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In reply to the discussion: I adopted my friend's kitty [View all]

catchnrelease

(2,043 posts)
22. Dealing with this very thing now
Sat Oct 5, 2024, 12:26 PM
Oct 2024

My ex-husband passed away unexpectedly in his home a couple of weeks ago. I've been helping our daughter deal with the mess inside of the house (he was a hoarder) and try to capture his cats. Daughter believed there were 3 cats inside and we have been able to catch 2, which thankfully have turned out to be sweet and friendly. She already has 4 cats of her own and didn't want to add more and I have a dog that isn't kitty friendly. As we all know rescues and shelters are full so we were desperate to find homes for these guys.

So far we've got the two, took to a vet to be tested for diseases and she is now introducing them to her 4. We've had one glimpse of the third guy, but have not been able to trap him yet. It's difficult because we both live a distance away and can only go to the house infrequently. We'll only set the trap if we'll be there the next day. Otherwise we're leaving food and water out to last until we come back. And what do we do with him when we get him?

Saying all this is just to agree and reiterate that it's so important to have a plan and let someone know the plan for your furry family members so that their fates are not left to chance and the goodwill of others.

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I adopted my friend's kitty [View all] Marthe48 Oct 2024 OP
Well done! Diamond_Dog Oct 2024 #1
Thank you so much for doing this. drray23 Oct 2024 #2
I've been staying at my friend's house weekends Marthe48 Oct 2024 #6
Dealing with this very thing now catchnrelease Oct 2024 #22
I set up guardianship for my precious boy last year. My friend is even niyad Oct 2024 #24
Thank you for that information Marthe48 Oct 2024 #28
You are most welcome. I have no family, but am blessed with some wonderful niyad Oct 2024 #30
Kitty is so lucky to have such a good-hearted human on her support staff. :) nt eppur_se_muova Oct 2024 #3
Well done, Marthe!! That kitty appreciates all your efforts to accomodate her (though she'll probably never say so, Leghorn21 Oct 2024 #4
Right now, I call her Your Majesty Marthe48 Oct 2024 #7
Hey, you're probably right about that password business, Marthe!! -- Well, I shall call her "OUR QUEEN" Leghorn21 Oct 2024 #11
Condolences... 2naSalit Oct 2024 #5
This just warms my heart Siwsan Oct 2024 #8
Thank you rockbluff botanist Oct 2024 #9
So happy for you EverHopeful Oct 2024 #10
Feline supervision lol Marthe48 Oct 2024 #12
That's wonderful 👍😁so happy she has a loving home 💙 that was so thoughtful to take care of her and love her 💙 TommieMommy Oct 2024 #13
Excellent Nigrum Cattus Oct 2024 #14
Glad you can take over with your best friend's cat IbogaProject Oct 2024 #15
and she is an elder cat et tu Oct 2024 #16
And I'm an elder person Marthe48 Oct 2024 #17
lots of wisdom in your household! et tu Oct 2024 #18
Your friend Clouds Passing Oct 2024 #19
So cool. 😎. n/t iluvtennis Oct 2024 #20
Friend Aaeia Oct 2024 #21
The perfect loving tribute for your friend. 3catwoman3 Oct 2024 #23
Brava, it's what a true friend would do! lark Oct 2024 #25
Feeling good is a side benefit to doing good. twodogsbarking Oct 2024 #26
very sweet story... bluboid Oct 2024 #27
Awesome. I worry about my 2 two Kittys if I go before they do. OverBurn Oct 2024 #29
Thank you so much for doing this, Marthe... slightlv Oct 2024 #31
Don't count yourself out Marthe48 Oct 2024 #32
I belong to a rescue/animal welfare group slightlv Oct 2024 #33
Yay! Marthe48 Oct 2024 #34
So kind of you to take her in, Marthe48. HeartsCanHope Oct 2024 #35
Bless you for being such a good friend to them both catrose Oct 2024 #36
So sorry you've lost your friend. But she will live on in her cherished pet for you. Fla Dem Oct 2024 #37
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