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bpj62

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11. Picks Disease
Tue Feb 28, 2023, 10:19 AM
Feb 2023

My mother was formally diagnosed with Picks Disease which is a frontolobal form of Dementia. She had been showing signs of cognitive issues and decline for about 3 years before the formal diagnosis in 2014. It is a ugly but fortunately a quick Disease from onset to death.
With that said the stress that it put on me and my sister who were her main caregivers was enormous. I was also dealing with a marriage that was having troubles at the same time and I was completely unaware of the stress until after my mom passed. We were fortunate that my mom had a good insurance plan as well as an excellent retirement fund and we were able to get her into assisted living. The care she needed was beyond our ability to provide and we felt guilty for having to put her in assisted living.
I can also say that we had some humorous times with her during her decline which made things easier for everyone.

A lifelong Democrat she had the last laugh as she was born during the FDR Presidency and she passed on January 20, 2017 at 7:23am. She sure as hell was not going to hang around for TFG administration.

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Dementia is the most frightening condition I can imagine Trueblue Texan Feb 2023 #1
Well said, Trueblue. erronis Feb 2023 #2
Excellently said, True. There was an article posted here on DU recently about niyad Feb 2023 #3
My dad and brother both suffered from dementia. It was not easy to watch them fade away. panader0 Feb 2023 #4
I agree with you exboyfil Feb 2023 #6
All of this! MontanaMama Feb 2023 #12
I was my mother's caregiver for 5 years AmBlue Feb 2023 #14
Yes and yes leighbythesea2 Feb 2023 #22
My sincere sympathies to you. AmBlue Mar 2023 #23
Thank you leighbythesea2 Mar 2023 #24
I admire my mom (78) exboyfil Feb 2023 #5
This country needs to get serious about healthcare, including long term care. area51 Feb 2023 #7
My father died with dementia in August. His last six months he spent near me JCMach1 Feb 2023 #8
"For those lacking adequate resources" Ferrets are Cool Feb 2023 #9
Indeed. The vast majority of Americans MontanaMama Feb 2023 #16
Sadly, this is true. Ferrets are Cool Feb 2023 #19
I have FTD just like Bruce Omaha Steve Feb 2023 #10
Picks Disease bpj62 Feb 2023 #11
I just started taking Lions mane mushrooms to help my brains health. flying_wahini Feb 2023 #13
I care for my husband. The great news is that it really hasn't effected his personality. He is MLAA Feb 2023 #15
That's a huge burden. MontanaMama Feb 2023 #17
Thanks for the kind words. I think it is easier for me than some. He is my favorite person on MLAA Feb 2023 #18
You and I are in the same boat. PlutosHeart Feb 2023 #20
It seems very wise to downsize to something more manageable with everything else on your plate. MLAA Feb 2023 #21
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