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pnwmom

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54. That seems to be a common theme. The sense of loss never really goes away
Thu May 24, 2018, 09:54 PM
May 2018

but you learn to live with it.

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... RKP5637 May 2018 #1
It's OK and much love to you vercetti2021 May 2018 #2
I went to a meeting this weekend and there was a young woman there pnwmom May 2018 #3
I'm very sorry vercetti2021 May 2018 #6
I'm so sorry. MontanaMama May 2018 #4
Thank you, MontanaMama. pnwmom May 2018 #7
I truly believe your mother is not far away. Frustratedlady May 2018 #5
I need to hope that. I framed a picture that I love, and kept it near. pnwmom May 2018 #16
She heard you, I'm sure of it. fierywoman May 2018 #8
I'm so sorry. I talked to my mom early one Sat evening in 2005 redstateblues May 2018 #9
It will get better. Mike Rows His Boat May 2018 #10
Thank you for reaching out, Mike Rows His Boat. pnwmom May 2018 #15
I was 2 thousand miles away when both my parents passed away. Wwcd May 2018 #11
Thank you, my friend. pnwmom May 2018 #14
Yup. Hugs to you too. Wwcd May 2018 #17
My mom passed 2 months ago. Eko May 2018 #12
And it's exhausting to be always trying to hold it together. pnwmom May 2018 #13
Yes it is. Eko May 2018 #21
Oh I'm very sorry. LisaM May 2018 #18
Thank you, LisaM! pnwmom May 2018 #20
Sorry... JoeOtterbein May 2018 #19
The (undeserved) guilt will ease. alwaysinasnit May 2018 #22
I'm so sorry Phoenix61 May 2018 #23
It's okay. You will get through this. PoindexterOglethorpe May 2018 #24
Hugs! radical noodle May 2018 #25
Take care of yourself, pnwmom. kag May 2018 #26
Thank you, kag! pnwmom May 2018 #30
My grief counselor said that happens... Kittycow May 2018 #39
Peace to you and your family riversedge May 2018 #27
Best wishes during your difficult time grantcart May 2018 #28
I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my mother almost 10 years ago, in a similar unexpected fashion. vsrazdem May 2018 #29
When my mom had a medical emergency in FLA, she had to come up sprinkleeninow May 2018 #56
my mother had Alzheimer's.... chillfactor May 2018 #31
You lost your mother before her body finally gave out -- I'm so sorry. pnwmom May 2018 #32
I am so very sorry, pnwmom. I lost my mom a year and a half ago. Silver Gaia May 2018 #33
She was an ice cream lover and I think she mysteriously transferred that to me. pnwmom May 2018 #34
That is so sweet... in more ways than one. Silver Gaia May 2018 #35
Ok you got me with ice cream IADEMO2004 May 2018 #40
i'm so sorry you're going through this orleans May 2018 #36
Thank you so much, orleans. pnwmom May 2018 #37
Please allow yourself to feel whatever comes up. Laffy Kat May 2018 #38
I'm so sorry for your loss. LiberalLoner May 2018 #41
So sorry MFM008 May 2018 #42
My heart goes out to you Soxfan58 May 2018 #43
Peace to you and yours, pnwmom. sheshe2 May 2018 #44
My mother died from a brain tumor. NNadir May 2018 #45
I am so sorry, pnwmom! brer cat May 2018 #46
two months since my mom died DonCoquixote May 2018 #47
How are you feeling today? Mike Rows His Boat May 2018 #48
A little better than yesterday. Yes -- that mind loop is something else. pnwmom May 2018 #49
That's what I received! I'd start crying when something reminded me of her, and sprinkleeninow May 2018 #55
I am so sorry for your loss. Lifelong Protester May 2018 #50
That seems to be a common theme. The sense of loss never really goes away pnwmom May 2018 #54
My condolences to you. +++++++++ spooky3 May 2018 #51
I'm so sorry! The Velveteen Ocelot May 2018 #52
Hmm. Crutchez_CuiBono May 2018 #53
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