Hospice-related question [View all]
My mom is in an assisted-living facility and under hospice's care. She has had a diagnosis of severe COPD for five years now and remains a chain smoker but doesn't outwardly exhibit signs of difficulty breathing, recently had COVID and a subsequent scan when taken to the ER for a fall showed cardiomegaly and abdominal atherosclerosis. She also has small vessel dementia and now WEIGHS 65 lbs!!! 65 lbs. 
The cachexia started a few years ago but she weighed 75 lbs earlier this year.
(As an aside, I'm so frustrated with my aunt, who lives in the same town as my mom - my sister and I live in different states - who basically force fed her when she was nearing death earlier this year. That simply revived her and kept her in a pitiful state, with no quality of life at all. I think I've finally convinced everyone that not eating is the one thing still under mom's control and do not ever force or even encourage her to eat; it just prolongs suffering.)
ANYWAY, for some unknown reason she has had a sudden spike in appetite while her mood simultaneously has tanked. She is sleeping most of the time.
I'm mainly curious if anyone has had experience with people in her condition suddenly wanting to eat but it not doing anything but wreaking havoc with her digestive system, resulting in impaction and then blowouts.
Also, my understanding is that, with this longstanding cachexia and now sarcopenia, her body isn't absorbing nutrients anyway so, without medical intervention of which there will be none given her wishes upon entering hospice's care, it's not like she is going to start putting on weight and absorbing nutrients to get her out of this malnourished state.
The appetite will likely subside again but it's puzzling to me and I don't get a lot of feedback from the facility or hospice, unfortunately. Any thoughts or insights?
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