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Addiction & Recovery

willamette

(182 posts)

1. I see you. I hear you.

Reply to XanaDUer2 (Original post)

Sun Dec 24, 2023, 02:07 PM

Dec 2023

I think that planning on your future actions after he finishes self-destructing, and protecting yourself from his actions during the course, might be all that you can do right now.
Warm regards, with caring.

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This is a vent [View all] XanaDUer2 Dec 2023 OP

I see you. I hear you. willamette Dec 2023 #1

Thank you XanaDUer2 Dec 2023 #2

He has me now trained not to say anything XanaDUer2 Dec 2023 #3

perception willamette Dec 2023 #4

I rely on him to pay bills XanaDUer2 Dec 2023 #5

Sounds like a scary situation, I'm wondering if Alanon could help? Rhiannon12866 Dec 2023 #6

Thank you XanaDUer2 Dec 2023 #7

You're more than welcome, and don't forget to check in anytime. Rhiannon12866 Dec 2023 #9

X kozar Dec 2023 #8

.TOTAL TRUTH . READ..NUMBER 8.... "JUST BE OK" "IT WILL BE OK"...KOZAR ..#8....NUMBER 8... Stuart G Dec 2023 #10

When I first joined AA, I also attended OA meetings with my AA sponsor Rhiannon12866 Jan 2024 #11

Congrats! XanaDUer2 Jan 2024 #12

Thanks so much! Rhiannon12866 Jan 2024 #13

Thank You for posting some of your experience in AA. Sharing our lives is very important here. Stuart G Feb 2024 #14

Awww, you're more than welcome. Sharing helps me, too. Rhiannon12866 Feb 2024 #15