Mother called yesterday. I did send a card. She asked why I wasn't calling. I told her about the funeral behavior of my

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7. She is gaslighting and manipulative.

Your mother's name and number did not show up? She must have dialed *67 to hide her name and number. That's manipulative in and of itself.

I'm sorry you've had to deal with that your entire life. I know it's easy for us to say cut them out of your life. I know that can be really hard too. Your support network most likely intersects with their support network to some extent. And you know they will try to paint you in the worst possible light.

All you can do is know that people will eventually recognize the truth. It's going to be frustrating until they do. If I'm not clear, I'm saying the people that you mutually have contact with are going to be poisoned by your mother's words and actions. But eventually those people will recognize the truth. And if any of them don't recognize the truth, how good of a support are they anyway?