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tavalon

(27,985 posts)
6. No, I don't
Wed Feb 29, 2012, 04:33 AM
Feb 2012

I have one, very big, very screwed up personality. Polyamory is the word that we seculars chose to create instead of polygamy. Polygamy being quite taken by the Mormons and as well, our kind isn't sexist. For instance, in my own situation, I have two live in spouses, both male. They both have one outside girlfriend, one of whom we were looking toward possibly inviting her into the family, but she declined the invitation before it was even extended. Is causing some extra drama in our lives that I don't particularly like. I'm trying to figure out how to talk this out with her without it becoming both of us taking one anothers inventory, I thing that won't do any of us any favors nor help us one bit.

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i won't judge you. irisblue Feb 2012 #1
Hi again. Tripod Feb 2012 #5
why bother to try to explain it at all NMDemDist2 Feb 2012 #2
That's an excellent point tavalon Feb 2012 #3
I don't know how to ask this? Tripod Feb 2012 #4
No, I don't tavalon Feb 2012 #6
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