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keithbvadu2

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10. seniors social isolation loneliness purpose - target for scammers
Tue Dec 8, 2020, 08:17 PM
Dec 2020

Last edited Tue Dec 8, 2020, 08:58 PM - Edit history (1)

seniors social isolation loneliness purpose


I can think of at least 4 ____ members who have gone to live in assisted living or senior living communities and one mother of a ____ member.

At least four of the five have expressed happiness in having the social interaction of the community.
(Heard that the fifth one is appreciative of it also)

Conventional thinking is that living and dying in your long time home is a great thing but maybe not if you are simply sitting there waiting for a few friends and relatives to drop by.

Reverse mortgages (a poor financial decision) emphasize that wish in their advertising.

Con men and salesmen love to become the new social friends of lonely seniors.
Lots of phone calls and visits.
Even online dating suitors (m/f) - golddiggers of both genders.
(You seem like a person I can relate to - Can I borrow $5,000?)

Remember that article I sent out recently about the 89 year old lady who died truly alone and lonely because she outlived all her friends and relatives - - - in her home.

The phone company took her phone because she did not use it enough.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2726565/Old-age-curse-I-feel-like-half-dried-rug-purpose-rung-Heartbreaking-words-woman-outlived-loved-ones-lost-zest-life-dying-kitchen-floor.html

"Her will was found with her friend's names written down as her next of kin and then crossed out as each one passed away"

Living alone does not necessarily mean lonely if you are part of a community.

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Be careful who you trust keithbvadu2 Dec 2020 #1
This message was self-deleted by its author question everything Dec 2020 #15
Not negatively..... caution keithbvadu2 Dec 2020 #17
can your nursing home 'own' you? keithbvadu2 Dec 2020 #2
The Elderly as a Source of Profit keithbvadu2 Dec 2020 #3
Complaints on rise of nursing homes forcing out residents keithbvadu2 Dec 2020 #4
As Nursing Homes Shift Focus To Short-Term Rehab Care, keithbvadu2 Dec 2020 #5
The shameful problem of elder financial abuse is only going to get worse. keithbvadu2 Dec 2020 #6
Abuse Plagues System of Legal Guardians for Adults keithbvadu2 Dec 2020 #7
comments from various articles: keithbvadu2 Dec 2020 #8
How the Elderly Lose Their Rights keithbvadu2 Dec 2020 #9
seniors social isolation loneliness purpose - target for scammers keithbvadu2 Dec 2020 #10
Grandfather's Wooden Bowl- keithbvadu2 Dec 2020 #11
A vast change in lifestyle keithbvadu2 Dec 2020 #12
Social isolation can make one a scammer's target. keithbvadu2 Dec 2020 #13
And now something cheery... keithbvadu2 Dec 2020 #14
This message was self-deleted by its author question everything Dec 2020 #16
Your negativity is noted. keithbvadu2 Dec 2020 #19
Duplicate post. Cancelled keithbvadu2 Dec 2020 #18
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