Bereavement

Captain Zero

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73. Sorry for your loss of sister, Jane.

Sun Jul 9, 2023, 09:55 AM

Jul 2023

I've known a twin who lost their twin in adulthood. It is a deep grief, because the twin bond is much more than a sibling bond, it really is. It's ok to acknowledge that this deeply affecting you because you two were closer than siblings, actually closer in a different way than a spouse or partner. Please take care of yourself and support her husband as well. Sending good vibes, all that I can...

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My twin sister died yesterday. [View all] babylonsister Jul 2023 OP

I am so sorry Rorey Jul 2023 #1

Heartfelt condolences to you Babylon. Irish_Dem Jul 2023 #2

Losing my younger sister is still so painful. I can't even begin to imagine losing a twin Siwsan Jul 2023 #3

I am so sorry True Blue American Jul 2023 #4

Oh no. That is so hard. I'm sorry. Scrivener7 Jul 2023 #5

Brokenhearted for you. SalmonChantedEvening Jul 2023 #6

I am so sorry. murielm99 Jul 2023 #7

I am so very sorry. And yes, fuck cancer! GPV Jul 2023 #8

So sorry for your loss babylonsister Hugh_Lebowski Jul 2023 #9

There's just too much loss - Fuck cancer. marble falls Jul 2023 #10

My heart is with you Goddessartist Jul 2023 #11

Oh babylonsister- I am so so sorry for your loss ms liberty Jul 2023 #12

I am so sorry. TNNurse Jul 2023 #13

So sorry bucolic_frolic Jul 2023 #14

Babylonsister, I am so sorry. bronxiteforever Jul 2023 #15

My heart goes out to you. multigraincracker Jul 2023 #16

I've lost two siblings PatSeg Jul 2023 #17

I am so very sorry 😢 Scottie Mom Jul 2023 #18

Deepest condolences Babylonsister jmbar2 Jul 2023 #19

I lost 2 siblings to cancer. Cancer does indeed suck. BoomaofBandM Jul 2023 #20

I'm so sorry for your loss. area51 Jul 2023 #21

So very sorry for you and your families loss, and what your sister went through JohnSJ Jul 2023 #22

My deepest condolences to you and your family. sinkingfeeling Jul 2023 #23

I'm sorry for your loss. My mom had a similar louslobbs Jul 2023 #24

My deepest condolences. greatauntoftriplets Jul 2023 #25

I'm so sorry, babylonsister. Solly Mack Jul 2023 #26

That must hurt malaise Jul 2023 #27

❤️ ✿❧🌿❧✿ ❤️ Lucinda Jul 2023 #28

I don't have words to express how sorry I am for your loss. femmedem Jul 2023 #29

Oh my ... Delphinus Jul 2023 #30

Oh babylonsister, what a terrible loss! Wicked Blue Jul 2023 #31

My condolences Picaro Jul 2023 #32

I am sorry for your loss cate94 Jul 2023 #33

{{{{{}}}}} quaint Jul 2023 #34

Heavens, babylonsister. I'm so very sorry. hlthe2b Jul 2023 #35

May she rest in peace LuvLoogie Jul 2023 #36

What ann enormous loss, what a moonscape Jul 2023 #37

My sympathy to you, the family and all who knew and livetohike Jul 2023 #38

I am so sorry for you and your sister having to go through this hell. CousinIT Jul 2023 #39

I am so sorry for you losing your twin sister. How very heart wrenching. Fla Dem Jul 2023 #40

Sincere condokences, babylonsister. pazzyanne Jul 2023 #41

I am so sorry tavernier Jul 2023 #42

Very sorry to hear this. GreenWave Jul 2023 #43

Condolences to you. Nt spooky3 Jul 2023 #44

My deepest condolences on this incredibly sad loss. May she, and all who love niyad Jul 2023 #45

RIP Dr. Shepper Jul 2023 #46

losing a sibling is so hard. mopinko Jul 2023 #47

May peace come to you & your family. So sorry for your loss. JustinBulletin Jul 2023 #48

