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thucythucy

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18. In terms of patriarchy vs. matriarchy
Thu Dec 19, 2013, 05:50 PM
Dec 2013

I think it's more ambiguous than you think. Yeah, Campbell is dead, and much of his theorizing has been disputed if not discredited, though his tetraology still offers a wealth of information, and remains an important resource in terms of providing a general study of comparative mythology. Much like Gibbon's Decline and Fall of the Roman Empire remains a valuable resource, even if it's been superceded by more modern scholarship. I'm curious though, have you actually read the tetraology, or just what the critics say about it? If you haven't read it you really should, I think you'll be quite surprised and engaged by the material. I especially enjoyed his teasing out all the more or less pagan elements that were carried forward into modern Christianity--the whole bread and wine sacrifice/sacrament package, as just one example. It's a couple of thousand pages, but well worth the time, IMHO.

In any case, there are more recent scholars who reach more ambiguous, one might say more nuanced conclusions about the universality of the patriarchy, which is what you were originally arguing. Check out, for instance, Alice Schlegel's work on gender relations in Hopi culture. I still think to say, as you did, that all civilizations in all times have been patriarchies is a bridge too far, as you seem to acknowledge. It was entirely too cock-sure, if you'll pardon the pun. But again that's just my opinion.

The "straw man" to which you refer was more in response to the OP, and to what I see as a shit-stirring article that had more to do with feminist bashing than much else. As I say elsewhere, it reminds me of all the "post racial society" BS we've seen of late, wherein racism is pronounced dead and the only reason we have a civil rights movement is to provide a sinecure for "so-called leaders." And the more people point to examples of remaining institutional racism, the more we hear cries of "You see! They're just so invested in being victims!" It saddens me to think that there are progressives who might for a moment fall for such nonsense. Clearly, then, if there are, you're not one of them.

So you're saying patriarchies were established "to protect" women, and your definition of "protection" in this instance is essentially putting them in a corral along with the other lifestock? Pardon me, but I have trouble wrapping my head around the idea that treating another human being as property is actually a form of "protection." Protection from what? one might ask. But okay, if that's what you're maintaining, you have no argument from me. Put it that way and it sounds something like Gerda Lerner.

If that's how you see the vast majority of the history of gender relations, I can't disagree. I just wasn't expecting such a more or less straight-up or even radical feminist view of male/female history. My bad.

Getting back to the OP, I don't see how anyone can seriously believe that several thousand years of social history can be negated by one or two generations of activism--even if it was activism by an amazing cohort of feminist leaders. Sisterhood is powerful, but not nearly as powerful as all that.

this same attitude was displayed in the recent hof thread Doctor_J Nov 2013 #1
In any movement there is that group whose worst fear is that... TreasonousBastard Nov 2013 #2
"In ANY movement..." thucythucy Dec 2013 #13
Yeah, any movement... TreasonousBastard Dec 2013 #16
Unfortunately the patriarchy is not dead for men Major Nikon Nov 2013 #3
Why call it Patriarchy though? Bonobo Nov 2013 #4
Because people need to understand what it really is Major Nikon Nov 2013 #5
It is the premise underlying the current porn discussions. lumberjack_jeff Nov 2013 #8
I think the actual underlying premise goes a bit deeper Major Nikon Dec 2013 #10
I disagree with the assertion that thucythucy Dec 2013 #14
What better way to protect than through control? Major Nikon Dec 2013 #15
In terms of patriarchy vs. matriarchy thucythucy Dec 2013 #18
As a conceptual frame, it's not all that far off. lumberjack_jeff Dec 2013 #21
Why do you think that all the successful human societies lumberjack_jeff Dec 2013 #17
I don't know. thucythucy Dec 2013 #19
Until quite recently, men have been largely disposable. lumberjack_jeff Dec 2013 #20
But in that case they're "protected" at the expense of any possible freedom or self-determination. nomorenomore08 Dec 2013 #22
Self-determination has historically been in short supply. lumberjack_jeff Dec 2013 #23
No argument. "Freedom" is always relative - in many cases very, VERY relative. n/t nomorenomore08 Dec 2013 #24
I'm not sure I understand these distinctions you seem to be making. thucythucy Dec 2013 #25
It's not really about what practical value the patriarchy has anymore Major Nikon Dec 2013 #26
Agreed. The patriarchy, however defined, should be consigned thucythucy Dec 2013 #28
You're right to a point. lumberjack_jeff Dec 2013 #27
Well, we can go round and round on this. thucythucy Dec 2013 #29
Talking with you about this has made me think about terminology. lumberjack_jeff Dec 2013 #30
You're assuming that equality has thucythucy Dec 2013 #31
For every 3 women enrolled in college, 2 men are. lumberjack_jeff Dec 2013 #33
It IS an achievement, considering thucythucy Dec 2013 #35
I did create a progressive men's group to address a variety of issues. lumberjack_jeff Dec 2013 #36
Do you actually read the pages to which you link? thucythucy Dec 2013 #37
Have a Merry Christmas and we'll talk again after the holidays. lumberjack_jeff Dec 2013 #39
Too late to wish you a merry Christmas, (I was away from all computers!!!!) thucythucy Dec 2013 #41
It was wonderful. lumberjack_jeff Dec 2013 #42
Glad to hear it. I also had a wonderful holiday. thucythucy Jan 2014 #43
When women were underrepresented in college is was most certainly a crisis. lumberjack_jeff Jan 2014 #44
Once again you quote a small portion of the link you provide: thucythucy Jan 2014 #45
In 1970, a smaller gap was a huge problem. lumberjack_jeff Jan 2014 #46
I'd have to see the raw figures thucythucy Jan 2014 #47
As a first part of a reading list thucythucy Jan 2014 #48
I've read most of it. lumberjack_jeff Jan 2014 #49
It's not hard to find where the bias comes in with AAUW Major Nikon Jan 2014 #50
Even conceding all that, thucythucy Jan 2014 #51
And how much of that is due to illegal discrimination? Major Nikon Jan 2014 #53
agree. nt lumberjack_jeff Jan 2014 #54
So you disagree with the raw data thucythucy Jan 2014 #52
The demographic trend of an increasing percentage of young people going to college... lumberjack_jeff Jan 2014 #55
So it's the "splashing sounds" thucythucy Jan 2014 #56
I wanted to add something else. thucythucy Dec 2013 #32
The need for victimization intervention for men is irrelevant. Political will is nonexistent. lumberjack_jeff Dec 2013 #34
The need for intervention and support for male victims is not "irrelevant." thucythucy Dec 2013 #38
The need is irrelevant. lumberjack_jeff Dec 2013 #40
"Dead" seems just a wee bit optimistic at this time LadyHawkAZ Nov 2013 #6
+1 nomorenomore08 Nov 2013 #7
I agree Major Nikon Nov 2013 #9
This part here: thucythucy Dec 2013 #11
I just don't see where she's coming from at all. Seems an incredibly selective view of things. nomorenomore08 Dec 2013 #12
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