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XanaDUer2

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5. I rely on him to pay bills

Tue Dec 26, 2023, 11:06 AM

Dec 2023

He's feeling shaky and dizzy today. He rushed into my room for meds and I found him heading across the room, I believe looking for my benzos. He's done this before and i caught him. He claims he was confused. I keep my benzos in my pocket.

A bill is coming today i need him to pay. I'm furious. But i have to keep quiet.

He's 71 and looks horrible. I know this is. A bad situation. But I'm stuck. TY for listening

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This is a vent [View all] XanaDUer2 Dec 2023 OP

I see you. I hear you. willamette Dec 2023 #1

Thank you XanaDUer2 Dec 2023 #2

He has me now trained not to say anything XanaDUer2 Dec 2023 #3

perception willamette Dec 2023 #4

I rely on him to pay bills XanaDUer2 Dec 2023 #5

Sounds like a scary situation, I'm wondering if Alanon could help? Rhiannon12866 Dec 2023 #6

Thank you XanaDUer2 Dec 2023 #7

You're more than welcome, and don't forget to check in anytime. Rhiannon12866 Dec 2023 #9

X kozar Dec 2023 #8

.TOTAL TRUTH . READ..NUMBER 8.... "JUST BE OK" "IT WILL BE OK"...KOZAR ..#8....NUMBER 8... Stuart G Dec 2023 #10

When I first joined AA, I also attended OA meetings with my AA sponsor Rhiannon12866 Jan 2024 #11

Congrats! XanaDUer2 Jan 2024 #12

Thanks so much! Rhiannon12866 Jan 2024 #13

Thank You for posting some of your experience in AA. Sharing our lives is very important here. Stuart G Feb 2024 #14

Awww, you're more than welcome. Sharing helps me, too. Rhiannon12866 Feb 2024 #15