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In reply to the discussion: I am dying. [View all]summer_in_TX
(3,225 posts)117. I'm a big fan of hospice care and both my parents were lucky enough to be cared for
in their home where they wanted to be until they died.
But it should be at the point where you choose no further intervention. They replace your medical care and interventions designed to restore health and focus on palliative care to keep you comfortable and able to live the rest of your time well.
Mom went quickly (two days after she came home from the hospital following a stroke and heart attack). Dad went almost ten months after entering hospice. We got to be with them and to shower them with love, instead of having them whisked away by hospital staff trying to save their lives past when it was possible for them to enjoy any quality of living and where we couldn't be with them while they worked on them.
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I'm a big fan of hospice care and both my parents were lucky enough to be cared for
summer_in_TX
Dec 2023
#117
So sorry to read....I'm 70 and I know I've got a limited amount of time left on my clock.
OAITW r.2.0
Dec 2023
#37
Find out what your options are. Consider a second opinion at a comprehensive center.
JohnSJ
Dec 2023
#77
Heartache to hear that. In my mind you are connected to my mother's cousin Muriel.
lostnfound
Dec 2023
#89
All our love Muriel. I hold out hope and offer a big DU hug at this time.
Evolve Dammit
Dec 2023
#101
It is something one can't do unless one has lived. I trust and hope that you have lived well and will have peace...
NNadir
Dec 2023
#112
I am so very sorry, murielm! My heart goes out to you and your loved ones.
LaMouffette
Dec 2023
#128