My heart goes out to you. Losing a sibling is so hard. Loosing a twin must be almost unbearable. ratchiweenie Jul 2023 #49

... 2naSalit Jul 2023 #50

May Jane Rest in Peace. madaboutharry Jul 2023 #51

So sorry for Rebl2 Jul 2023 #52

Sending love to you and yours. Hope22 Jul 2023 #53

I am so very sorry, babylonsister. I agree, #FUCKCANCER. LoisB Jul 2023 #54

So very sorry for your loss. Your sister sounds brave. nt TeamProg Jul 2023 #55

I am so sorry for your loss. It must be hard losing such a close sibling. Maraya1969 Jul 2023 #56

I am so sorry for your loss. Grumpy Old Guy Jul 2023 #57

My best friend from college died from pancreatic cancer... ananda Jul 2023 #58

Fuck Cancer mercuryblues Jul 2023 #59

My deepest condolences and most heartfelt sympathy, babylonsister. 50 Shades Of Blue Jul 2023 #60

I'm so sorry! Ocelot II Jul 2023 #61

My deepest condolences to you on the loss of your beloved sister.💔 virgdem Jul 2023 #62

Sorry for your loss. It is really hard to lose a sibling. n/t PatrickforB Jul 2023 #63

My deepest condolences. sellitman Jul 2023 #64

I'm so very sorry. fierywoman Jul 2023 #65

i am so sorry for the loss of your sister. dawn5651 Jul 2023 #66

My deepest condolences to you and your family during this trying time. TheBlackAdder Jul 2023 #67

My dear babylonsister, my heart goes out to you at this stressful time. CaliforniaPeggy Jul 2023 #68

So very sorry. Sisters are precious. TdeV Jul 2023 #69

deepest condolences llashram Jul 2023 #70

My sister has been fighting it as well. She is making preparations now to pass on. flying_wahini Jul 2023 #71

I'm so sorry for your loss. piddyprints Jul 2023 #72

Sorry for your loss of sister, Jane. Captain Zero Jul 2023 #73

So sorry for your loss tenderfoot Jul 2023 #74

My sincerest condolences. It is always so very hard to lose a loved one, KPN Jul 2023 #75

My deepest condolences on your loss. (eom) StevieM Jul 2023 #76

Sending my deepest condolences Tumbulu Jul 2023 #77

I am so sorry for your loss, bsis. sheshe2 Jul 2023 #78

I'm sorry for your sister's suffering, babylonsister - cilla4progress Jul 2023 #79

Condolences... MiHale Jul 2023 #80

I am so sorry for your loss. Kali Jul 2023 #81

I'm so so sorry, babylonsister! BComplex Jul 2023 #82

Deepest condolences. I am deeply sorry for your loss. onecaliberal Jul 2023 #83

That's so sad. Condolences to you and your family. Oopsie Daisy Jul 2023 #84

My deepest sympathies. CrispyQ Jul 2023 #85

I am so sorry, babylonsister. tblue37 Jul 2023 #86

So sorry for your loss Babylonsister kimbutgar Jul 2023 #87

I'm so sorry, babylonsister. Twins are so close, and I can't imagine how hard highplainsdem Jul 2023 #88

To watch someone so close to you suffer would be horrendous. pandr32 Jul 2023 #89

Oh, babylonsister, such a cruel loss of your twinsister. 🕯️🕯️ thatcrowwoman Jul 2023 #90

I am so sorry for your loss LetMyPeopleVote Jul 2023 #91

I'm so sorry for your loss babylonsister Uncle Joe Jul 2023 #92

Sending a hug Wild blueberry Jul 2023 #93

My heart goes out to you! Vinnie From Indy Jul 2023 #94

I'm so so sorry ... CaptainTruth Jul 2023 #95

May your memories and the knowledge she is no longer in pain comfort you. MLAA Jul 2023 #96

