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Digit

(6,163 posts)
7. One of my oldest friends cut ME out of her life
Tue May 22, 2012, 10:07 PM
May 2012

She could not understand why I voted for and (horror!) worked for the Obama campaign last time around. She would call me
drunk out of her mind seething in venom about Obama and his birth certificate, yada, yada, yada. Our friendship went back to 1971
and I seriously think Fox poisoned her mind. Every single negative Obama rumor, my phone would ring. She had never acted this.

I would be delighted to drop politics and speak with her about any other subject but she would not leave it alone.
I was revulsed by the way she spoke about people from different cultures and people who were unemployed. I reminded her I was
unemployed (I have a job now).
I do miss her, but I don't know her anymore.

With some, you can call a truce and not talk politics, others you may have to cut loose, at least for now.
It really is a shame.

Ain't got none, that I can recall elleng May 2012 #1
I generally avoid conservative types. BlueIris May 2012 #2
Wow, good question... kimmerspixelated May 2012 #3
I just got into a fight with two acquaintances that are birthers. Cleita May 2012 #4
My sis and bil are Republicans. Habibi May 2012 #5
Agree not to talk about it. calikid May 2012 #6
One of my oldest friends cut ME out of her life Digit May 2012 #7
I know Ricochet21 May 2012 #8
No discussions on politics or religion. GardeningGal May 2012 #9
Banned religion and politics in conversation felix_numinous May 2012 #10
What a brilliant (and helpful) reply! OneGrassRoot May 2012 #11
+1000 silverweb May 2012 #15
My husband get the red out May 2012 #12
Neptune Ricochet21 May 2012 #16
Enjoy what you have in common LiberalEsto May 2012 #13
I know people who are both Republicans and Christian fundamentalists. trolling4dollaz May 2012 #14
Majority get the red out May 2012 #17
Generally I try NOT to discuss politics w/them. southerncrone May 2012 #18
I always warn the ones who STILL want to talk politics yellerpup May 2012 #19
That's the best way to handle it. kimmerspixelated May 2012 #20
If we are out in public, such as hanging at the local pub yellerpup May 2012 #22
I have done that pretty effectively with my dad.... SalviaBlue May 2012 #21
Good strategy. yellerpup May 2012 #23
One astrological question felix_numinous May 2012 #24
That was when Pluto entered Capricorn on 1/25/08 Ricochet21 May 2012 #26
Awesome Rick!! felix_numinous May 2012 #28
We don't discuss it sandyshoes17 May 2012 #25
I can't lump all Republicans together. Different strokes for different folks--ya know? davsand May 2012 #27
Earlier this week I had a Physician yelling at me at work about freaking Obama and "Kenya" sybster1000 May 2012 #29
The die hard wing nuts are like rapists kimmerspixelated May 2012 #30
Haha sandyshoes17 May 2012 #32
I have none, so that takes care of that. BlueToTheBone May 2012 #31
I try to look past their politics. japple May 2012 #33
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