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mr_lebowski

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11. No problem. Feel free to direct message me if you want to take it offline.
Tue Nov 17, 2020, 01:16 PM
Nov 2020

Here's what I'd check ... when you do finally hear back ... is it typically shortly after money has been taken out?

If so, that could mean she's feeling well/happy and that's when you'd want to talk to your parents if you're addicted. When you're out, you don't want NOTHING to do with talking to your parents, believe me. That's the LAST people ...

Don't let on that you're watching her money though til you get more info. All she has to do to throw you off is start buying other stuff when she takes it out so the total isn't $40 even

Ask bank to set account to deny overdraws lettucebe Nov 2020 #1
I don't know about opioids. irisblue Nov 2020 #2
It sounds like a potential alcohol problem. I know that fentanyl is very expensive. Before I catbyte Nov 2020 #3
Depends on what you're doing. BlueTsunami2018 Nov 2020 #4
There's no way to tie a specific amount of money to a particular drug ... mr_lebowski Nov 2020 #5
Thank you for your insight! She will often go days without answering my texts or calls. RamblingRose Nov 2020 #7
No problem. Feel free to direct message me if you want to take it offline. mr_lebowski Nov 2020 #11
EXACTLY! When she returns my calls she seems happy & talkative. I brush it aside & think all is well RamblingRose Nov 2020 #13
Match your phone records with your bank records ... mr_lebowski Nov 2020 #15
YOU NAILED IT! She made an $80 withrdrawal today. I called her but she didn't answer her phone. RamblingRose Nov 2020 #18
Well, the good news is ... $400 in that amount of time ... that's not that much $ ... mr_lebowski Nov 2020 #19
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she got addicted to nicotine by vaping. A counselor once told me nicotine is a gateway drug RamblingRose Nov 2020 #6
Tell her if she's going to vape she should buy a mod and juice to refill it separately. mr_lebowski Nov 2020 #12
Package store as in liquor store? Midnightwalk Nov 2020 #8
That is exactly what my son used to do Freddie Nov 2020 #9
Yup. Hope Scholarship at UGA. I looked it up & the ATM is at the convenience store. RamblingRose Nov 2020 #10
After a time you're just using to feel normal, you don't get high anymore ... mr_lebowski Nov 2020 #14
This site gives info for place, type, etc RockCreek Nov 2020 #16
Wow. It's amazing what you can find on the internet. RamblingRose Nov 2020 #17
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