 7, 2024, 07:25 PM

Oct 7

My husband was in the hospital for 16 days, after we fought with the insurance company to pay for a specialist to do the surgery we knew he needed. Of course, there were complications due to the delay. His digestive system shut down for a few days. He was not a happy camper and said a lot of things due to the amount of pain he had.
I also made some outrageous statements while in labor. My opinion is if you are in the hospital, nothing you say can be used against you.
I hope you feel better soon.

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Holy Christ did I lose my shit today. [View all] LuckyCharms Oct 7 OP

A day in hell for sure.. Permanut Oct 7 #1

Can't say I blame you. Expecting a clean bathroom Phoenix61 Oct 7 #2

I'm so sorry that happened to you. yardwork Oct 7 #3

The pain is controlling much of how you're reacting, Lucky True Dough Oct 7 #4

Anyone would have responded the same way. So sorry you had to experience such a thing Kittycatkat Oct 7 #5

Oh man. So sorry. Solly Mack Oct 7 #6

I'm sorry but this is not acceptable! Spelling errors are are just downright disrespectful! Think. Again. Oct 7 #7

I'm sorry that nightmare happened to you. May circumstances go better for you. Clouds Passing Oct 7 #8

Wow! Pretty sure the combination of events would have me reacting the same way. Tadpole Raisin Oct 7 #9

I am so sorry that this happened and that Tumbulu Oct 7 #10

Every single employee here is like angel to me. LuckyCharms Oct 7 #15

Well that makes me feel better that the staff has been good!!! Tadpole Raisin Oct 7 #18

I am so glad that they are there with you Tumbulu Oct 7 #42

Just a thought Bayard Oct 7 #52

I gotta say. I'm getting a lot of joy out of your reactions. vanlassie Oct 7 #53

No, you reacted to pain and frustration susanr516 Oct 7 #11

My dear LC, not only do I not think poorly of you, I think you were remarkably niyad Oct 7 #12

Dang. Codifer Oct 7 #13

Ogh God, the DMV! ShazzieB Oct 7 #25

I will NEVER understand how ADULT humans don't flush OR WASH THEIR HANDS after doing their business.... AZ8theist Oct 7 #14

IT specialist here.... Dan Oct 7 #20

Sad situation. Hope they get a rmeds regimen that works for you. Sounds like the staffing... dutch777 Oct 7 #16

Hospitals! Tesha Oct 7 #17

So sorry, may I ask what hospital you are in? You do have a great way of telling us what happened. debm55 Oct 7 #19

I'm so sorry cate94 Oct 7 #21

Righteous reaction! Dear_Prudence Oct 7 #22

Sorry to hear of your deplorable situation. Mr.Bill Oct 7 #23

Damn straight it was a righteous reaction. NoMoreRepugs Oct 7 #24

People who make messes and don't clean up after themselves is everywhere! mtngirl47 Oct 7 #26

my local museum... used the restroom recently. the floor was soaked with pee.. not like someone missed the toilet BlueWaveNeverEnd Oct 8 #55

I would have reacted the same way BaronChocula Oct 7 #27

I've visited many hospitals Danascot Oct 7 #30

The one that I was at this summer in Bryan had shared bathrooms in the ICU. TexasTowelie Oct 7 #54

There is no way on Earth you should have had to go through what you experienced. Dem2theMax Oct 7 #28

Don't feel bad. You were in pain, stressed, anxious, and drugged. More importantly, how are you doing now? Doodley Oct 7 #29

See if you can get home care Marthe48 Oct 7 #31

First, opiates don't do anything directly for pain Warpy Oct 7 #32

This message was self-deleted by its author Mosby Oct 11 #78

It is 100% reprehensible for any grown person to leave feces in a toilet without flushing it AND Niagara Oct 7 #33

I don't think anyone here is going to think badly of you. 3catwoman3 Oct 7 #34

I think I would have just cried FullySupportDems Oct 7 #35

I am so sorry you had to go through this, LuckyCharms slightlv Oct 7 #36

Oh wow! That all really sucks! Lunabell Oct 7 #37

Aoh my, sending you hugs and prayers. Joinfortmill Oct 7 #38

So sorry you even had to go this.....DAMN. a kennedy Oct 7 #39

Sending you tender compassion Tree Lady Oct 7 #40

So sorry this happened to you. HeartsCanHope Oct 7 #41

That is shitty. Bluethroughu Oct 7 #43

I live with pain, and warn my family about bad days as my patience levels are very low in those times. BoomaofBandM Oct 7 #44

I feel for you. Emile Oct 7 #45

The real question Beck23 Oct 7 #46

50 years ago, there were still Elessar Zappa Oct 8 #71

Angry? Sounds like pretty reasonable reaction to me. Turbineguy Oct 7 #47

I wish you get better soon, and the pain level goes down by a lot, a lot sooner. DontBelieveEastisEas Oct 7 #48

That incident, right there... 2naSalit Oct 7 #49

there's medical reasons to cause someone to, er, lose control of themselves Skittles Oct 7 #50

My advice? GTFO OAITW r.2.0 Oct 7 #51

Not judging you in the least. Collimator Oct 8 #56

It's a good thing I wasn't there SpankMe Oct 8 #57

I would have lost it too LittleGirl Oct 8 #58

The only opioid that works for me is Didaudid - and it works fast - womanofthehills Oct 10 #75

that's right, fuck everything! markie Oct 8 #59

Best wishes to you, LuckyCharms Erda Oct 8 #60

People are seldom at their best in hospitals. Harker Oct 8 #61

You are justifiably angry! geardaddy Oct 8 #62

i have never been in a nasty port--o-john. but art fairs. pansypoo53219 Oct 8 #63

You should have documented it all. OldBaldy1701E Oct 8 #64

That's just crazy and wrong - hope things get better GoneOffShore Oct 8 #65

sounds more like the person before you lost theirs Kali Oct 8 #66

I think the rant was righteous Figarosmom Oct 8 #67

My mom in law is terrified of just that kind of secnario DFW Oct 8 #68

It's been a truism for the entire existence of mankind moniss Oct 8 #69

So sorry about your experience in the hospital LiberalFighter Oct 8 #70

I don't blame you! That is DANGEROUS. And you with an infection. This could easily kill you. CousinIT Oct 8 #72

Yuk, just awful. Some people just don't have any manners. Sorry that happened to you. harumph Oct 8 #73

How NASTY that was! Hoping your pain will be majorly reduced, and infection source found, and cleared up! electric_blue68 Oct 8 #74

That is awful - I hope everything improves LetsGetSmartAboutIt Oct 10 #76

Proper response. AngryOldDem Oct 10 #77

Kick XanaDUer2 Oct 11 #79

some people were born in a barn apparently MissB Oct 11 #80