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Wait Wut

(8,492 posts)
2. I'm so sorry.
Tue Feb 11, 2014, 02:34 PM
Feb 2014

I just had a two hour long conversation with my best friend last nite and her almost identical situation with her son. It DID escalate and became a very dangerous situation for her, her family and her son. She had to resort to having someone call the cops. The outcome was very positive due to some very understanding officers, jail personnel and a county prosecutor with a heart. They got him the help he needed immediately.

It's like this everywhere. Funding for mental health has been slashed to pieces here in AZ (especially my county). An amazing guidance clinic received threats constantly from their neighbors. We have an enormous homeless population and the only solution you hear about is shipping them to CA.

My advice, start making phone calls to the county health dept., local clinics, anyone that will listen. Someone will hear you. Do an online search for support groups in your area. They may be able to find you some immediate assistance.

My best to you and your son. It's heartbreaking.

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Ridiculous situation... cyberswede Feb 2014 #1
I'm so sorry. Wait Wut Feb 2014 #2
I'm so sorry. dawg Feb 2014 #3
How we treat mental health Dyedinthewoolliberal Feb 2014 #4
good luck with things--keep us updated. i hope the doc gets back to you today. n/t orleans Feb 2014 #5
I've been there so many times I can't even count. I'm so sorry this is happening to you too. OregonBlue Feb 2014 #6
I am fortunate in that my son will go to the hospital on his own accord DebJ Feb 2014 #8
Yes, sometimes the police take my son to the hospital but when he gets very out there, he can OregonBlue Feb 2014 #10
So awful and scary. Like you said, it just doesn't have to be like this riderinthestorm Feb 2014 #7
Thanks everyone. THIS time, the doctor called back and a med change was ordered! n/t DebJ Feb 2014 #9
so happy to hear that fizzgig Feb 2014 #11
So glad to hear! Wait Wut Feb 2014 #12
Thank the Goddess libodem Feb 2014 #13
call them back every ten minutes 2pooped2pop Feb 2014 #14
My son is good at that....with the bipolar he just CAN'T let go of anything DebJ Feb 2014 #16
lol 2pooped2pop Feb 2014 #19
I'm through with the American healthcare system aint_no_life_nowhere Feb 2014 #15
Seeing a specialist around here does take a few weeks, but our DebJ Feb 2014 #17
Hubby was treated at an ER near Juan le Pain (spelling?) in France. DebJ Feb 2014 #18
suggestion: write Mrs. Obama or Mrs. Biden. grasswire Feb 2014 #20
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