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japple

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33. I try to look past their politics.
Sun May 27, 2012, 06:47 PM
May 2012

Last edited Sun May 27, 2012, 08:43 PM - Edit history (1)

This one is very hard for me. I live in a red community, red county, in a red state. I work in a department at the hospital where I am the token liberal employee. Fortunately, most of my family members are liberal/progressive, and I have friendships, associations with people who are kindred spirits. I do feel lonely and isolated at times, but I feel that I am here in this place at this time to make a difference. These republicans, right-wing nut jobs, et. al. are my brothers and sisters, too. We all have to learn to live together in spite of our political/social views. I'm still learning.

Edit to add: I vacillate between being angry at having to defend myself and being sorry for the people who are so entrenched in ignorance and bigotry. I am not sure that I'll ever be able to make a difference, but I hope that I can show my faith in humanity and share my beliefs that we are one.

Ain't got none, that I can recall elleng May 2012 #1
I generally avoid conservative types. BlueIris May 2012 #2
Wow, good question... kimmerspixelated May 2012 #3
I just got into a fight with two acquaintances that are birthers. Cleita May 2012 #4
My sis and bil are Republicans. Habibi May 2012 #5
Agree not to talk about it. calikid May 2012 #6
One of my oldest friends cut ME out of her life Digit May 2012 #7
I know Ricochet21 May 2012 #8
No discussions on politics or religion. GardeningGal May 2012 #9
Banned religion and politics in conversation felix_numinous May 2012 #10
What a brilliant (and helpful) reply! OneGrassRoot May 2012 #11
+1000 silverweb May 2012 #15
My husband get the red out May 2012 #12
Neptune Ricochet21 May 2012 #16
Enjoy what you have in common LiberalEsto May 2012 #13
I know people who are both Republicans and Christian fundamentalists. trolling4dollaz May 2012 #14
Majority get the red out May 2012 #17
Generally I try NOT to discuss politics w/them. southerncrone May 2012 #18
I always warn the ones who STILL want to talk politics yellerpup May 2012 #19
That's the best way to handle it. kimmerspixelated May 2012 #20
If we are out in public, such as hanging at the local pub yellerpup May 2012 #22
I have done that pretty effectively with my dad.... SalviaBlue May 2012 #21
Good strategy. yellerpup May 2012 #23
One astrological question felix_numinous May 2012 #24
That was when Pluto entered Capricorn on 1/25/08 Ricochet21 May 2012 #26
Awesome Rick!! felix_numinous May 2012 #28
We don't discuss it sandyshoes17 May 2012 #25
I can't lump all Republicans together. Different strokes for different folks--ya know? davsand May 2012 #27
Earlier this week I had a Physician yelling at me at work about freaking Obama and "Kenya" sybster1000 May 2012 #29
The die hard wing nuts are like rapists kimmerspixelated May 2012 #30
Haha sandyshoes17 May 2012 #32
I have none, so that takes care of that. BlueToTheBone May 2012 #31
I try to look past their politics. japple May 2012 #33
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