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highplainsdem

(52,400 posts)
Tue Jan 15, 2019, 10:22 AM Jan 2019

This has been interesting... [View all]

I'm responding to a number of replies to what I posted earlier in a separate, new topic because I don't have time to respond to all of them individually, because the replies to me often tend to overlap, and because some of the replies I've seen indicate that the person posting that message hadn't seen something I'd said elsewhere that answered their criticism/questions earlier.

I posted here originally after looking at this forum because I'd noticed that although it's labeled a general Religion forum, it's apparently dominated by atheists who are posting here rather than in the separate Atheists forum, which is much less active.

That's okay. Unless the type of arguments being posted here are usually shutting down the discussion for anyone other than atheists, discouraging non-atheists from posting or driving them away if they try to join the discussion.

Which is why I brought up the subject of proselytizing. Which I was already aware has been a matter of debate among atheists, many of whom are quite aware that certain types of arguments, as they try to convince others of the correctness of their beliefs, can be off-putting, ending dialogues or even backfiring. And I was personally aware it can be off-putting because of a period in my own life, after I left the church I'd been raised in, when I thought it was fun, and thought it asserted my superiority, to make similar arguments in favor of atheism and against religion in general.

I didn't think a post about the problems created by that type of proselytizing would be so controversial, or get as many responses as it did.

Honestly, I thought the general reaction here would be recognition that yes, some arguments pushing atheism can backfire and drive people away rather than even beginning to convince them.

Instead, I was told that atheists can't proselytize because they don't have a belief system.

Again, there's been plenty of debate among atheists for years about whether it's helpful to proselytize, and recognition by many atheists that they can come across like religious proselytizers. Which is why I posted a couple of op-ed pieces by atheists.

And as for not having a belief system... The typical foundation of atheism (as opposed to agnosticism) is that science has not come up with any proof that any power or consciousness people might label God exists, and therefore it doesn't.

Which is an argument that presumes our current level of scientific understanding would be capable of thoroughly understanding the power underlying the universe, including the multiple dimensions many scientists posit exist, and that IS a belief system. Personally, considering how much our understanding of the universe has advanced in recent centuries, and how much it's likely to advance in the future (assuming we don't destroy our own civilization), I think that in the future this current level of understanding will look fairly primitive, that there'll have been advances in understanding what seems mysterious now. It's also likely scientists will still be finding new areas to explore that seem mysterious to them. I think we have about as much chance of understanding the complete universe as a small marine creature in a tide pool has of understanding the world's oceans and complete ecosystem. Doesn't mean we shouldn't try, or utilize what we learn, especially when it helps us in our immediate environment. Does mean we should keep in mind that science isn't all-knowing. Or that something that looks "supernatural" and impossible now might seem perfectly natural with a better understanding.

We don't even understand how our own minds work, very well. As I mentioned earlier, it wasn't that long ago that people who considered themselves scientific tended to ridicule the possibility that meditation might have health benefits. Especially because of its association with Eastern religions.

Hell, we don't really understand the placebo effect. Even though many people who consider themselves scientific like to say that anything positive that comes from alternative therapies is due merely to the placebo effect.

Now, back to the tone of the arguments...

It's impossible to read this forum, or many arguments in favor of atheism, without running across the assumption -- sometimes very explicitly stated -- that people who aren't atheists are illogical/irrational at best, and probably stupid, and definitely intellectually inferior to atheists.

For some reason that tends to alienate people, though that effect can sometimes seem baffling to those intelligent atheists who are convinced of their intellectual superiority.

If you're a "Big Bang Theory" fan, you might recall an episode where Sheldon is desperate to meet Stephen Hawking, convinced Hawking is his only intellectual equal, and he tries to explain to his long-suffering friends that he's always been like a human surrounded by animals. He doesn't understand why that offends the people around him, even when Penny finallly tells him bluntly that he's being a condescending jerk.

There was a recent post here with a meme meant to suggest that people who have any religious faith are equivalent to a dog that thinks its bark has magical powers. Wow, that wouldn't offend any non-atheists considering joining a forum supposedly for general discussions of religion, would it?

Anway, if the people upset with what I've posted here still don't understand why certain types of arguments promoting atheism are as likely to offend others as proselytizing by religious evangelists convinced of the correctness of their belief, then you'll probably never understand.

I know there are atheists who do understand that, though.

And I think it would help this forum if those sorts of arguments were more likely to be found in the Atheists forum, not this one.

Especially since we're all part of a collection of forums focused on the Democratic Party, and many of the Democrats we admire are people of faith, and anything but stupid or irrational.

