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Atheists & Agnostics

OriginalGeek

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24. It starts way early.

Reply to JRLeft (Reply #22)

Mon Jan 11, 2016, 03:55 PM

Jan 2016

like pre-pre-school early. From the time we joined the fundamentalist baptist church (we were religious from my youth but my mom didn't get fundie until she divorced my dad and married step-asshole when I was 10 or so) it was drilled into me how women were here to support me and drilled into women that was what their god expected.

Great deal for me but shitty one for all my female friends. They are indoctrinated daily with it and in a lot of churches they are so isolated from the real world it's years and years before they realize life can and should be different. Sadly, it's too late for most by then.

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Atheism is an old boys' club. More women should admit to being Godless [View all] JRLeft Jan 2016 OP

That doesn't work for all. JNelson6563 Jan 2016 #1

I'm a black man, I haven't told anyone that I'm atheist outside my JRLeft Jan 2016 #2

It's the same in this lily white community too. JNelson6563 Jan 2016 #17

Well, the Fourth Horse -'man' nowadays... onager Jan 2016 #3

This is probably the writer's view, but I suspect most atheist say nothing out JRLeft Jan 2016 #4

Ironically, the Telegraph used a picture of the atheist bus ad with Dawkins but not Ariane Sherine muriel_volestrangler Jan 2016 #5

This message was self-deleted by its author Duppers Jan 2016 #6

So any group that is mostly older white males skepticscott Jan 2016 #7

There are a lot of us. Curmudgeoness Jan 2016 #8

When the RCC has a woman priest marry two lesbians, come back with this headline Lordquinton Jan 2016 #9

I'm a pale male. progressoid Jan 2016 #10

The consequences for being an out atheist are more dire for women Warpy Jan 2016 #11

Being black and an atheist is a quick way to be viewed as someone to avoid. JRLeft Jan 2016 #12

That's true, also, and likely for the same reasons. Warpy Jan 2016 #13

Very true, it's a safe haven. JRLeft Jan 2016 #14

one of my facebook friends is a gay, black atheist OriginalGeek Jan 2016 #23

Yeah he's worse off than I am, homophobia is still very much JRLeft Jan 2016 #27

Ayn Rand edhopper Jan 2016 #15

At least she had one thing right. JRLeft Jan 2016 #16

I remember a headline in some conservative paper... Washington Times perhaps? AlbertCat Jan 2016 #18

Well according to the bible women are suppose to worship their husband and obey him. JRLeft Jan 2016 #19

I'm sure some women like that RussBLib Jan 2016 #21

I'm always astonished by the amount of women who are willing to submit to their husbands. JRLeft Jan 2016 #22

It starts way early. OriginalGeek Jan 2016 #24

and so we see again how important it is to "get them" when they are young... RussBLib Jan 2016 #25

Religious indoctrination JRLeft Jan 2016 #28

If we're a club, then we have a super loose definition of "club." Iggo Jan 2016 #20

My Free-thinkers groups are at least 50% women. Great women. lindysalsagal Jan 2016 #26

Could very well be. onager Jan 2016 #29

Right about that. I don't date believers anymore. No way. I'm done with it. lindysalsagal Jan 2016 #30

An old boys' club?.... uriel1972 Jan 2016 #31