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Chronic Health Conditions Discussion and Support

Ms. Toad

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10. They continue to visit.

Reply to shrike3 (Reply #9)

Sun Oct 29, 2023, 01:22 PM

Oct 2023

Same thing happened with my daughter, except the crowing, through the three separate stays in two hospitals. The two surgical teams kept showing up every day, sometimes twice a day, to tell her they still thought it was a flare and that she should be working with a surgical team, but they weren't going to operate on her now. It's okay if the crazy hospitalist system.

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Hospitalists suck for patients with chronic/rare conditions (rant) [View all] Ms. Toad Sep 2023 OP

Prayers for your daughter. Hospitals & hospitalists can Joinfortmill Sep 2023 #1

We have a long-standing family policy Ms. Toad Sep 2023 #2

Best wishes for your daughter and good luck navigating the system. yonder Sep 2023 #3

Thanks. Ms. Toad Sep 2023 #5

Hope your daughter gets well soon. That's today's medicine. Don't think Silent Type Sep 2023 #4

We actually have several Marcus Welby types on her team. Ms. Toad Sep 2023 #6

A recent trip to the ER (for husband) led me to the same conclusions. shrike3 Oct 2023 #7

The hospitalist system includes surgical consults if there is a possibility they might be needed. Ms. Toad Oct 2023 #8

This fellow had already declined to operate on my husband. shrike3 Oct 2023 #9

They continue to visit. Ms. Toad Oct 2023 #10

Seems like a waste of time to repeatedly visit and tell someone they DON'T need surgery. shrike3 Oct 2023 #11

Chronically ill, best phrase I know for these situations: "I'm leaving against medical advice." Akoto Apr 2024 #12

That works, unless you need hospital care Ms. Toad Apr 2024 #13

The last time my husband was hospitalized, he had fallen and broke his left hip. He has a ton Ziggysmom Apr 2024 #14

You were lucky. Ms. Toad Apr 2024 #15