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This has been interesting... [View all] highplainsdem Jan 2019 OP
OK. MineralMan Jan 2019 #1
No, atheists posting against religion aren't the same as religious fundamentalists... trotsky Jan 2019 #2
And you might consider this group, which is increasing in numbers: highplainsdem Jan 2019 #5
Largest. Voting. Bloc. trotsky Jan 2019 #7
Never said one word about atheist arguments scaring voters away. I just think it looks silly highplainsdem Jan 2019 #8
So you're saying it's silly, but admit it's effective Major Nikon Jan 2019 #10
Oh no, you've explicitly threatened everyone who has posted in response to you... trotsky Jan 2019 #13
This entire thread is exactly about not addressing individual arguments Major Nikon Jan 2019 #23
Bingo. n/t trotsky Jan 2019 #24
Continuing a long established pattern. guillaumeb Jan 2019 #29
Your obsession with me is again noted. n/t trotsky Jan 2019 #33
A pattern stretching back years. guillaumeb Jan 2019 #34
That's been your claim, but you've never substantiated with anything approaching scientific rigor. trotsky Jan 2019 #35
A familiar meme. guillaumeb Jan 2019 #38
You'd love it to be. trotsky Jan 2019 #59
Why do you think that group is expanding? Major Nikon Jan 2019 #11
All you've really managed to do is drag out the old tropes which never found much traction Major Nikon Jan 2019 #3
I read a study once on the role of ridicule in political debate marylandblue Jan 2019 #4
Agree completely. Which is why it's appropriate in forums promoting that group's views, highplainsdem Jan 2019 #9
It isn't helpful when someone suggests others should just shut up and leave Major Nikon Jan 2019 #14
Never suggested anyone shut up and leave. Just suggested a style of argument highplainsdem Jan 2019 #16
Sure sounded that way Major Nikon Jan 2019 #17
If only DU had some sort of system where you could call attention to a post you found unacceptable. trotsky Jan 2019 #21
Helps to keep the 18th commandment in mind Major Nikon Jan 2019 #22
There is no "style of argument" prohibited by this group's SoP. trotsky Jan 2019 #19
Christianity is privileged - and spoiled rotten Bretton Garcia Jan 2019 #52
The old saying that appears a lot here, because it's fucking spot on: trotsky Jan 2019 #60
This group is open to discussion from multiple viewpoints. Mariana Jan 2019 #20
Which was not the author's point at all. guillaumeb Jan 2019 #30
Yes, people who disagree with you get to post here, too. Mariana Jan 2019 #31
Missing the point and pivoting to a familiar meme guillaumeb Jan 2019 #39
Exactly. I'm so glad you've arrived at this Voltaire2 Jan 2019 #36
... Mariana Jan 2019 #37
Christians condescend - inevitably. Intrinsically Bretton Garcia Jan 2019 #53
Did you ever come up with any actual examples to illustrate your point? Mariana Jan 2019 #6
Sounds a lot like "some people are saying" Major Nikon Jan 2019 #15
Miss me? sprinkleeninow Jan 2019 #41
I have missed you actually Major Nikon Jan 2019 #42
I dislocated my left shoulder Nov. 1 evening with a body slam to the front hall floor. sprinkleeninow Jan 2019 #45
Sorry bout all the bad news Major Nikon Jan 2019 #48
Yes, it's funny the places where you feel you could be yerself. 😉 sprinkleeninow Jan 2019 #49
Wow. I hope your audience brought casseroles over later. Mariana Jan 2019 #50
😄 casseroles...All up and down asked if we needed anything, just say the word. sprinkleeninow Jan 2019 #51
Wise momma. nt. Mariana Jan 2019 #100
She was dat. Her daughter? Ehh, not so much. 😊 sprinkleeninow Jan 2019 #101
I have to ask, how did you happen to splat on the slab? nt? Mariana Jan 2019 #102
I'm a klumjatska! I race around like still 30, 40, 50... sprinkleeninow Jan 2019 #104
Flip flops in January? Mariana Jan 2019 #106
Our heat is on near blast-off. No, not really. 😁 I keep it comfortable here in order for sprinkleeninow Jan 2019 #116
I've missed you, too. Mariana Jan 2019 #44
I wrote a dissertation above to thee Major. sprinkleeninow Jan 2019 #46
You know what would help this forum? Act_of_Reparation Jan 2019 #12
True in many other cases as well Major Nikon Jan 2019 #18
Fewer bad ales being bad ales. sprinkleeninow Jan 2019 #47
I once mentioned to the future pope, Joe Ratzinger ... Bretton Garcia Jan 2019 #55
I was up then down on my shoulder. Hit my eyebrow bone and kinda sprained my left thumb. sprinkleeninow Jan 2019 #88
