Sex with a sleeping drunk woman IS rape.

[caraher]

5. redqueen linked to a very good blog post in GD

"Meet the Predators" (well worth reading)

It runs through a few studies that basically point out that only a few men rape, but that most of those who do will rape repeatedly. And that alleged confusion regarding consent is largely a non-issue; these "predators" deliberately seek out or create these situations in order to take advantage of them.

The blogger's main recommendation is that we men be alert to this kind of behavior and, absent some way of magically removing the rapists from our society, at least make it as socially unpleasant as possible for those who do prey on the defenseless.

Saying it is rape and we know it is a good start. The next step is demolishing the "little nazi enclaves."