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Bereavement

SheltieLover

(60,718 posts)

8. If your parents were in palliative or hospice care,

Reply to RFCalifornia (Reply #5)

Tue Oct 5, 2021, 05:24 PM

Oct 2021

Contact that organization. They will provide 13 months of free therapy to support you through your "year of firsts," birthdays, holidays, etc.

How do you feel when you awaken from the dreams?

Please do seek therapy, preferrably with a hospice as that is their specialty.

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My dad died a year ago, my mother two years ago [View all] RFCalifornia Oct 2021 OP

Did you seek out bereavement counseling? SheltieLover Oct 2021 #1

No. Like a lot of people I thought "I can handle this on my own" RFCalifornia Oct 2021 #5

If your parents were in palliative or hospice care, SheltieLover Oct 2021 #8

That window has long since passed nt RFCalifornia Oct 2021 #11

They can still provide therapy & likely havve groups SheltieLover Oct 2021 #13

Yes, it's completely normal Rorey Oct 2021 #2

The same with me Siwsan Oct 2021 #6

My dad died of a misdiagnosed brain tumor. At first, in my dreams, he was still wasting away Siwsan Oct 2021 #3

I'm so sorry RFCalifornia Oct 2021 #7

I still have one brother Siwsan Oct 2021 #9

That's good RFCalifornia Oct 2021 #12

Dreams about a recently deceased person you cared about are common. Also common, 3Hotdogs Oct 2021 #4

My dad and I had a very complicated relationship RFCalifornia Oct 2021 #10

He was very proud of you Rorey Oct 2021 #16

Thanks RFCalifornia Oct 2021 #19

And seriously... RFCalifornia Oct 2021 #32

You write about his hitch in the army.... WW II? Korea? Both were about that Silent Generation time. 3Hotdogs Oct 2021 #25

Inbetween those RFCalifornia Oct 2021 #29

There is no right way - it's about you - and I should be lisa58 Oct 2021 #14

You are so right! Rorey Oct 2021 #17

My parents died decades ago and I still dream about them. Midnight Writer Oct 2021 #15

They are beautiful RFCalifornia Oct 2021 #31

You bet. I only had one dream about my dad. I was sitting in a chair with a chair board desk ... marble falls Oct 2021 #18

My father passed away 30 years ago. FuzzyRabbit Oct 2021 #20

Hold on to those because... RFCalifornia Oct 2021 #30

I lost my dad MFM008 Oct 2021 #21

We scattered my mom's ashes off the Golden Gate Bridge RFCalifornia Oct 2021 #22

Good places MFM008 Oct 2021 #23

My life with my dad was very easy, we both enjoyed the same things and loved spending time together. Enter stage left Oct 2021 #24

I will my friend :) RFCalifornia Oct 2021 #27

I think Rebl2 Oct 2021 #26

I get it nt RFCalifornia Oct 2021 #28