Looks like we have some agreement ! Bretton Garcia Jan 2019 #97
I get where you are coming from. MarvinGardens Jan 2019 #25
"calling someone stupid is going to piss them off and not convince them one bit" trotsky Jan 2019 #26
Like I said, I assume folks in the Religion group can handle it. MarvinGardens Jan 2019 #40
Some of the interactions that get complaints Mariana Jan 2019 #27
Pretty much nailed it right there. trotsky Jan 2019 #28
Recommended. guillaumeb Jan 2019 #32
They should feel that because it is Major Nikon Jan 2019 #43
Guillaumeb embraces "eye for an eye" justice, but demands his opponents "turn the other cheek." trotsky Jan 2019 #62
Christianity is always condescension Bretton Garcia Jan 2019 #54
All I will say HopeAgain Jan 2019 #56
It was the reverse of that for 2,000 years Bretton Garcia Jan 2019 #57
Whataboutism? HopeAgain Jan 2019 #58
You are right, and not a very good discussion of atheism marylandblue Jan 2019 #61
There are TWELVE different groups on DU where believers can avoid opinions that upset them. trotsky Jan 2019 #63
Not speaking for Hope Again, but she has a point marylandblue Jan 2019 #64
"This is not just the fault of atheists here." trotsky Jan 2019 #65
I'm not blaming any point of view HopeAgain Jan 2019 #68
Then target the individuals and posts you think are a problem, instead of making group attacks. trotsky Jan 2019 #69
This is it... HopeAgain Jan 2019 #71
I'm not always "hankering for an argument," but I *will* call out hypocrisy when I see it. trotsky Jan 2019 #73
C'mon Trotsky, you must be hankering for an argument. Mariana Jan 2019 #112
Oh yeah, of course! trotsky Jan 2019 #113
Well, it's obviously your fault, then. Mariana Jan 2019 #115
And yet here you are Major Nikon Jan 2019 #75
The general topic interests me and the group is lively marylandblue Jan 2019 #82
So perhaps we aren't as irredeemable as was suggested Major Nikon Jan 2019 #83
Of course you are not irredeemable, the Great Nothing saves all who believe or don't believe. marylandblue Jan 2019 #85
I don't think emotion really plays into it. Act_of_Reparation Jan 2019 #86
Criticize anything that people are emotionally attached to, and marylandblue Jan 2019 #90
"Human Nature" is a phrase that always sets off my skeptic alarm. Act_of_Reparation Jan 2019 #91
I understand your point about human nature marylandblue Jan 2019 #92
It was a tad hyperbolic, as is my style. Act_of_Reparation Jan 2019 #93
Well, there was that one time, when the guy playing trumpet MineralMan Jan 2019 #94
I was in the band in the fifth grade and we weren't very good marylandblue Jan 2019 #95
Oh, the horror of the elementary school band teacher! MineralMan Jan 2019 #96
So should we overlook the nonsense and irrationality and pretend there must be a better point Major Nikon Jan 2019 #87
Well, if you don't think there is a better point to religion marylandblue Jan 2019 #89
Perhaps there is a better defense Major Nikon Jan 2019 #99
For some things, an emotional defense is the only kind available marylandblue Jan 2019 #107
Sure, and that works on a personal level Major Nikon Jan 2019 #108
Better defenders are hard to come by in general. Mariana Jan 2019 #105
I think they want nicer disagreements. marylandblue Jan 2019 #109
They're not likely to get it Mariana Jan 2019 #114
Opinions don't upset me HopeAgain Jan 2019 #66
The arrogance of wanting to silence opinions is worse, I think. n/t trotsky Jan 2019 #67
Be as athiest as you want. HopeAgain Jan 2019 #70
Another group attack. trotsky Jan 2019 #72
So predictable. nt. Mariana Jan 2019 #74
Lost count of how many times we've seen this play out. trotsky Jan 2019 #80
It's more like a partial group attack Major Nikon Jan 2019 #77
Nasty believers who dismiss the RCC's sex abuse scandals, or are homophobic, or transphobic. trotsky Jan 2019 #78
But asking people with rational objections to just drop them Bretton Garcia Jan 2019 #98
Mote in your Brother's eye... uriel1972 Jan 2019 #111
Then, I suggest that you start some pleasant threads about religion. MineralMan Jan 2019 #76
Seems like it's just easier to drop a giant turd in the punch bowl, trotsky Jan 2019 #79
Perhaps so. MineralMan Jan 2019 #81
That isn't unique to this group Major Nikon Jan 2019 #84
Atheism is not a religion... uriel1972 Jan 2019 #110
My dad would get on his knees and pray he'd always be an atheist. Beakybird Jan 2019 #103
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