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Curmudgeoness

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22. California would be wonderful,
Mon Apr 1, 2013, 09:01 PM
Apr 2013

and since I have a sister there, it would be nice to have some family closer. The weather is great. But it is prohibitably expensive. I would starve to death there, and I am doing fine here. I see the property prices, rents, gas, utilities, taxes---everything is high, and I have to think about where I can afford to live when I hit Social Security age (sooner than I like).

Georgia----I think it has a bad connotation. I don't know what it is like there. Florida has some nice areas, and all of it is not overcrowded. I read Hiassen also, just remember that his stories are mostly around the Miami area....but I get the same feeling as you do about harming Florida even more. (Although I have heard that a lot of the snow birds are moving back out of Florida to places a little more north and inland because they are sick of all the storms and humidity.)

What you really have to do is start travelling a little. I have a friend who got sick and tired and just got in her car and drove the country until she found where the right place was for her.....it turned out to be in New Mexico in what sounds like a commune, but she says it isn't really a commune. Not where I want to end up, but the point is that she had to go there to find it.

I really do try to tell myself that where you are can be fine, no matter where it is, or it can be hell---it is all in your attitude. Personally, I have attitude problems (cranky and depressed) here in the winter because I hate cold and we have so little sun (and I am definitely solar powered).

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Probably a tropical place, like Hawaii or Costa Rica. NYC_SKP Apr 2013 #1
Those would be nice... I'd probably choose Costa Rica over Hawaii simply because there Flaxbee Apr 2013 #2
Yeah, been to both. It's a long drive from Hawaii to anywhere else OffWithTheirHeads Apr 2013 #4
Sounds like Costa Rica or Panama would suit you. cbayer Apr 2013 #9
A bit humid, but one gets used to it, I think! NYC_SKP Apr 2013 #10
Happy Spring to you! I miss the humidity of New Orleans at times. cbayer Apr 2013 #11
Well, I kinda just made that decision. We just bought a house in Tucson. OffWithTheirHeads Apr 2013 #3
I've never been to Tucson, but I think I'd love it - I love the desert southwest (grew up about Flaxbee Apr 2013 #13
My dream place is right here. RevStPatrick Apr 2013 #5
wrong. chicago. mopinko Apr 2013 #7
I loved living in NYC in the late 90s ... I was smack in the middle of Flaxbee Apr 2013 #24
Outside San Francisco LiberalEsto Apr 2013 #6
Yes, somewhere in California away from the intensely urban areas could be perfect. Flaxbee Apr 2013 #14
I am living the dream. cbayer Apr 2013 #8
Yes, your lifestyle seems ideal. Transplanting it to land Flaxbee Apr 2013 #15
Part of this trip is to do exactly that. cbayer Apr 2013 #17
I would live anywhere for the next 40 years antiquie Apr 2013 #12
I lived in SoCal for the first 28 years of my life, then NYC, then Atlanta (yuk, honestly), then Flaxbee Apr 2013 #16
You might also like the Santa Monica mountains. cbayer Apr 2013 #18
or the Santa Ana mountains antiquie Apr 2013 #19
I wish I had an answer. Curmudgeoness Apr 2013 #20
Well, parts of California really are lush and beautiful, especially if you're Flaxbee Apr 2013 #21
California would be wonderful, Curmudgeoness Apr 2013 #22
I'm solar powered, too. Husband likes Finland for many very valid reasons, but Flaxbee Apr 2013 #27
I don't know if you already do this, Curmudgeoness Apr 2013 #32
Houses in St. Augustine are still low, I think... Eleanors38 Apr 2013 #34
My choice would be... love_katz Apr 2013 #23
I totally hear you -- gardening, crafting/arts, cooking and hiking (I hate camping, though)...I'd be Flaxbee Apr 2013 #25
Finland?? Why does he want to live in Finland? cbayer Apr 2013 #26
Lol. Flaxbee Apr 2013 #28
Well, I guess Finland would be a nice break from Russia! cbayer Apr 2013 #29
We actually both love Russia - have some good friends there and St. Petersburg is a GORGEOUS city... Flaxbee Apr 2013 #30
I haven't been to Russia, but I have heard many people echo your sentiments about it. cbayer Apr 2013 #31
Bend, Oregon has more sunshine than Portland does. love_katz Apr 2013 #33
In time the northern edge of the Mediterranean ecoregion will move into Washington Kennah Apr 2013 #35
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