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2naSalit

(92,850 posts)
22. Great suggestion!
Thu Oct 6, 2022, 09:02 AM
Oct 2022

I call it the non-aggressive stance because I figured it out with wildlife in the field. But it works with nearly every species I have tested it on since I discovered how it works.


Simply tilt your head slightly, like you're curious, and blink slowly. This body language indicates to the animal that you are probably not a predator, predators stare and rarely blink during the time the animal is sizing it up before it runs. A steady stare will spook them every time, even predators though their response might be entirely different by seeing you a a challenger or threat.

I use it when I go to an animal shelter, it calms the caged cats. You can see their pupils shrink when they recognize that you aren't a threat.

Anyway, the blinks and tilting your head is what does it.

I would PM you, but I don't know how :( I have been feeding a feral and would like patricia92243 Oct 2022 #1
I've actually been wondering the same thing Siwsan Oct 2022 #2
Crush the pill, mix it into some of the food. In my house, I'd also add the ever irresistible Karadeniz Oct 2022 #12
This message was self-deleted by its author Karadeniz Oct 2022 #13
When I have to give my cat medicine, wnylib Oct 2022 #15
Good morn, Siwsan... MiHale Oct 2022 #3
Progress! calimary Oct 2022 #4
Will do! Reinforcements arrive on Sunday Siwsan Oct 2022 #6
You're becoming a cat whisperer! MyMission Oct 2022 #5
Does Spooky live in the house with you? JohnnyRingo Oct 2022 #7
Spooky is totally feral Siwsan Oct 2022 #9
I wouldn't try moving an adult into the house JohnnyRingo Oct 2022 #14
+1 2naSalit Oct 2022 #21
Yea, the odds of socializing an adult feral to be an indoor cat are probably slim to none Siwsan Oct 2022 #25
I've forgotten which one is the matriarch of this feral clan. wnylib Oct 2022 #18
What a sweet, sweet baby. niyad Oct 2022 #20
Use the eye blink Roy Rolling Oct 2022 #8
"Use the eye blink" BumRushDaShow Oct 2022 #11
I do, with all of my fur babies Siwsan Oct 2022 #26
I try to do that to them BumRushDaShow Oct 2022 #34
Great suggestion! 2naSalit Oct 2022 #22
Yay! My wife & I love your kitty updates. CaptainTruth Oct 2022 #10
My husband could mimic Marthe48 Oct 2022 #16
I use that... 2naSalit Oct 2022 #24
You are so kind Marthe48 Oct 2022 #35
Thanks! 2naSalit Oct 2022 #37
"she MEOWED at me." BumRushDaShow Oct 2022 #17
Ember is 7 years old this month and she wnylib Oct 2022 #23
My other sister who has a senior long hair tortie who I have taken care of BumRushDaShow Oct 2022 #27
I had a cat several years ago who was wnylib Oct 2022 #31
LOL BumRushDaShow Oct 2022 #33
All I needed to do was to say, "Is that right?" Or wnylib Oct 2022 #36
OMG to be a fly on the wall for that! BumRushDaShow Oct 2022 #38
BTW, there is one vocalization that Ember does wnylib Oct 2022 #39
My sister's tuxie growled BumRushDaShow Oct 2022 #40
Ember's growl at things outside the window wnylib Oct 2022 #41
I have seen my sister's tortie do that BumRushDaShow Oct 2022 #42
Ember is a tortie, but I chalk her behavior up to wnylib Oct 2022 #43
Yup BumRushDaShow Oct 2022 #44
Ember's mother was half Mau, an wnylib Oct 2022 #45
I know my sister's tuxie BumRushDaShow Oct 2022 #46
Did the ginger and white cat end up with wnylib Oct 2022 #47
Just before I had moved BumRushDaShow Oct 2022 #48
I was surprised that Ember remembered the coworker wnylib Oct 2022 #49
Madoc and Arthur meow for food. Gryff stays quiet Siwsan Oct 2022 #28
You are a cat whisperer! And yes, the calm, "It's okay" works well. niyad Oct 2022 #19
Well done!! 2naSalit Oct 2022 #29
I sit out on the back step Siwsan Oct 2022 #30
You've got it, then. 2naSalit Oct 2022 #32
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