Bereavement

vlyons

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15. I am so sorry that you have to endure such an unfortunate situation

Thu Dec 13, 2018, 07:31 PM

Dec 2018

and sorry for your sons too. I am just finishing up a workshop on death and dying from the Tibetan Buddhist perspective. One day, I shall die and the only thing that I shall take with me is my mind. Meaning that my habitual ways of thinking go with me. That's why it is ever so important to practice maintaining a peaceful and compassionate mind in this life right here. May your husband be reborn into a loving family and have the most auspicious rebirth possible.

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I'm officially a widow as of this afternoon--update [View all] mnhtnbb Dec 2018 OP

Terribly sorry for your situation Sherman A1 Dec 2018 #1

((mnhtnbb)) blm Dec 2018 #2

My heart truly goes out to you Siwsan Dec 2018 #3

My heart is with you. ZZenith Dec 2018 #4

Oh, I'm sorry. LisaM Dec 2018 #5

I'm very sorry to hear... Dennis Donovan Dec 2018 #6

So sorry for your loss. I hope you have intheozone Dec 2018 #7

I am so sorry for your sons and for you. Liberty Belle Dec 2018 #8

Thank you for sharing. May you and your sons find peace. MLAA Dec 2018 #9

"Perhaps it was just more than he could bear" left-of-center2012 Dec 2018 #10

Oh dear! 2naSalit Dec 2018 #11

So very sorry Zoonart Dec 2018 #12

I'm so sorry but glad this ordeal is coming to a close for you. Jarqui Dec 2018 #13

Oh my dear mnhtnbb....... CaliforniaPeggy Dec 2018 #14

I am so sorry that you have to endure such an unfortunate situation vlyons Dec 2018 #15

I am so very sorry for your loss. sheshe2 Dec 2018 #16

I'm So Very Sorry for You and Your Sons dlk Dec 2018 #17

I am so sorry this happened to you and your family. badhair77 Dec 2018 #18

I'm so sorry, mnhtnbb Adsos Letter Dec 2018 #19

Condolences. InAbLuEsTaTe Dec 2018 #20

So sorry Karadeniz Dec 2018 #21

People do strange things when they are ill malaise Dec 2018 #22

Wishing you peace, love, and strength. Ohiogal Dec 2018 #23

I am deeply deeply sorry for your and your sons great loss. irisblue Dec 2018 #24

Very sorry shenmue Dec 2018 #25

I am so very sorry for you and your sons. May you all find peace pnwmom Dec 2018 #26

I'm so sorry. I hope your sons read this. It will help them understand. AnotherMother4Peace Dec 2018 #27

My condolences to you and your sons. EOM tiredtoo Dec 2018 #28

Oh, my. I'm so terribly sorry. Lefta Dissenter Dec 2018 #29

Sending you a hug martigras Dec 2018 #30

My heart hurts for you. Lonestarblue Dec 2018 #31

My heart goes out to you bronxiteforever Dec 2018 #32

mnhtnbb - What to say? I'm sending you love and wishes for more beautiful sunrises Solly Mack Dec 2018 #33

Oh my. I don't know what to say. llmart Dec 2018 #34

There are simply times that we cannot help someone. TNNurse Dec 2018 #35

I'm very sorry for your loss and your difficult situation. yardwork Dec 2018 #36

I am so sorry! gopiscrap Dec 2018 #37

So very sorry snowybirdie Dec 2018 #38

I send you universes full of peace. I'm so sorry for your experience. fierywoman Dec 2018 #39

And the Wheel turns. WheelWalker Dec 2018 #40

As a survivor of suicide loss myself littlemissmartypants Dec 2018 #41

I am very sorry for your loss. I do hope your sons and you find solace and strength in each LoisB Dec 2018 #42

I'm so sorry. This was hard to read. mountain grammy Dec 2018 #43

I'm truly, deeply sorry you've been through so much pain. herding cats Dec 2018 #44

💔 Stellar Dec 2018 #45

OH MY! elleng Dec 2018 #46

I'm so sorry. Your sons will need support though this. My sister sinkingfeeling Dec 2018 #47

I'm so very sorry. catrose Dec 2018 #48

Sorry for your loss Bettie Dec 2018 #49

I am very sorry for your loss. EllieBC Dec 2018 #50

I'm at a loss for words ... I hope you all can eventually find peace. CaptainTruth Dec 2018 #51

Wishing you strength Mira Dec 2018 #52

love and healing to you A-Schwarzenegger Dec 2018 #53

Deepest sympathy. Scarsdale Dec 2018 #54

Our condolences and a hug cp Dec 2018 #55

My condolescences to you and your sons. You went through this out of love. You're human. ancianita Dec 2018 #56

The whole series is such a tragedy for all of you. JohnnyLib2 Dec 2018 #57

So sorry you and your sons have this very difficult situation to deal with steventh Dec 2018 #58

I too am very sorry. It took a lot of strength to spooky3 Dec 2018 #59

Thank you for sharing! BadGimp Dec 2018 #60

So sorry to hear about all you've had to endure. Wishing you peace now... JudyM Dec 2018 #61

My sincerest condolences. Maraya1969 Dec 2018 #62

I am so sorry about this KT2000 Dec 2018 #63

Thank you all so much. mnhtnbb Dec 2018 #64

:hug: elleng Dec 2018 #65

Thanks, elleng mnhtnbb Dec 2018 #85

Glad you were with your oldest son, elleng Dec 2018 #87

That's exciting news! mnhtnbb Dec 2018 #90

I'm so sorry this happened to you and your sons wryter2000 Dec 2018 #66

What a terrible year this has been for you. I hope that the next year will be a healing one grantcart Dec 2018 #67

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What's done is done, TheCowsCameHome Dec 2018 #69

I'm so sorry karin_sj Dec 2018 #70

I had friends whose parents had Lewy Body mnhtnbb Dec 2018 #86

I'm so sorry for you. greymattermom Dec 2018 #71

((((mnhtnbb)))) Hekate Dec 2018 #72

You are strong. Be strong for everyone else too. No one ever truly understands the mind of a ... SWBTATTReg Dec 2018 #73

Very sorry. Owl Dec 2018 #74

Sympathies to you and your family lillypaddle Dec 2018 #75

I offer you all of my empathy. nt TwistOneUp Dec 2018 #76

So sorry for you and your sons. dem in texas Dec 2018 #77

He did leave a will mnhtnbb Dec 2018 #88

I am sorry for your loss, firstwife Dec 2018 #78

The French have a saying "Sauve qui peut" Save what you can mnhtnbb Dec 2018 #89

Ending are never easy no matter the circumstances. Your's was particularly difficult. Fla Dem Dec 2018 #79

I'm so sorry. n/t area51 Dec 2018 #80

You have my deepest sympathies. hostalover Dec 2018 #81

So sorry JDC Dec 2018 #82

Hugs. I'm so sorry for him, for you, for your sons. Honeycombe8 Dec 2018 #83

Recent widow marehare Dec 2018 #84