Sad to read about your sister's pain, and now yours. JudyM Jul 2023 #101

So sorry for the loss of your twin. Desert grandma Jul 2023 #97

I am so very sorry for the loss of your sister. revmclaren Jul 2023 #98

I am so sorry, babsis. brer cat Jul 2023 #99

I am so sorry for your lose, Babylonsister. May her memories be a blessing to you. debm55 Jul 2023 #100

Condolences 3auld6phart Jul 2023 #102

I'm so sorry, babylonsister. intheflow Jul 2023 #103

I'm so sorry babylonsister barbtries Jul 2023 #104

Sending sincere sympathy Danmel Jul 2023 #105

Peace to you babylonsister and a "Fuck Cancer" too. Hugs IA8IT Jul 2023 #106

I'll be thinking of her, and of you. mahina Jul 2023 #107

I am so, so sorry mgardener Jul 2023 #108

Condolences on the loss of your dear sister FakeNoose Jul 2023 #109

I'm so sorry, babylonsister. 💙 Cha Jul 2023 #110

Huge hug flamingdem Jul 2023 #111

I'm so sorry. live love laugh Jul 2023 #112

So sorry! colorado_ufo Jul 2023 #113

Sorry for your loss. AltairIV Jul 2023 #114

FUCK CANCER Blue Owl Jul 2023 #115

Heartbreaking AmBlue Jul 2023 #116

I am so sorry for MuseRider Jul 2023 #117

Love is forever. Jack-o-Lantern Jul 2023 #118

So very sorry connecticut yankee Jul 2023 #119

Yeah, that's kinda how one has to think about it. calimary Jul 2023 #120

May her memory be eternal. Mme. Defarge Jul 2023 #121

Sorry for your loss. May you find some comfort in knowing that DU loves you. marked50 Jul 2023 #122

So sorry for your loss, BabylonSis. No words, just love. n/t TygrBright Jul 2023 #123

My sincere condolences. That is really heartbreaking. Evolve Dammit Jul 2023 #124

I am so sorry to hear that babylonsister. kentuck Jul 2023 #125

Hugs Duncanpup Jul 2023 #126

My condolences to you babylonsister and friends and family Tetrachloride Jul 2023 #127

I'm so sorry wryter2000 Jul 2023 #128

I am so sorry, babylonsister. crickets Jul 2023 #129

*hugs* sakabatou Jul 2023 #130

I'm so sorry mzmolly Jul 2023 #131

This takes my breath away. MontanaMama Jul 2023 #132

;-( elleng Jul 2023 #133

I'm so, so sorry democrank Jul 2023 #134

Thank you all, I love your kindnesses. babylonsister Jul 2023 #135

I am so sorry. ((()))so sad and sorry your sister had so much pain. peacebuzzard Jul 2023 #136

I'm sorry for your loss, babylonsister. yonder Jul 2023 #137

I am so sorry for your loss... Trueblue Texan Jul 2023 #138

I am so sorry. yardwork Jul 2023 #139

So very very sorry, Babylonsister diva77 Jul 2023 #140

Condolences.. raising2moredems Jul 2023 #141

I'm so very sorry for your terrible loss, Babylonsister Hekate Jul 2023 #142

bone cancer is awful. so sorry. pansypoo53219 Jul 2023 #143

I'm so sorry. I cannot imagine what she and your family have been through. AllyCat Jul 2023 #144

I'm so sorry. mountain grammy Jul 2023 #145

🕊️ wishing you sweet memories when thinking of your beloved Jane Deuxcents Jul 2023 #146

I am sorry for your loss icymist Jul 2023 #147

So sorry MFM008 Jul 2023 #148

So very sorry for your loss. May sister RIP... SheilaAnn Jul 2023 #149

Sorry for your loss... cayugafalls Jul 2023 #150

losing a twin has got to be especially hard. My heart is with you during this time of such grief... samnsara Jul 2023 #151

Such a deep personal loss! 😢 Dark n Stormy Knight Sep 2023 #152