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(24,187 posts) Fri Dec 6, 2024, 11:59 AM Dec 6

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My brother asked me what quitting drinking was like. [View all]

I told him. Pick you favorite thing to eat in the whole world. Chocolate. Pizza. Cookies. Whatever. Now, imagine you can never eat it for the rest of your life. Ever. Not even a tiny taste. That's what it was like for me. I simply enjoyed the buzz. But it took over and I couldn't spend an evening without drinking. So my family did an intervention on me (which I have mixed feelings about) and I've been sober for six years. And it took the longest time before I quit thinking about drinking. Now I rarely think about how I enjoyed the buzz. Mainly I think about how shitty I felt the next day. And how much my family hated being around me when I was drunk.

There. I got that off my chest. Thanks for listening, er, reading.

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My brother asked me what quitting drinking was like. [View all] bif Dec 6 OP

So, do you think Pete Hegseth will instantly stop drinking if he gets the DoD job? Ocelot II Dec 6 #1

Right, and will he stop raping? The man obviously hates women. Walleye Dec 6 #3

No he looooves women. Just like the Orange Pussy Grabber. I will protect you whether you like it or not. Evolve Dammit Dec 6 #8

... Leghorn21 Dec 6 #29

Republicans have a long history of just being able to quit underpants Dec 6 #4

Rush Limbaugh has in fact stopped his oxy intake. Lucky Luciano Dec 6 #10

😎 underpants Dec 6 #13

I'm SO glad. ChazInAz Dec 6 #14

He's pushing daisies instead of lies now. (nt) Pinback Dec 6 #21

Or so they say. 😉 ShazzieB Dec 6 #19

Exactly underpants Dec 6 #25

Didn't know that about Cindy McCain Mike 03 Dec 6 #30

What yiz are ignoring, Pete probably has Jesus on his side to help him through what would be a difficult time for 3Hotdogs Dec 6 #6

Hegseth is a flawed man and a drunk. whfinlay Dec 6 #20

No I do not think so BubbaJoe Dec 6 #22

I believe Hegseth when he says he won't drink anymore if installed at the DoD . . . Journeyman Yesterday #46

I know what you mean, I quit drinking 30 years ago and the first few years were very tough. I never think about it now Walleye Dec 6 #2

I thought about it every day for almost 5 years bif Dec 6 #9

I quit smoking in '87. boonecreek Dec 6 #5

I worked with a guy that quit decades ago Swede Dec 7 #40

Is it ever! boonecreek Dec 7 #41

I quit smoking 39 years ago, two years before I quit drinking . . . Journeyman Yesterday #47

Congratulations on your sobriety Sun-Moon Dec 6 #7

Don't think I could stop. Lucky Luciano Dec 6 #11

Congrats! Elessar Zappa Dec 6 #12

I quit alcohol after Labor Day 2023. iscooterliberally Dec 6 #15

After a while the alcohol-free versions of beer and wine taste better than the real stuff. COL Mustard Dec 7 #36

I quit 500 days ago. Devilsun Dec 6 #16

10 years for me orangecrush Dec 6 #17

My father was an alcoholic and he never tried to quit, as far as I know FakeNoose Dec 6 #18

Freedom WmChris Dec 6 #23

Sucks at first, then it's great forever. Iggo Dec 6 #24

I don't even like the buzz.... I just like the taste. viva la Dec 6 #26

There are a ton of different non-alcohol wines (dealcoholized actually) COL Mustard Dec 7 #37

I'll try those. I'm a red drinker, and most of the reds I've had are thin.... viva la Dec 7 #38

I haven't tried any of the reds... COL Mustard Dec 7 #42

Here's a couple... COL Mustard Dec 7 #43

Thanks-- I'll try the Cabs! viva la Dec 7 #44

I quit six months ago. My situation was a bit different. Mr.Bill Dec 6 #27

In treatment in 1985 they said, "eventually all you will miss rzemanfl Dec 6 #28

My story - I drank quite a bit when I worked (not on the job) walkingman Dec 6 #31

I'm a wee bit suspect about the "glass of bourbon every morning" boasting from a 110-year old wolfie001 Dec 6 #32

Motivation to quit. BidenRocks Dec 6 #33

Good for you and thank you for sharing your journey Rhiannon12866 Dec 7 #34

do u find u have more time? mopinko Dec 7 #35

In my experience with alcoholism (personal experience) k55f5r Dec 7 #39

I quit drinking for my 75th birthday..knocking on 78 and I feel so much better Deuxcents Dec 7 #45