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8. I have a similar situation with my daughter

Reply to NNadir (Original post)

Sun Nov 10, 2024, 09:28 PM

Nov 10

She was able to be mostly abroad in college (her program was through a US University). She still has her student VISA for a European country for several months. Friends of hers are still over in that country, doing internships and that sort of thing. She has been away the past couple of weeks, but we'll be able to discuss it with her soon. I think we should help her relocate over there - she'd at least have several months to try to find something in her field. The other option might be to relocate her to a blue state (she is in the arts so NYC, Chicago, LA, Boston possibly). Just trying to come to terms with all this and figure out how to best help her.

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It was a sad, weird conversation I had with my younger son tonight. [View all] NNadir Nov 10 OP

They might want to consider Canada for the short term if they can't find another option. Hope22 Nov 10 #1

Right now they seem to think Canada is the best option, because she's monolingual. NNadir Nov 10 #2

Yes! Hope22 Nov 10 #4

He may fit in well in Quebec since he speaks both French and English. Irish_Dem Nov 10 #16

Would they consider moving to a blue state near the Canadian border, like Minnesota? ancianita Nov 10 #17

I'm so sorry that you have to have these conversations and concerns. Hope22 Nov 10 #3

Greetings NNadir defacto7 Nov 10 #5

Welcome back. NNadir Nov 10 #6

Please! Calm down! Doodley Nov 10 #7

Curious response. Anything to add? johnnyfins Nov 10 #10

I would add that we can face our fears or we can spread them to others. Doodley Nov 11 #22

Lecturing people with legitimate fear won't work. Irish_Dem Nov 10 #15

Since when has asking somebody to calm down been characterized as "lecturing?" Doodley Nov 11 #21

Women don't like to be told to calm down when they are upset. Irish_Dem Nov 11 #23

I agree, but I'm talking about the context of even considering Canada is an unsafe place to escape to. Doodley Nov 11 #24

I wouldn't call it lecturing but as a student of history... NNadir Nov 11 #25

I have family who perished in WW2. My hometown was bombed. My wife's family fled Russia. I see history repeating, but Doodley Nov 11 #29

As I indicated, it is your privilege and right to remain calm, and mine... NNadir Nov 11 #30

My advice is to please stop spreading fear. Saying Canada might be unsafe to go to is fearmongering. Doodley Nov 11 #31

And my response is that you have a right to... NNadir Nov 11 #33

This message was self-deleted by its author NNadir Nov 11 #28

I have a similar situation with my daughter TBF Nov 10 #8

With those credentials they won't have any problems. brush Nov 10 #9

Keep in mind that the language of science around the world is English. PoindexterOglethorpe Nov 10 #11

My oldest daughter was inconsolable - in tears Jarqui Nov 10 #12

And Crypto is the new dark money currency Zambero Nov 11 #27

People have often moniss Nov 10 #13

Many parents are having the same thoughts and conversations. Irish_Dem Nov 10 #14

Surprised ClarencesBrother Nov 10 #18

My son spent a summer in France on a research grant as an... NNadir Nov 11 #20

Message auto-removed Name removed Nov 11 #19

Seems we are beginning to feel what our ancestors most certainly felt when they sent one person to the USA SheltieLover Nov 11 #26

Its not that hard to pick up French or Spanish if you work at it. milestogo Nov 11 #32

My son used aps to learn Mandarin Chinese. My other son... NNadir Nov 11 #34