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olddots

(10,237 posts)
28. I still can't get used to being called sir or mister
Wed Jan 28, 2015, 02:27 PM
Jan 2015

Being called grandpa annoys me even though I love being a grandpa .
Hey what was the question again .......?

I'm the opposite. I'm fine with 'senior', but don't like 'elder'. sinkingfeeling Oct 2014 #1
I'm with you. classof56 Oct 2014 #5
I agree with sinkingfeeling. No Vested Interest Dec 2014 #18
"elder" is what I said, not "elderly" ellenrr Jan 2015 #25
I prefer Turbineguy Oct 2014 #2
Geezer works for me. marble falls Oct 2014 #3
I am what I am left-of-center2012 Oct 2014 #4
I prefe the term "senior" rather than "old lady" or "old woman." n/t RebelOne Oct 2014 #6
I prefer 'senior' to elder. elleng Oct 2014 #7
"Senior" doesn't bother me. "Elderly" would be worse, though true. No Vested Interest Oct 2014 #8
I prefer years young Crewleader Oct 2014 #9
I'm fine with it. SheilaT Oct 2014 #10
I say years young in good humor Crewleader Oct 2014 #11
Sometimes I get more annoyed than I should. SheilaT Oct 2014 #12
I had to laugh yesterday when I stopped at the mini-nurse station in Kroger No Vested Interest Oct 2014 #13
I prefer "senior" to "senior citizen".... which drips with euphemism and patronization. Smarmie Doofus Oct 2014 #14
I look much younger that I am. ImaPolitico Dec 2014 #17
Some years back (twenty, now that I think of it) SheilaT Oct 2014 #15
I agree. I had a neighbor, young man around 20 yrs old, ellenrr Jan 2015 #24
*My Pet Peeve* ImaPolitico Dec 2014 #16
Sorry, I would likely offend you, as I have developed the habit No Vested Interest Dec 2014 #21
to me, it depends. Sometimes for sure as you say, it comes with condencension, ellenrr Jan 2015 #23
It's called "Elderspeak." I don't like it! ImaPolitico Dec 2014 #19
The term is ELDERSPEAK ImaPolitico Dec 2014 #20
I hate elderly and young woman blackcrow Jan 2015 #22
Senior discount, please! It's just kind of a generic term, and I don't mind. Don't call me ... Hekate Jan 2015 #26
just dont call me young lady or any of that crap. mopinko Jan 2015 #27
I still can't get used to being called sir or mister olddots Jan 2015 #28
If the term "elder" was being used in the sense you described, Silver Gaia Apr 2015 #29
Senior doesn't bother me - elder seems a bit forced - we don't value elders in this society LiberalElite Apr 2015 #30
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